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RE: Question For Singles Searching - 2/10/2008 8:59:00 PM

greyangelus

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Used to be, not any more

. No success as of late, but as they say, 'tis only a matter of time and patience.

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RE: Question For Singles Searching - 2/10/2008 11:42:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

No. You've got to dig through a lot of shit to find a diamond, but it's worth it when you do find one!!

Indubitable!

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RE: Question For Singles Searching - 2/11/2008 12:57:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

Do you ever worry that you will get so jaded, that when the right one comes along, you'll push him or her away?

jen

This is something I worry about on a daily basis. The jerk that introduced me to the lifestyle came along around the time my grandmother died so I was very vulnerable. I made it very clear in the beginning that I would never agree to be a friend with benefits, as that is against my morals and therefore a hard limit. He lied about his intentions to get what he wanted. Now that I've met a wonderful guy who says he wants a relationship, I'm constantly afraid that he secretly thinks of me as a friend.

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RE: Question For Singles Searching - 2/11/2008 1:05:14 AM

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Dont worry baby girl I will be your backup one night relationship

incase he thinks of you as a friend

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RE: Question For Singles Searching - 2/11/2008 2:11:28 AM

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Jaded no I do not think so ... not looking for a relationship because I am simply not ready to have one at this time of my life, I thought my last Dom was the one and part of me still does ... does that make me jaded? perhaps a little ... but life is good and there are some truely amazing people out there and at the moment I am happy with he is the One tonight lol ... does that make me a complete feral slut having one hell of a good time ... yeah definately .... but up front and honest so I am not hurting or misleading anyone.

There is way to much beauty and joy in the world to allow yourself to get jaded ... some say that you are most likely to find someone when you are not looking ... part of me hopes this is not true lol ... I really am having way to much fun to settle down lol.

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RE: Question For Singles Searching - 2/11/2008 3:18:15 AM

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I don't proactively seek online anymore, mostly because the average fem/sub can't be bothered with even the most basic of replies.... Izzat jaded? lol

As far as the Net is concerned, I confine myself to emailing those fem/subs who find me.

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RE: Question For Singles Searching - 2/11/2008 5:04:11 AM

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If it isn't the right time, then they aren't the right one.

If you're still protecting yourself because of the last relationship, then Mr Perfect isn't perfect for you at that moment. Which is not to say that if you meet two years later after you've finished grieving and healing he won't then be. But I firmly believe that they can only be the right person for you at that time.

After all your high school sweetheart was the right person then, but there was a reason it didn't last into college years, and why, when you ran into him at a reunion, you didn't get overcome by love and lust, but instead thought "Thank God I didn't marry him".

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