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sammiebabygirl -> Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:39:27 PM)
Do you ever worry that you will get so jaded, that when the right one comes along, you'll push him or her away? jen

GreedyTop -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:40:37 PM)
Already done it a few times..LOL

MzMia -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:42:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop Already done it a few times..LOL Only a few times? I do it so much it has become a test! [;)]

GreedyTop -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:44:47 PM)
LOL Mia.. I was trying to be..um.. conservative? yanno.. to protect whatever there is left of my good rep... snickers

atursvcMaam -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:46:07 PM)
Good question. How many right ones might there be?

MzMia -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:46:31 PM)
LOL Things that make you go hummmm. I am not jaded! I call it having sense and being careful. [;)]

greenearth21 -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:48:29 PM)
I'm already jaded, but doesnt take anything away from talking to someone. I'm pretty up front about my particulars and the phonies tend to go away on their own (which doesnt matter anyway). I dont know if i believe that there is the right one out there for me...there's someone though. Whether they are to be for the moment/the week whatever. I just dont think too much about it anymore.

Bodhisattva007 -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:50:03 PM)
I rarely post, don't hang out in the forums at all, life is too busy and I don't particularly like too much drama, but I felt obliged to answer sammybabygirl's question....... I am just WAY too damn jaded at this point, lol. I have been played here so many times it isn't funny. It would take too long to type all the different ones. I attribute it to everything from men posing as women, to married looking for an online thrill, to those without the gumption to actually act on their fantasies and desires, other than to try to get off online. Regardless, I am officially jaded :-) Bodi

RedMagic1 -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:50:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl Do you ever worry that you will get so jaded, No. People are amazing and beautiful.

LadyLolly -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:52:36 PM)
You mean when they tell you they are not like other Doms and you were meant to be thiers in the first contact you ain't gonna fall to your knees and just sign up on the spot jaded? Seriously, if you find yourself just getting down right hateful and nastey - take a break, breath, regroup and go from there.

MissMagnolia -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:53:35 PM)
No. You've got to dig through a lot of shit to find a diamond, but it's worth it when you do find one!![:)]

lronitulstahp -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:55:16 PM)
No...i am much too amazing and beautiful to allow anyone else to make me become jaded...(winks at Redmagic)

liketophoto -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 7:59:12 PM)
Yes one has to worry about that.

faithbunny -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 8:01:50 PM)
Jaded, no. Terrified, yes. I'm seeing a dom right now who adores me and whom I adore, but he's even more newly single than I am, so we're scared to death of one another. We're open and honest with each other, and that helps keep the fear under control... but the more I grow to care for him, the more nervous he makes me! ; ) ~faith

GreedyTop -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 8:03:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl Do you ever worry that you will get so jaded, No. People are amazing and beautiful. you sap!

GreedyTop -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 8:06:03 PM)
seriously.. the "one", IMNSHO, is the person you find that is worth the effort to mutually work with and towards. Therefore, there may be many who appear to be the ONE, but then for whatever reason don't work out. Jaded? Yes, I am. Optimistic? Have to be. :)

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 8:22:19 PM)
I am jaded. I don't trust submissive men any further than I can throw them; I make an automatic assumption that they're here, saying what they think we want to hear, in order to get laid. (I don't have these issues with women.) I don't think that wanting to get laid as part of all this is a bad thing...it's the manipulative aspect to it. I respect someone a whole lot more if they're just upfront about what they want. In fact, I didn't have a problem with it when I was on adult friend finder looking for sex partners. I met really nice guys, some of whom I'm still friends with. I TRY to not let this distrust get in the way, but it's MUCH worse online. A submissive man has a much better chance of getting to know me if we meet in person...and if he's honest. Master Fire

softness -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 8:27:07 PM)
yes .. no ... not often I dont tend to get jaded ... am described as refreshingly naive .. and think it would take a lot to stop that

shysub0951 -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 8:36:01 PM)
Possibly, but yet i don't think about it that right now since i'm not actively searching since i have my Dom.

Einzelganger -> RE: Question For Singles Searching (2/10/2008 8:51:43 PM)
Good question. Honestly, I get a little jaded during the two times of the year when it sucks to be single (Valentine's Day and the holiday season), but not that much. Aside from that, the way I look at it is that I've that much more time to learn new things that may be of value to my future partner; for instance, learning how to cook a wider variety of meals is my current goal; after I feel like I'm getting somewhere close to that goal, I'll start looking for something else neat I can learn. That way, I can honestly say the time I've spent single will have not been a waste. smiles Just my $0.02, of course... -Einzelgänger

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