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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 2:45:17 PM

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Glancing over your shoulder to get their attention. "you hit like a girl"

LMAO .... I like that one! ...

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 3:15:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Glancing over your shoulder to get their attention. "you hit like a girl"

LMAO .... I like that one! ...

I said that to a fem top I've played with... not as a safeword, just because I knew what would happen :) She KNEW I knew... it was fun :) I love that woman!

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 4:46:50 PM

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Here's the difference between a bottom and a submissive. I tell my partners, when I bottom, that my safe word is "Ow!!" (with roughly the same emphasis that one uses when one misses the nail and hits the thumbnail). Giggling (I tend to get there fast and stay there a lot), moaning, squirming, scratching, squeezing, biting, and just plain screaming in ecstasy...no partner has ever mistaken the diff.

Part of the reason I use it, is that the reaction will happen anyway if something goes too far or too off. I'm not a sub, and never was.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 7:12:30 PM

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Tongue in cheek. I think "Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious " would be a perfect safe word. If the sub/slave can say it during a session I think the Dom/me/Master/Mistress/switch should not only stop what they are doing but they should break out in song.
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That's amazing. I agree about the dance routine.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 7:24:01 PM

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Haha, me and my boy don't scene very hard, so for us the real safeword is "Stop, I'm not fucking kidding." as opposed to just "Noooo...stoooopppp...etc."

I will one day use Blueberry Muffins as my safeword. No way to get that confused.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 7:44:37 PM

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I worked in bars years ago and he hardly swears, I suspect that if I ever have to use a safeword that I will expand his vocabulary

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 7:47:27 PM

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How about diarrhea?

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 9:39:14 PM

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This is not necessarily a safeword, since I doubt it would be the same phrase twice, but when I start cussing like a sailor, he figures I've reached my limit.

It's only happened once-apparently swear words are the only words I can remember at that exact moment.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 9:52:05 PM

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We have a special number and if i ever need help anytime or anywhere i sa the number and he knows that i need him. i've never had to use it yet though

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/31/2008 6:05:24 AM

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I have a friend I've played with occasionally who has a real love/hate relationship with tickling, so I made "Tickle Me" her safe word. She has to hate whatever I'm doing enough to then beg to be tickled. She rarely safewords now, but when she does it just spins the scene off into another direction.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/31/2008 6:11:29 AM

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