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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 10:37:40 AM

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"Green Goddess"... LOL! Your sub is asking for salad dressing??

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 10:39:26 AM

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Anyone think Flame On would work?

Probably not... i use the generic Red, though have never actually safeworded out of anything.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 10:40:59 AM

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Bananas.... I'm not likely to say it during play, though I've not said it yet.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 10:41:48 AM

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Yelling out "wrinkle dick" or "prune tits" (depending on the gender of the dominant) should end a scene. But then again, maybe not.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 10:43:10 AM

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Yelling out "wrinkle dick" or "prune tits" (depending on the gender of the dominant) should end a scene. But then again, maybe not.

omg, thanks for making me choke on my coffee, darch!! dammit! LOLOL

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 11:20:12 AM

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some would argue there is no "safeword" or that they would never use one,, but as for me it is some thing that is agreed apon in the very begiening ,, and this way ,, the slave/sub has the way out if they chose to use it,,
and well as for me i think the best one i ever hear was "bubbles"
other than that they are something like a colour , or a place,, something totaly not any way shape form or fasion related to the act or scene going on ,,, .and it also depends on the slave/sub

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 11:21:53 AM

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great.,.. I can just imagine a dungeon full of leatherclad doms and semi naked subs dancing around singing! LOLOL Thanks SO much for that visual! LOLOL

If we get could them to take ballet and jazz/tap we could put on a show...

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 11:25:14 AM

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great.,.. I can just imagine a dungeon full of leatherclad doms and semi naked subs dancing around singing! LOLOL Thanks SO much for that visual! LOLOL

If we get could them to take ballet and jazz/tap we could put on a show...

Broadway, here we come!
Madonna madonna madonna, fosse fosse fosse!
(I loved Birdcage...LOL)

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 11:26:33 AM

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We use the colors. Yellow to slow down and Red to stop. However, Master watches me and he says if I fail to use my safeword and I should (he can read me very well) Punishment will ensue.

Either ways, it's gonna hurt

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 11:28:50 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

great.,.. I can just imagine a dungeon full of leatherclad doms and semi naked subs dancing around singing! LOLOL Thanks SO much for that visual! LOLOL

If we get could them to take ballet and jazz/tap we could put on a show...

starting to remind me of the Village People,,,
call it the Sounds of BDSM

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 11:29:03 AM

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Ahh the Birdcage, one of my favorite movies!

Now, I'm seeing a row of male doms in black sequined leather for one chorus line, twirling crops like batons. We could make it a romantic comedy with the a solo along the lines "I never thought I'd spank an ass again/Until you walked into the party".

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 11:31:58 AM

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I like the ''lawsuit'' one, especially since mine is ''lawyer''. Although, I have played with a lawyer, so maybe it should be ''enough, you pinstriped asshat!''

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 11:34:29 AM

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Ahh the Birdcage, one of my favorite movies!

Now, I'm seeing a row of male doms in black sequined leather for one chorus line, twirling crops like batons. We could make it a romantic comedy with the a solo along the lines "I never thought I'd spank an ass again/Until you walked into the party".

LMAO!!!!

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 1:00:03 PM

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But ONLY if they wear the appropriate penguin pants. LOL

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 1:33:53 PM

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oh my word! must not drink tea when reading threads like these.... splutter splutter. i'd buy tickets to see that show!!

we have a safe word due to my current condition - we could use armadillo!! its got personal meaning and makes us laugh.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 1:56:16 PM

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 1:59:57 PM

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What's wrong with "get off me you sadistic bastard"?

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 2:00:12 PM

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The safeword I was given originally totally didn't work. It was "crossbeam" or something like that. I can't even remember it now, sitting here under no duress. Yes, it had personal meaning for both of us, but it was too obscure of a word for me to think of during a scene.

In the past, I've have words like aardvark and such, same problem. I'd go with something easy to remember and short in length. For me, "safeword" works, because it covers the concept of the word AND the word itself. So when I'm sitting there (or lying, hanging, writhing, whatever) thinking, what the fuck is my safeword???...the answer is in the question, and it's no longer a problem. So yeah...that's my two cents.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 2:17:55 PM

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We use the stoplight system usually, even though our "official" word is mushroom. It's funny, since the first time I ever had to call yellow, I couldn't remember how to say "yellow" and the Japanese word for it popped out of my mouth (kiiro). We are both students and are taking Japanese at school, so thankfully he can understand me. Now, when we scene, he occasionally asks me "iro deska?" ("what color") or "midoriro deska?" (loosely translated to "are you green"). If I am I'll say "hai" (yes) or if I'm not, I'll say kiiro or akai (red). For some reason, Japanese comes out easier, even if I'm spacing.

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RE: The perfect safeword? - 1/30/2008 2:42:35 PM

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Glancing over your shoulder to get their attention. "you hit like a girl"

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