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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/26/2007 5:25:47 PM   
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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/26/2007 5:33:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		It really depends on the sub. One of my boys is very sensitive, and would be horrified if he did something that so obviously displeased me. Him, I might give a light spanking just to help offset his guilt, then tell him to make it up to me with a massage and by replacing the item. He'd probably give me a wonderful massage, replace the item, take me to dinner, buy me flowers, and give me dozens and dozens of sweet kisses in apology.

Less sensitive subs would probably be more severely punished, especially if I had explicitly told them to be cautious. It really depends on how much of a sincere apology I get vs how many lame excuses I get. I tend to play with boys (and far too occasionally, girls) who crave discipline for misbehavior. Often this is about guilt, so even if I do not feel a certain behavior warrants physical correction, if it is obvious they feel guilty about it I will deliver it to help them let go of their guilt. The severity of this punishment is entirely dependent on what level of correction is required for the sub in question and how truly sorry they really are.

In any case, all would be required to replace the item or compensate me for it's value.

On a rare occasion, if and only if I believe the damage was done consciously or unconsciously on purpose (you know how sometimes subs have cranky phases and seem to go looking for trouble even if they can't admit to themselves that's what they are doing. . .), I may retaliate by dramatically breaking something the sub also values. It wouldn't be something irreplaceable; I am a softy and would, after a certain period of time, replace it, perhaps as gift. I'd only pursue this avenue, however, if I was pretty sure the sub broke the item on purpose or in a fit of sullen carelessness. If any sub of mine goes cruisin' for a bruisin', they are going to get one PLUS a lot more than they bargained for. I might also set a certain daily punishment to be delivered each day until they replace the item. That could get very uncomfortable if it's an expensive item!

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/26/2007 5:38:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Re nephandi, considering how eating is usually a result of stress, increasing the stress by not discussing what caused the breaking of the diet is not the best choice. Body image, comfort eating etc are not things that can be cured with a caning although they can be made much worse by doing so.

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/26/2007 6:15:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL considering how clumsy myself and my partner are, he'd probably have begged me to put bubble wrap around it before we even put it on the shelf.

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/26/2007 7:05:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		If my slave knocked something over and broke it I would think that my slave would need to learn to be more aware of where he/she is in any given space. I would take the slaves sense of sight away by blindfolding him/her and then supervise him/her as she goes about her chores blindfolded. This teaches him/her to be more aware of where they are and more aware of what is around them. Sensory deprivation fun fun! 

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/27/2007 7:13:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hypothetically... Punishment would take the form of her clearing up the mess and receiving a whipping.

Next she would be bound and made to stand in the same position the object had stood. She would be told to remain there in absolute silence for 24 hours with no food.

This makes her mindful of what she has broken and also gives me something beautiful to look at whilst I am waiting for the replacement item to be delivered which is paid for out of her allowance. She would not have the privilege of any communication for 24 hours.

I would use sub 2 for all duties within said time frame. Sub 1 would be reminded of the value of pleasing Master by not being able to participate when sub 2 is pleasuring Master whilst sub 1 stands there unable to move.

When the 24 hours is up she would be told to eat, bathe and write in her journal about her experience.

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/27/2007 12:44:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Thalamus
Next she would be bound and made to stand in the same position the object had stood. She would be told to remain there in absolute silence for 24 hours with no food.


Wow!  What would you do if she had done it on purpose?  Does she get to wear a diaper?

Maybe that is just a joke reply, and my sarcasm meter is off.  That kind of over-reaction to a simply accident reeks of someone who has never been involved in the rearing of a child, much less the owning of a slave.

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/27/2007 1:26:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania


I know the answer to this, Daddy would lecture me on being mindful, and he would be disappointed with my not being mindful with his things. I am a clutz, it is a flaw I have, and he is right... it comes from the fact I do not think about what I am doing

I have a bevy of really wonderful and worthwhile qualities.. but being graceful without thinking is not one of them yet... working on that one.




LMAO....this totally hit a chord with me, as i have recently been receiving this exact lesson....It totally baffled me too, when he told me that it was because i wasn't thinking....HUH???

Example...the weekend after Thanksgiving i was making us left overs....dinner was all ready to go and then as i was taking the gravy out of the fridge i dropped the jar with HIS gravy and it broke in a huge mess all over the kitchen floor....He laughed at me,i cleaned it all up and promptly we went to the store to get more while he "lectured" me on the fact that this had happened because i just didn't think... (so although gravy isn't a prized possession, in that case it would've totally ruined HIS dinner) i would've never thought that thinking was really required to hold on to a jar of gravy, it should kinda just happen....LOL

A few days later a dish broke in the microwave...but he didn't lecture me on that because i had no way to stop or cause it...it just happened.


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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/27/2007 1:53:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi


Again this is merely a game,
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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/27/2007 10:30:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: nephandi

Greetings

Ok to the game. Now i am a slave but i want to play anyway.

Your slave is set on a diet and you later find she have broken her diet by eating candy behind your back. You have put your slave on a diet not just to better her looks but to take care of and protect her health as well. How would you punish her.

i wish you all well.



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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/27/2007 11:11:01 PM   
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He laughed at me,i cleaned it all up and promptly we went to the store to get more while he "lectured" me on the fact that this had happened because i just didn't think... (so although gravy isn't a prized possession, in that case it would've totally ruined HIS dinner) i would've never thought that thinking was really required to hold on to a jar of gravy, it should kinda just happen....LOL


My Daddy says I do not live in the moment mindfully. In other words I am thinking about the next thing I will be doing all the time instead of thinking about the task at hand.. so ask yourself, what were you thinking about when you dropped the gravy?...smiles


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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/27/2007 11:42:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

He laughed at me,i cleaned it all up and promptly we went to the store to get more while he "lectured" me on the fact that this had happened because i just didn't think... (so although gravy isn't a prized possession, in that case it would've totally ruined HIS dinner) i would've never thought that thinking was really required to hold on to a jar of gravy, it should kinda just happen....LOL


My Daddy says I do not live in the moment mindfully. In other words I am thinking about the next thing I will be doing all the time instead of thinking about the task at hand.. so ask yourself, what were you thinking about when you dropped the gravy?...smiles



Good question...probably about getting it on the food, and eating the food....hell i was probably already sitting down to eat in my head. (it all goes so quickly) Whatever it was it wasn't "Hand, continue to hold the gravy...that's it....almost to the counter...keep holding...don't let go."

Definitely something to think about (while not carrying anything important)...i can also relate to your issue with the coffee  :)


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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/28/2007 7:14:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Thalamus

quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi


Again this is merely a game,
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Cool.  I withdraw my shocked outrage.  *smile*


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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 12/28/2007 7:39:15 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Thalamus

Hypothetically... Punishment would take the form of her clearing up the mess and receiving a whipping.

Next she would be bound and made to stand in the same position the object had stood. She would be told to remain there in absolute silence for 24 hours with no food.

This makes her mindful of what she has broken and also gives me something beautiful to look at whilst I am waiting for the replacement item to be delivered which is paid for out of her allowance. She would not have the privilege of any communication for 24 hours.

I would use sub 2 for all duties within said time frame. Sub 1 would be reminded of the value of pleasing Master by not being able to participate when sub 2 is pleasuring Master whilst sub 1 stands there unable to move.

When the 24 hours is up she would be told to eat, bathe and write in her journal about her experience.


45 minutes in after having her knees locked, she faints, breaking her arm and a lamp on the way down.

I suppose you would decide that not taking her to the ER would be appropriate.

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 1/7/2008 11:41:29 PM   
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Good question...probably about getting it on the food, and eating the food....hell i was probably already sitting down to eat in my head. (it all goes so quickly) Whatever it was it wasn't "Hand, continue to hold the gravy...that's it....almost to the counter...keep holding...don't let go."

Definitely something to think about (while not carrying anything important)...i can also relate to your issue with the coffee :)


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quote:

ORIGINAL: pyrobabe

If my slave knocked something over and broke it I would think that my slave would need to learn to be more aware of where he/she is in any given space. I would take the slaves sense of sight away by blindfolding him/her and then supervise him/her as she goes about her chores blindfolded. This teaches him/her to be more aware of where they are and more aware of what is around them. Sensory deprivation fun fun! 


Master after reading my reply said that he would also add a farther challenge of switches on the legs with Athol branches. The slight pain would focus their attention at the same time make an obstacle to memorization. He says the object is not to memorize where everything is in the room like a blind person would, but to instinctively know where you are in time and space to all other objects. Tai Chi teaches that learning how ones molecules displace the molecule of air around you gives you connection to the spirit instantly.

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 1/8/2008 4:05:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirrandpolyfam

He says the object is not to memorize where everything is in the room like a blind person would, but to instinctively know where you are in time and space to all other objects. Tai Chi teaches that learning how ones molecules displace the molecule of air around you gives you connection to the spirit instantly.



Then if such mindfulness can be taught, isn't the problem here that his because he expected you to know how to be mindful without teaching? Shouldn't he have sent you to take tai chi in order to learn it? Instead of punishing you for not having learned something he never bothered to teach you.

And some people are just inherently klutzier than others.

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RE: Round Table of Punishment #3 - 1/8/2008 4:16:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		First, I'd make her read our Safety Procedures Manual - all 412 pages of in small print - and a ssign her to Safety Procedure ReTraining Class. Then she would have to write a Safety Incident Report, detailing the whole destruction process and explaining  what safety rules were breached and what were the "lessons learned". I'd make sure she filled out all os the OSHA-required reports and documents, then have her report to the Total Quality Management Officer to explain her non-conforming behavior and file changes required to the Quality Management Plan to prevent further incidents.

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