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RE: Just one thing - 10/26/2007 7:24:00 PM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/26/2007 7:56:04 PM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/26/2007 8:41:10 PM   
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Was thinking as i browsed the boards this evening, that in the time i've been a member of cm i've recieved and seen some really great, and thoughtful advice.
Subjects, themes, topics, advice, thoughts, opinions here are always really varied but always in my opinion given with the best of intent.
So i thought maybe, maybe not   it would be nice to get a collective of general advice for newbies, not so newbies and definately not newbies .
Sooooooo if you could give just one piece of advice to someone what would it be?


I actually have no thoughtful advice.

I had some thoughtful advice...but then I thought about it....and then I thought again....(and then I couldn't remember the original question).

So....what was the question again?

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RE: Just one thing - 10/26/2007 8:54:37 PM   
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OK, that was more than one but I was having fun with the analogy.

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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 1:54:21 AM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 2:12:40 AM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 4:34:16 AM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 7:16:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Take your time.  Do your own research on the lifestyle and decide what you want to try.  Chat with people into what you like.  Watch some of the how to videos on Collarme.  Take their number and block yours when you call, for more detailed conversations.  Listen carefully and go with your gut if you decide to meet. Meet only in a public place.  If you are'nt feeling the person say that and move on.

If you meet and the chemistry is there proceed with caution.  Lay down ground rules etc.  Be safe and have fun.

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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:18:12 AM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:19:54 AM   
batshalom


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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:21:12 AM   
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Sooooooo if you could give just one piece of advice to someone what would it be?

Be yourself

if you can not adequatly define who YOU are, then stay out of a relationship until you can.

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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:22:43 AM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:23:21 AM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:25:27 AM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:30:41 AM   
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Sooooooo if you could give just one piece of advice to someone what would it be?


Don't take advice.
 

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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:33:39 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Sooooooo if you could give just one piece of advice to someone what would it be?


Don't take advice.
 




lol

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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:35:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kirata

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Sooooooo if you could give just one piece of advice to someone what would it be?


Don't take advice.
 


Even I can agree with this one

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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:37:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kirata

quote:

ORIGINAL: missturbation

Sooooooo if you could give just one piece of advice to someone what would it be?


Don't take advice.
 


Even I can agree with this one

Careful....that almost sounded nice! LOL


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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 10:50:22 AM   
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RE: Just one thing - 10/27/2007 7:38:20 PM   
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