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missturbation -> Just one thing (10/26/2007 2:39:49 PM)
Was thinking as i browsed the boards this evening, that in the time i've been a member of cm i've recieved and seen some really great, and thoughtful advice. Subjects, themes, topics, advice, thoughts, opinions here are always really varied but always in my opinion given with the best of intent. So i thought maybe, maybe not [:D] it would be nice to get a collective of general advice for newbies, not so newbies and definately not newbies [;)]. Sooooooo if you could give just one piece of advice to someone what would it be?

Raechard -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 2:53:09 PM)
Be yourself and just because someone says what you are doing is wrong it doesn't make it so; don’t be so sure they know any better than you.

probablyknowme -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:00:26 PM)
Play safe, and take care of yourself. There isn't anyone who is as invested in your safety as you are. kat

completenz -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:05:48 PM)
trust your own instincts, thats why you have them chrissie

SmokingGun82 -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:06:41 PM)
Several people on here have it in their signatures, and it's a piece of advice I've given to many of my friends in the last few years... Don't make anyone a priority who makes you an option.

wisteriaV -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:15:38 PM)
Ask questions. Tons of Questions. Reword questions so they seems different to see if you get a different response.[8\|]

Celeste43 -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:17:57 PM)
Don't let anyone push you into something you aren't ready for. If they really care about you, they'll wait until you can handle it.

MissMagnolia -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:21:51 PM)
No one is all wrong or all right. Whatever makes sense to you, is what is right for YOU.

Lordandmaster -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:24:05 PM)
Always keep your head lower than his cock.

TotalState -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:32:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SmokingGun82 Don't make anyone a priority who makes you an option. O, I like that one.

octavia -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 3:32:29 PM)
And I believe I learned this little gem from someone here on CM: "when people show you who they are believe them."

hejira92 -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 4:10:55 PM)
Don't be discouraged. You gotta kiss a lot of frogs...... to discover what it is you really want and need.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 4:16:35 PM)
Read these threads: (My advice to Missturbation is to please start making more descriptive subject lines for her threads) My advice for Novice Female Submissives Newbie! At a loss I'm a new domme seeking advice Does a slave also have to be a fool? sub: totally new concept Questions for other newbies The Journey Starting Out New to the Life, Help How to deal? Request for Advice Advice please: Relationships, bdsm, love and boundaries First time sub seeking you advice- how to find the right master? First time sub seeking advice a newbie seeking advice How can I be a great sub? Brand new life Help needed Emotional Rollercoaster Welcoming newbies New to this Just a few questions Do's and Dont's

SageFemmexx -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 4:34:51 PM)
There are as many needy doms as there are subs. The question comes into play whether his needs meet yours. If they don't are you willing to compromise your own in order to meet his? If the answer is yes, then you have to look inside yourself to figure out why you would sacrifice your needs for someone else. If the answer is no, are you strong enough to acknowledge your needs will not be met and walk away. At some point in every D/s relationship, these questions come into play. Blessings and Be well,

LotusSong -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 4:51:50 PM)
My advice is: To build a relationship based on D/s is like building a house on sand. Know who YOU are first. Be a complete person on your own, THEN you will have something to offer another.

PsyVamp -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 6:17:13 PM)
Know who you are first, your likes and dislikes, your wants and needs and then be able and willing to communicate them in a way that people understand. Psy

MrSpectacular -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 6:21:50 PM)
My advice is dont take anything too seriously early on. Get to know someone over a period of weeks and months if need be. Neil

maclough -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 6:39:34 PM)
Never be afraid to learn and never be afraid to help

RRafe -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 6:54:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation Was thinking as i browsed the boards this evening, that in the time i've been a member of cm i've recieved and seen some really great, and thoughtful advice. Subjects, themes, topics, advice, thoughts, opinions here are always really varied but always in my opinion given with the best of intent. So i thought maybe, maybe not [:D] it would be nice to get a collective of general advice for newbies, not so newbies and definately not newbies [;)]. Sooooooo if you could give just one piece of advice to someone what would it be? Doubt everything, if the words don't match the deeds-run.

AEslaveM -> RE: Just one thing (10/26/2007 7:20:12 PM)
What she said..............

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