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RE: Is it just me or do we all lose our erotic creativi... - 10/28/2007 11:38:00 PM   
twelveroundsfan


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Status: offline 		It seems to be perfectly normal for a man to lose all sexual interest after an orgasm. It may not be convenient or desirable, but it's normal. I'm definitely that way, and I get the impression that all of my r/t male friends are as well. If there are men who can cum and keep wanting more, they must be extremely rare.

When I'm in the dominant role, I usually prefer not to have my dick touched until the very end of the night. That way my arousal continually builds, and I'm overflowing with a restless electricity that makes me more and more creative as the night wears on and the girl's tears flow. It's when I'm *shaking* with the desire to fuck her--when I feel I'm going to burst--that I'll suddenly get an idea that's so cruel I just have to turn away for a moment and grin. Then I implement this idea, which makes her moan/cry/writhe more, which increases my arousal...and the spiral continues.

If the problem is that having an orgasm makes you lose your sexual creativity, the answer would seem to be simple: postpone any direct stimulation of your dick until the very end of the scene. Or am I missing something? I guess that solution wouldn't work for you if it's very important to either of you to have sex earlier in the night. I prefer "me clothed/her naked" scenes, so it's never been much of an issue for me. Good luck.

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RE: Is it just me or do we all lose our erotic creativi... - 10/29/2007 11:19:56 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I find orgasms very energizing!  They're just a reset button, really, as PsyVamp says.  What can I say, it's great being a girl. :)

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RE: Is it just me or do we all lose our erotic creativi... - 10/29/2007 6:07:28 PM   
dollenburg


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I find orgasms very energizing!  They're just a reset button, really, as PsyVamp says.  What can I say, it's great being a girl. :)


I find I lose interest after orgasm. Luckily, it takes a VERY LONG time for me to cum, so, I guess, it's the same thing as you in a different way.

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RE: Is it just me or do we all lose our erotic creativi... - 10/29/2007 8:45:18 PM   
Griswold


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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

Okay, here it is again...
I'm not a male and I'm insatiable so having one really big orgasm will slow me down for a couple of seconds while I'm feeling the aftershocks BUT after a few seconds its like starting from the beginning.
After all, orgasms are foreplay..aren't they?


(Silly woman....everyone knows, an orgasm is the beginning of the nonverbal instruction set to grab the TV clicker).

< Message edited by Griswold -- 10/29/2007 8:46:36 PM >

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RE: Is it just me or do we all lose our erotic creativi... - 10/29/2007 8:56:56 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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ORIGINAL: pompeii
Is there any guy out there who has had orgasm without ejaculation?

It works both ways, you can have an orgasm without ejaculation, and you can ejaculate without orgasm... they just HAPPEN to be linked about 99% of the time.
As to losing erotic creativity.. as a female I dont. And as a male, Fox doesnt. So, I guess it isnt always that way.  For some, it is, ust like after you cum you want nothing more than a cigarette and a nap...

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RE: Is it just me or do we all lose our erotic creativi... - 10/29/2007 10:18:06 PM   
slave4urneeds


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Status: offline 		i don't know if it happens so much after orgasm, but after an intense scene...  Face it i am cooked LOL

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