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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 7:00:43 AM

LATEXBABY64

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ORIGINAL: goddessAVA

first this is NOT the place to find a pro-I come on here for fun, all the reputable Doms/Dommes are on real pro websites-try eros or max fisch. Second-woman always tend to have the upper hand, Domme or sub, like it or not-I have seen women who would scare the dead get much better looking partners because they are willing to take a very heavy beating-we really are able to make the rules since we can get endless cock with what we have!
never forget ladies there is NO cock shortage-you can replace anything you have lost with something bigger and better.............

um how do you explain the Donald but there is always a exception to every rule lol

you know the one thing about this and every ds site is. It seems Everyone has become analytical political Ho s of the on line ds world and some off line. They always seem to be more about separation then unification. that being about family belonging to
your other Some times I feel like i am in the LAND OF THE LOST . have to watch out or a salezzestack will get ya.

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 7:07:42 AM

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Because I have never served or submitted before

just for clarity - i don't say Domme because it is a psuedo-french bastardization...Dom is short for Dominant...there is not a inherently different male or female long version, i don't type an inherently different short version...think about it with sub...we don't call female subs subbe's

the key problem i see lays in in your concept of what a ProDom is....in all actuallity what they get paid for most, if not all the time, in my opinion, is being a Service Top....you do not serve or submit to them, they are giving you a service by topping you - bdsm play in whatever form you may want....

which is fine and dandy and awesome and if i could afford it, i would probably do it rather than deal with working around schedules of people i know and play party schedules and family schedules etc....heck i don't even mind going to a FemaleProDom....but it doesn't prepare you for a D/s relationship....it can expose you to play....i have seen Dominants have to fight with submissives who have been to ProDoms because they think that thats how you negotiate a scene with everyone...and then when the Dom goes well this isn't going to work, the sub freaks out and then the fighting ensues (not a fight fight, but like a tug of war)

but yea....if you want to experience play, thats fine...but don't expect to serve or submit....

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 7:10:27 AM

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The power dynamic of men over women exists; it's not something illusionary like most guys seem to think. But it takes a very careful strategy to maintain it... finding a man that can walk that line is just as difficult as finding a really beautiful woman, and most of those men end up out of casual reach for *anyone*. All of which is to say, that a Dom that can turn pro for women generally got there by doing things that have nothing to do with BDSM, and he's making much more money and enjoyment that way anyway.

there are gay Tops in the scene that could probably be ProDoms that would have women pay them to beat on them because they excrete raw power and sex from their pores...i just want to rub against them sometimes....actually i do at times...in passing...i put myself in a crowded hall with them...hehe

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 7:17:47 AM

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the key problem i see lays in in your concept of what a ProDom is....in all actuallity what they get paid for most, if not all the time, in my opinion, is being a Service Top....you do not serve or submit to them, they are giving you a service by topping you - bdsm play in whatever form you may want....

Actually from where I'm standing the key problem lays in *your* concept of what a pro dom is ...

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just for clarity - i don't say Domme because it is a psuedo-french bastardization...Dom is short for Dominant...there is not a inherently different male or female long version, i don't type an inherently different short version...think about it with sub...we don't call female subs subbe's

Just for clarity - I don't say Service Top because it is a psuedo-bullshit homogenised bastardization of pro dom...pro dom is short for Professional Dominant...

I don't type an inherently different versions...think about it with sub...we don't call female subs subbe's nor do we call them service sluts

Don't preach what you are not practicing.

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 7:21:45 AM

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i didn't say thats the only thing a Pro Dom does, i said thats what they get paid for...don't get your panties in a wad....

edited to add: and in anycase i did say: "in my opinion" which at any time is not a stated fact, but "a personal belief of judgment that is not founded on proof or certainty"

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 8:40:26 PM

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Hey! Hire me .... uh.... for free even!
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Thanks for the offer, California isn't all that close to me, that would be some REALLY expensive sex....are you THAT good?

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 8:41:34 PM

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(looks down) yup I'm not one of those

are you sure? i do free boobie checks

chelle....something about you doing free boobie checks is very appealing, lol.

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 10:53:16 PM

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chelle....something about you doing free boobie checks is very appealing, lol.

why thank you....do you want it slow and easy or fast and rough...either way it will take 30 minutes to two hours to make a final decision....

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/26/2007 10:56:38 PM

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chelle....something about you doing free boobie checks is very appealing, lol.

why thank you....do you want it slow and easy or fast and rough...either way it will take 30 minutes to two hours to make a final decision....

why fast and rough of course
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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/27/2007 9:57:31 AM

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oh you must have them lined up around the block-how you studs even find time to post between pussy.....................These women must be DYING for you, and the rejection, oh how can they stand it

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/27/2007 9:58:50 AM

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uh what? the Donald......huh?

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/27/2007 2:03:47 PM

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A friend of mine was a Pro-Domme. She never received any inquires from any female for Her services. In the 1980's there was a much publisized police raid on a Pro-Domme. The TV stations called Her a prostitute. All charges against Her were dropped when the police could never prove that She ever had intercouce with any of Her cliants. The TV stations never reported the dropping of Her charges.

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RE: men vs women and use of Pros - 9/27/2007 2:25:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

Golly, if I could find a Pro male Dom, I'd use one. Simply because I don't have time for any kind of relationship right now (not for a few months, as I am moving, and very busy).

But I haven't seen any listed anywhere for my town, and even on this site, there are only about 4 or 5 (compared to hundreds of Pro Dommes) listed in the "Professional Services" section.

- Susan

I have a friend on IC who is, mind you he mostly plays for fun!

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