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ORIGINAL: highrider774 I've had this problem dealing with things lately. I'm submissive, every so often I'll get to where I can't respond around friends or family with a clear head sometimes. I don't know how to respond, or I just won't respond. This happens every so often. (used to be more frequent) I dunno if this is due to sub-space, or maybe it relates to something else. Well, if it used to happen more frequently, then why are you suspecting subspace as the cause? Maybe there is some other reason that you are having a problem dealing with things. Are you usually around friends and family when you go into subspace or soon after? If this is an issue that is really causing you a lot of concern, there are kink-friendly counselors and therapists that you can talk with. There are any number of variables that can have an effect on how we communicate and only you know what those particular variables happen to be, in your case. Talking with a professional counselor can help you sort those things out and maybe get to the root of this issue, for you. This link will give you a listing of kink-friendly professionals. You can click on your state or nationwide or internet. http://www.ncsfreedom.org/index.php?option=com_wrapper&Itemid=75 quote:
I do smoke pot, and there were times when it would affect me like this, I'd get "high" and then I'd feel out of it. atleast I thought it would affect me like this. I'm still unsure. There's other times though where it doesn't happen that way, I'm completely fine and can control myself under the influence. Getting high can effect you differently each time. For one thing, the quality of the pot you're smoking can be different each time. There are other factors that can cause a change in how you feel when you get high, too. i've used pot, recreationally, over the years, and have known plenty of pot smokers and 'pot heads' and even one man who was as close to being a 'pot addict' as i've ever seen, and none of us seemed to have any problem communicating and functioning, when we needed to. In fact, smoking pot usually makes me become a 'chatterbox' and a 'giggle bug' but, again, different people get different effects. If you think your pot smoking might be causing you some problems with your ability to communicate with people, you might want to seek some counseling for it. www.addictionrecoveryguide.com quote:
I'll get sucked into a submissive role, and I still get the feeling of being out of it. Not feeling like myself, not feeling like I'm in my body i get a nearly out-of-body experience when i go deeply into subspace but, it doesn't take a long time to be functional again and coherent and able to communicate with others. i don't really know what you mean by getting "sucked into a submissive role", though. Are you not a willing participant? Are you trying to fight it and not be in a "submissive role?" Are you being taken into a "submissive role" against your will? quote:
Does sub space or can sub space last a while, and can it affect me feeling "out of it" around friends family and just in general with myself? The feeling of being in subspace and how long the effect lasts is different for each person and, in my case, is different with each experience. Kind of like how the effects of getting high is different for different people and can be different with each experience. People can "zone out" for all kinds of reasons. i have zoned out, just by really focusing and concentrating on something that i'm doing or, simply daydreaming out the kitchen window, while i'm doing dishes. But, i snap out of it quickly, too. Again, if this is something that is causing you concern, talking to a professional might be a good idea. quote:
if it can, is sub space really a good thing then? is there a way to come "up" faster, is there a certain amount of time that it should take, because the feeling can last for up to 3-6 hours sometimes, and it really affects me throughout my vanilla life. Thank you for any insight. i haven't had any ill effects caused by "subspace" and i really enjoy it but, then again i don't stay in an altered state for 3-6 hours afterward. i may still feel a nice "buzz" for a few hours, even a couple of days, after, but not to the point where i find it difficult to function or communicate. Everyone's different, though, and if it's causing you concern, then i would think that speaking with a trained, kink-friendly, therapist or counselor might be a good idea. Hope things get better for you. slave joy Owned property of Master David
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