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RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 2:40:35 PM

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In high demand? Quite possible. Since the majority of poly or want-to-be poly couples(my personal obversations here) tend to be 1 male/2 female, it stand to reason that it would be high. The other thing to remember is that many men who want a monogamous relationship, do not see a fem being bi as a drawback; many consider it a bonus; and I'll admit I'm one of them

. Since bi is not a drawback to most, and some do indeed prefer having a bi even in a monogamous relationship, it does seem logical that they would be.

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RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 2:47:56 PM

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And how fair would it be to a bisexual woman to accept her into a relationship without the hope of another bisexual woman completing the family?

Truly, I believe the polygamous triad was one of the original family structures in humanity's antiquity.

We see a remnant of it in Islam and the early Hebrew texts.

LOL just because a chick is bisexual (attracted to both sexes) doesn't mean she is non monogamous and wants to share her man. Or her woman.

Also the remnant of it in Hebrew texts had to do with 'be fruitful and multiply' and the remnant of it in Muslim texts had to do with Arabia being the center of the trading world, and merchants traveling abroad and taking wives in different places. The original intent of Mohammed wasn't to say "it's ok to take more than one wife" but rather "please just limit it to 4 guys, and only if you're going to bother supporting the kids you produce."

And I believe both of those religions consider homosexuality a sin. Soooo yeah...nice try though...it really DOES sound more credible than "I want two chicks to keep me warm at night"

Hehehehe at least you're not trying to convert us straight chicks...but still by fetishizing bisexuality you're SO going to end up with at least one woman who decides she's actually a lesbian. And probably one who realizes she's straight. Especially if you're like most men your age and hook up with women my age

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RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 3:05:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: xoxi

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And how fair would it be to a bisexual woman to accept her into a relationship without the hope of another bisexual woman completing the family?

Truly, I believe the polygamous triad was one of the original family structures in humanity's antiquity.

We see a remnant of it in Islam and the early Hebrew texts.

LOL just because a chick is bisexual (attracted to both sexes) doesn't mean she is non monogamous and wants to share her man. Or her woman.

Also the remnant of it in Hebrew texts had to do with 'be fruitful and multiply' and the remnant of it in Muslim texts had to do with Arabia being the center of the trading world, and merchants traveling abroad and taking wives in different places. The original intent of Mohammed wasn't to say "it's ok to take more than one wife" but rather "please just limit it to 4 guys, and only if you're going to bother supporting the kids you produce."

And I believe both of those religions consider homosexuality a sin.

All of the above was about propigating the species, and yes, that is a holdover from our earliest past when the only way for the species to survive was to outbreed the mortality rate.

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Soooo yeah...nice try though...it really DOES sound more credible than "I want two chicks to keep me warm at night"

I would never make such a claim.

I have a waterbed with warm soft flannel sheets, blankets, and a very old eider down quilt.

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Hehehehe at least you're not trying to convert us straight chicks...but still by fetishizing bisexuality you're SO going to end up with at least one woman who decides she's actually a lesbian. And probably one who realizes she's straight. Especially if you're like most men your age and hook up with women my age

Actually, age is not one of the factors I'm concerned about.

What is most important to me is the capacity for love and compassion.

Xoxi, I realize it runs counter to the stereo-type for a man to be sensitive to love while perfectly sadistic as a master. For me, there is no interest in sex in the absence of an affectionate connection on both sides. As I think only in terms of an LTR, it is about the relationship far more than the sex.

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RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 3:36:47 PM

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ok what freaking fantasy island are we on now. geeze porn run a muck

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RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 3:47:26 PM

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Aww Bob I'm just teasing you...hence all the

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Although to be fair you aren't concerned with a LTR. You're concerned with *two* LTRs (or technically four...you/chick1, you/chick2, chick1/chick2, you/chicks1&2)

Heheheee Love and affection are nothing unless she likes the poonanny and is willing to share

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RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 3:48:33 PM

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ok what freaking fantasy island are we on now. geeze porn run a muck

"The Land of 1001 Virgin Bi Babes and I am Their King"

The story of an ancient King leading his People to a state of bliss.

It's a love story

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RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 4:00:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: xoxi

Aww Bob I'm just teasing you...hence all the 's

I get that a lot

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Although to be fair you aren't concerned with a LTR. You're concerned with *two* LTRs (or technically four...you/chick1, you/chick2, chick1/chick2, you/chicks1&2)

Very true.

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Heheheee Love and affection are nothing unless she likes the poonanny and is willing to share

It is because of love and affection that they will want to share.

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RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 4:26:55 PM

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ok what freaking fantasy island are we on now. geeze porn run a muck

No, as far as I was aware we aren't on a fantasy island. I might be working out my own process here, as well as having an engaging discussion with some.
Just let me say that for many years I was in emotional pain, not the sort of pain anyone wants, truly, trying to adhere to that compartmentalised world of straight versus gay versus bi and dominant versus sub. Suffering fromm anorexia too so as to re-shape my body in an attempt to define according to other people's fetishes. A self still sneered upon in the world and self-denial internalised within my own head in a compartmentalised manner for at least 40 years if i admit it. There were moments of sheer bliss at certain times but only when I knew for sure I was breaking most of the rules that my immediate world had set. OK so I am arcahic and came from a time when the luxuries of internet connectivity was simply not there, when homosexual men cottaged in hidden toilets and then began to die of some invisible illness. There, when men and wome cried because the marriages they had vowed under the eyes of their god had broken because their beloved had fucked another, or been caught wearing the wrong kind of clothes or worse still asphixiated and hung themslves for dead, lost a political career on Hampstead Heath or spent the family heirloom visiting costly houses of domination.
Those sound like the dark ages but they are not they are a mere 15 to 20 years ago and some still suffer as a result of that repression as worse as returning from any war zone.

I'm happy at last and yet there are still those who hold power over me, who pay my bills, to whom I am beholden, who for reasons of their own hold cold hearted mockery in their hearts for anything slightly off the 100th percentile.

I know if I have a choice to live with shame and blame or kink freedom which one I would choose. And yes it does offend me to even sense that sort of criticism and cynicism in the quote above when all this is about is fisting a bitch when I am told to and loving both of them in that dreaded long term longed for loving relationship.

Ranting venting half crazed bi switch here and as it's nearly the full harvest moon please foregive if you are offended too...........

Yours sincerely
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Not-on-fantasy-island and wishing you were here.

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