Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Single bi females in high demand


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Single bi females in high demand Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 7:23:17 AM   
Bobkgin


Posts: 1335
Joined: 7/28/2007
From: Kawarthas, Ontario, Canada
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty

you are ancient....you should have started building your pyramid decades ago....


Wrong brand of paganism.

My heritage is Celtic.

We burn our dead.

_____________________________

When all is said and done, what will you regret?

That you never really lived?

Or there was so much living left to do?

For those interested: pics and poetry have been added to my profile.

(in reply to chellekitty)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 7:29:29 AM   
chellekitty


Posts: 3923
Joined: 3/27/2005
Status: offline 		oh ok...do you have your ship ready...or am i off by a region still?  am i on the right continent yet?

_____________________________

One thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve. ~Albert Schweitzer

(in reply to Bobkgin)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 7:37:01 AM   
Bobkgin


Posts: 1335
Joined: 7/28/2007
From: Kawarthas, Ontario, Canada
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty

oh ok...do you have your ship ready...or am i off by a region still?  am i on the right continent yet?


The right continent? Yes.

You are speaking of the Asatru: the Vikings.

You'll find the Celts in Gaul (France), Iberia (Spain), Britannia and Eire.

Think "druids".

_____________________________

When all is said and done, what will you regret?

That you never really lived?

Or there was so much living left to do?

For those interested: pics and poetry have been added to my profile.

(in reply to chellekitty)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 8:01:38 AM   
chellekitty


Posts: 3923
Joined: 3/27/2005
Status: offline 		ok ok ok i suppose a funeral pyre can be built very quickly you old fart....very convinient since you did not plan for your demise, i surmise, seeing as how you were unaware of your ancient status   i slay me...roflmao

< Message edited by chellekitty -- 9/24/2007 8:02:03 AM >

_____________________________

One thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve. ~Albert Schweitzer

(in reply to Bobkgin)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 8:07:11 AM   
RRafe


Posts: 2060
Joined: 8/29/2007
Status: offline 		I think this one went the way of my old fantasies. I'm pretty much straight and non sharing in nature.

_____________________________

I seem to be some wierd combination of Ren and Stimpy

(in reply to chellekitty)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 8:37:51 AM   
toservez


Posts: 1733
Joined: 9/7/2006
From: All over now in Minnesota
Status: offline 		I agree with the posts here although confused as you say you are looking for a couple but then seem to be writing on here about your search for a male dominant and in this thread like you have a male dominant now.

Part is numbers, part is the reality of poly, part of it is the unrealistic and insincere couples looking and part of it is the opportunities for a bi woman to do things.

The reality of poly couples is there just are not many seriously looking for another to form a complete and mutual positive relationship between everyone involved. There just are very few couples who can convey and communicate their seriousness in this manner that I think many women just get tired of dealing with the next group.

There are a lot of couples who are wanting or think they want another woman but for all the wrong reasons. They want a free servant, some extra income in their house, free babysitter for a young or old person. The female wants a best friend who does the chores and the male wants to see girl on girl action. There are simply a lot of couples on here that are insincere with their intentions or just have never thought things through at all and for the women looking for a couple these can be a real negative experience.

Lastly a bi woman has a lot of options. Bi does not mean needing both sexes in a relationship. Many times Bi means prefer for a relationship one gender but do not mind sex with another. Plus to simply enjoy sex with both genders does not take being in this life to get so then you are dealing with a small subset of bi women who like this life specifically with both sexes.



_____________________________

I am sorry I do not fit Webster's defintion of a slave but thankfully my Master is not Webster.

"Anything that contradicts experience and logic should be abandoned." - H.H. The 14th Dalai Lama

(in reply to Prinsexx)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 9:24:03 AM   
Prinsexx


Posts: 4584
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobkgin


Thus there is an imbalance between the number of sexually uninhibited men and sexually uininhibited women.

It is because of this imbalance that men, seeking sex at any cost, adapt to the situation.

As there are more men than women, women can afford to be more selective than the men. To counter this, some men promote low self-esteem amongst submissive women so that women do not feel they can afford to be selective, that they are lucky to have the attention of anyone, and so on.

The Vanilla world is still deeply entrenched in the Victorian morality.




i agree almost with all of your analysis Bobkgin but have singlerd out the above parts which I particularly understand more so now that you have enlightened me from the male perspective...(not all-male perspective of course)
Thankyou......

(in reply to Bobkgin)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 9:29:18 AM   
Prinsexx


Posts: 4584
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline
quote:

Apparantly bi females are in such high demand that guys want to try to convert us straight chicks. They better be careful though...if I start to like bitches as much as I like guys I think guys will lose the mental competition and then I might go total lesbian on them.


Hi.....fly me!
I love a convert


(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 9:32:12 AM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi

FastReply:

Just a random rant...I have gotten numerous messages halfway into a conversation where the guy asks "are you bi?"

My profile says 'straight' right next to where it says 'female' - so I say "no, are you?" and he always replies "hell no" or something liike that.  Like the 'straight' on his profile is more meaningful than it is on my profile.

Apparantly bi females are in such high demand that guys want to try to convert us straight chicks.  They better be careful though...if I start to like bitches as much as I like guys I think guys will lose the mental competition and then I might go total lesbian on them.  Heheheeee



Can I be of assistance? I am feeling extremely helpful today.....


_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to xoxi)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 9:35:48 AM   
Prinsexx


Posts: 4584
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline
quote:

agree with the posts here although confused as you say you are looking for a couple but then seem to be writing on here about your search for a male dominant and in this thread like you have a male dominant now.


Sorry toservez I didn't mean to confuse. I will check my profile again so that it is all consistent. Yes I have a beautiful Dom now (love story) and yes am looking for a bi femme sub... I have a girl but she only wants to sene with me alone....she is married (vanilla) and I am her first experience with a woman one to one and don't want to spoil her play.....

and I am genuinely bi or now should I use he term pansxual as it sems to be evolving for me to be more about the person rather than about their orientation or dynamics.......


(in reply to toservez)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 9:42:27 AM   
Bobkgin


Posts: 1335
Joined: 7/28/2007
From: Kawarthas, Ontario, Canada
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi
Apparantly bi females are in such high demand that guys want to try to convert us straight chicks. They better be careful though...if I start to like bitches as much as I like guys I think guys will lose the mental competition and then I might go total lesbian on them.


quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty
i might try to convert you....if i could gag you on ocassion...you over think things more than me...jeeeze...lol


quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx
Hi.....fly me!
I love a convert

 
quote:

:ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Can I be of assistance? I am feeling extremely helpful today.....


Great!

More competition.

Oh the joys of being a man in a women's world.

_____________________________

When all is said and done, what will you regret?

That you never really lived?

Or there was so much living left to do?

For those interested: pics and poetry have been added to my profile.

(in reply to Prinsexx)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 9:57:27 AM   
Prinsexx


Posts: 4584
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi
Apparantly bi females are in such high demand that guys want to try to convert us straight chicks. They better be careful though...if I start to like bitches as much as I like guys I think guys will lose the mental competition and then I might go total lesbian on them.


quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty
i might try to convert you....if i could gag you on ocassion...you over think things more than me...jeeeze...lol


quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx
Hi.....fly me!
I love a convert

 
quote:

:ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Can I be of assistance? I am feeling extremely helpful today.....


Great!

More competition.

Oh the joys of being a man in a women's world.


BkG...you just wanna hareem ma boy out there in the wilderness.....but it might mean leaving the bitches ALL in bed whilst you are out choppin firewood....who the hell wants to leave a hot bitch to go to work when one man can  xxxx

(in reply to Bobkgin)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 10:02:24 AM   
xoxi


Posts: 1066
Status: offline 		LOL

So many pretty girls!  Oh so tempting!  Just as long as you don't expect me to reciprocate with stuff like giving head we are all good

(in reply to Prinsexx)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 10:04:00 AM   
Prinsexx


Posts: 4584
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline 		Shall I give up? The more I want a sub femme bi.....any slut will do ok? the more the male Doms start to view my profile...........!"£$%%^&*(())_++for$%^^&&**fk)(**^^sake

(in reply to Prinsexx)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 10:12:31 AM   
DarkDaddyZ


Posts: 805
Joined: 4/7/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: toservez
Bi does not mean needing both sexes in a relationship. Many times Bi means prefer for a relationship one gender but do not mind sex with another. Plus to simply enjoy sex with both genders does not take being in this life to get so then you are dealing with a small subset of bi women who like this life specifically with both sexes.

What a great observation!  Bi sometimes is over used at least to me and while that's not this topic, I prefer the term pansexual when seeking out partners because bi is limited.

Enjoying the thread!

Z-


_____________________________

"Flirting is part of the job description." DJ Jesus (Lucy Daughter Of The Devil)

Vanilla Official Music Page http://www.myspace.com/djzulu

(in reply to toservez)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 10:14:07 AM   
Bobkgin


Posts: 1335
Joined: 7/28/2007
From: Kawarthas, Ontario, Canada
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

quote:

ORIGINAL: xoxi
Apparantly bi females are in such high demand that guys want to try to convert us straight chicks. They better be careful though...if I start to like bitches as much as I like guys I think guys will lose the mental competition and then I might go total lesbian on them.


quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty
i might try to convert you....if i could gag you on ocassion...you over think things more than me...jeeeze...lol


quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx
Hi.....fly me!
I love a convert

 
quote:

:ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Can I be of assistance? I am feeling extremely helpful today.....


Great!

More competition.

Oh the joys of being a man in a women's world.


BkG...you just wanna hareem ma boy out there in the wilderness.....

 
We pioneering types know how to get through those long winter nights

However, it was my wife's bisexuality that taught me my preference for bisexual women. Till her I'd only known one other like her, and my limited experience taught me a noticeable difference between the inhibitions of the straight women I'd known and those of the bisexual women I'd known.

And how fair would it be to a bisexual woman to accept her into a relationship without the hope of another bisexual woman completing the family?

Truly, I believe the polygamous triad was one of the original family structures in humanity's antiquity.

We see a remnant of it in Islam and the early Hebrew texts.
 
quote:
but it might mean leaving the bitches ALL in bed whilst you are out choppin firewood....who the hell wants to leave a hot bitch to go to work when one man can  xxxx



If I have planned so poorly that I have to get out of bed to chop wood, chances are I've spent far too much time in bed already 

_____________________________

When all is said and done, what will you regret?

That you never really lived?

Or there was so much living left to do?

For those interested: pics and poetry have been added to my profile.

(in reply to Prinsexx)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 12:20:32 PM   
toservez


Posts: 1733
Joined: 9/7/2006
From: All over now in Minnesota
Status: offline
quote:

However, it was my wife's bisexuality that taught me my preference for bisexual women. Till her I'd only known one other like her, and my limited experience taught me a noticeable difference between the inhibitions of the straight women I'd known and those of the bisexual women I'd known.

And how fair would it be to a bisexual woman to accept her into a relationship without the hope of another bisexual woman completing the family?


I think this is one of poly secrets that couples often do not talk about. It is one thing to be bi because it can be casual fun or in the context of with your partner you are open more sexually then being truly attracted to both sexes without regard to the context.

When I was younger and still open to poly I would talk and go out with couples and one of the main things I learned very quickly was finding out if the other woman was context bi or truly bi. At some point I wanted her to see me as a sexual object and not just the piece to a puzzle her and her husband are trying to fit into their life. It is quite a difference.

Again though being bisexual does not mean I have to have both sexes. Heterosexuals can be monogamous despite being attracted to others and so can bisexuals.



_____________________________

I am sorry I do not fit Webster's defintion of a slave but thankfully my Master is not Webster.

"Anything that contradicts experience and logic should be abandoned." - H.H. The 14th Dalai Lama

(in reply to Bobkgin)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 1:00:07 PM   
SirCache


Posts: 159
Joined: 3/26/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: toservez
When I was younger and still open to poly I would talk and go out with couples and one of the main things I learned very quickly was finding out if the other woman was context bi or truly bi. At some point I wanted her to see me as a sexual object and not just the piece to a puzzle her and her husband are trying to fit into their life. It is quite a difference.


One of the most beautiful things I found in my wife, when she explored and realized that she was bi, is that she and our lover would spend private time, sans me in the bedroom.  I didn't mind, because ultimately people need that one-on-one to really feel each other out and we need that kind of private time.  The same when she and I would be together and my wife was elsewhere.  The same when my wife and I needed time to just us.  Granted, there were times all three of us were involved, but I think too many people get wrapped up in the 'Dude, you have two chicks all over you', and the truth is that's just not your day-to-day life.

I agree, however, that everyone needs that raw one-on-one desire sometimes--without it, you'll always feel like a third wheel or something.

(in reply to toservez)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 1:12:25 PM   
Prinsexx


Posts: 4584
Joined: 8/27/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: toservez


Again though being bisexual does not mean I have to have both sexes. Heterosexuals can be monogamous despite being attracted to others and so can bisexuals.




This is interesting because I have come to the conclusion (if you excuse the pun) that I am not monogamous AND that I felt submissive more so around a man than a woman during my realisation of the development of my 'kink' rather than my orientation. My orientation has never ever been a problem for me....(or for Queen Victoria apparently, so unlike my suffering brothers it has never been technically illegal for women).....I have always found women to be sexual and indeed, because of personal hygene, fashion, and cosmetics often more physically attractive then men in a physical not necessarily sexual way.
My first lesbian encounter was a part of my childhood and first real falling in love with a woman was at 13 but I would term myself a lipstick lesbian as I love the feminine thing and I am into lace and lipstick myself....the butch-dyke is a stereotype and sisters here please foregive me but I prefer a girly girl.
I am dominant however with a woman because I love the chase, the pull, the journey, the flirt, the excitement, the titilation (puns intended0 whereas with a male Dom i think oh just get on with in please don't make me beg... I prefer that total dominant quick fit fitter......
so I guess I am more prescriptive and picky in my women and therefore it takes me longer and therefore I suppose I am assuming the right woman is a rarity....
now to make it a long term poly family would be my absolute dream and that would mean equality of energy/love which would slowly dispel the jealousy game although i must say being tied up and forced to watch MY dominat and MY submissive would at first be a masochism beyong belief but also extremely delightful....
so it's essentially I suppose because I am looking for a true bi honey who is submissive to ME and thus i could have a sense of power equilibrium....
and I suppose there is a belief I have that 'one cockeral, six hens' as my grandmama used to say is a natural set-up..........the only useful thing about straight monogamy is that it protects a man's insecurities about the size of his tackle.....


(in reply to toservez)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: Single bi females in high demand - 9/24/2007 1:53:31 PM   
toservez


Posts: 1733
Joined: 9/7/2006
From: All over now in Minnesota
Status: offline 		I am basically like you. I do not like the term monogamous in terms of when people say they are not. I truly get monogamy on all levels and reasons. Just for me personally it is simply not a requirement. Unfortunately though that means people infer I cannot be in a monogamous relationship which is not the case at all which I think is the same stereotype of us bisexuals. One does not automatically mean the other. I have never strayed in a relationship unless ordered/agreed to by an owner.

I think differences between how we are attracted to both sexes is perfectly natural. I love long hair on women but find it not so attractive on men. I can and have lead a woman to and in bed and enjoy the experience but a man better make feel like he took me or yucky.

So yes, sex and attractions can and often are different for me between the sexes but my sex drive remains the same. Throw out constraints if I am horny I will have sex with anyone. I may or may not have a preference at the time or what conditions got me horny but as long as my sex drive is met I can keep my hands off others of both sexes. So when talking about poly if it was mutually agreed upon full sexual relationship then for me it would be important that just me and not a lot of other conditions would turn the other female on otherwise it would be just too conditional.


_____________________________

I am sorry I do not fit Webster's defintion of a slave but thankfully my Master is not Webster.

"Anything that contradicts experience and logic should be abandoned." - H.H. The 14th Dalai Lama

(in reply to Prinsexx)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Single bi females in high demand Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.141