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RE: Sound off - 9/30/2007 9:30:32 AM

asubmissiveheart

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Wonderful reply Prinsexx.
Too many forget that we do live in a vanilla world.
Being able to live in both worlds, is what counts.

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RE: Sound off - 9/30/2007 9:35:34 AM

LATEXBABY64

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reality is this IT TAKES WORK nothing in life comes free sorry. even though you may connect with someone it takes work to make it happen and last. a relationship is like blanket you weave it one thread at a time

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RE: Sound off - 9/30/2007 9:38:19 AM

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A few quick thoughts...

- Women get bombarded by emails.

- Patience is a virtue.

- 'Whining' isn't attractive. Confidence in who you are and what you have to offer IS, however.

- If you want to be 'found', get yourself out there without worrying to much about it. In other words, let it go (for awhile) and just be you. Participate in the boards and chatrooms. Show who YOU are and why you have value and the attention will happen.

- Nothing is a draw like showing that you can be respectful, mindful and pay attention to Her needs, wants and desires. How you display that is more up to you (cause it's all subjective).

I could probably add more but....I need more coffee. :P

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RE: Sound off - 9/30/2007 9:39:28 AM

DiurnalVampire

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To toss my 2 cents into the pot
You might also consider the people you are writing to and the possibility you are being filtered. Many of us set up filters on our mail to reduce the amount of mail we get taht we already know is not going to be compatible. Thre is also the possibility that someone decides not to respond becasue they do not think you are compatible, and do not wish to open a line of communication. For as many people as complain on here that they do not recieve coutrous answers to their introductions... maybe they should realize that those courteous answers are very often met with arguments and long one sided exchanges trying to convince us our initial courteous answer was in error.
I *USED* to answer every email I got. When I got Angel, I tried to cintinue to do so, but when my profile specifically says I am not looking and I get offers continuously and then have people emailing to convince me I need more than one to be happy... I stopped.
Yes, it sucks that the fakes have ruined things for all of those who are real.
Submissives arent the only ones who have these problems.
If someone doesnt want to respond, then rather than be upset by it, just assume thats the SUREST mark that they arent compatible, be thankful they have saved you the time to have to figure that out and move on. Searches are not short, nor simple.

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RE: Sound off - 9/30/2007 9:45:43 AM

LATEXBABY64

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this is true a lot of tourist. it is sad but thats fashionable kink for ya

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RE: Sound off - 9/30/2007 9:51:51 AM

realisticwish

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

a smile wouldn't hurt
chia* (the pet)

This is my biggest pet peeve when seeing a picture. When someone looks like they are mad at the world. I know some folks do not like taking pictures, maybe that is the reason. Maybe think of something or someone exciting and snap that picture. A picture is worth a thousand words I think is the quote I have heard.

~J~

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