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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 1:31:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		  There was a time and sometimes I still visit that time where I will ask 'why I must suffer difficult walks' especially those walks that were not of my own making.   I grieve at times for my difficult walks and truly wonder how my path could have been different was I not forced to endure the difficult walks.   There are times, I get angry, there are times I cry, there are times, I share it and times that I keep it hidden.   The times I do share my own difficult walk, I am never asking for empathy, never looking for a Squeakers I am sorry, I share because I simply wish to share that part of me.  
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So... what have difficult walks done for you?   
  My own difficult walk shaped my entire life.   It forced to make mistakes, make wrong choices, say things in anger, question my exsistance, but it also brought me to where I am now.   I am a content person most of the time, I am able to handle little stresses in my life with a fair amount of ease, I have a bit  more tolerance and understanding to those who are of different mind than myself, I have strength to get through difficult times because nothing can be more difficult than my past.   I can remind myself I am not perfect, I can laugh at myself and smile when others laugh at me or with me,  I am able to see that I am different and although I am proud of my differences, I can blend in if I need to because sometimes, I am not so very different after all.   My difficult walk has taught me about me, my place in the world, and the impact I desire to leave behind.    It has caused me to reflect and ponder, not only myself but the actions of others.    Sometimes, I question the actions of another and wonder why those actions came about and ponder where they are coming from but as I grow older and learn more about me, I become less judgemental about the actions of others.    I wonder what burden they may carry and if their actions might simply be a reflection of that.    I embrace my difficult walk, it is part of me, it makes me, me and most of the time, I am my own best friend.  
      

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 1:36:48 PM   
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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 1:53:26 PM   
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So... what have difficult walks done for you?


I have come to realize that I have had no "difficult walks"...the path merely gets rocky from time to time.



well said.... and there is alot being said with this very statement.

How we look at our reality is very much an important aspect to one's own happiness and moving forward

Is the glass half full.. or is it half empty?   Both are true.... but it is our mindset (thought and emotions) that will make one more true than the other.



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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 1:58:04 PM   
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 i have no interest in debate  


Is that because the art of debate is too difficult of a walk for you?

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 2:03:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
So... what have difficult walks done for you?


I have come to realize that I have had no "difficult walks"...the path merely gets rocky from time to time.



well said.... and there is alot being said with this very statement.

How we look at our reality is very much an important aspect to one's own happiness and moving forward

Is the glass half full.. or is it half empty?   Both are true.... but it is our mindset (thought and emotions) that will make one more true than the other.


A pebble in your shoe can make a short walk not only difficult, but painful.
Larger rocks may slow you down but can provide a challenge
It's the avalanch of boulders that can stop you in your tracks.

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 2:05:06 PM   
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 i have no interest in debate  


Is that because the art of debate is too difficult of a walk for you?


yes it is, with irrational people whose only purpose is to hit and run with what she thinks are clever insults. 

mmeeeeooooowwwwwwww

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 2:08:41 PM   
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 i have no interest in debate  


Is that because the art of debate is too difficult of a walk for you?


yes it is, with irrational people whose only purpose is to hit and run with what she thinks are clever insults. 

mmeeeeooooowwwwwwww


becareful now... you starting to debate.... that could be construed as interest.

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 2:16:48 PM   
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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 2:22:15 PM   
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Just being nice lil ole me and answering a question


that is debatable


the nice part not the answering a question part

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 2:31:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
So... what have difficult walks done for you?


I have come to realize that I have had no "difficult walks"...the path merely gets rocky from time to time.



well said.... and there is alot being said with this very statement.

How we look at our reality is very much an important aspect to one's own happiness and moving forward

Is the glass half full.. or is it half empty?   Both are true.... but it is our mindset (thought and emotions) that will make one more true than the other.





I have had difficult walks, and as the result I've learned that sometimes things just are what they are and we can't always turn shit into gold, no matter how we approach the particular issue. 

Certain things just suck and should to be recognized and accepted as such, even though they have to be gotten through.   Other 'difficult walks' can of course be turned into positives on some level. I think it's wise to differentiate between the two, so that we don't lead ourselves down the path of self-delusion in either direction.   

To me the glass has never been 'half-empty' or 'half-full'.  It simply is what it is; a half a glass of water.



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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 6:29:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		So... what have difficult walks done for you?
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They've taught me to look for the positive during those times of difficulty, to focus my sights, not on the mistakes i've already made but on the opportunity to learn from them and the courage to continue on even though the odds seem stacked against me.  ss4
 

"The greatness comes not when things always go good for you.  But the greatness comes when you're really tested, when you take some knocks, some disappointments, when sadness comes.  Because only if you've been in the deepest valley can you ever know how magnificent it is to be on the highest mountain." Richard Nixon
 

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 6:38:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		frankly, difficult walks for me have only worn my ass out, there was no larger lessons to be learned, you live life as you find it.  End of joke.

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 6:48:57 PM   
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It simply is what it is; a half a glass of water.


Why water? If I'm going to be emptying a glass, I'd prefer it be scotch!




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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 6:54:16 PM   
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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 7:08:11 PM   
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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 7:15:06 PM   
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It simply is what it is; a half a glass of water.


Why water? If I'm going to be emptying a glass, I'd prefer it be scotch!





lmaooo....

<I should have known someone would go there>

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 8:15:36 PM   
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So... what have difficult walks done for you?


They have taught me to take the lesson out of the experience, learn from it, grow from it and move on.

To realize nothing ever goes completely as planned.

That sometimes what we preceive to be one of the worst times in our lives turnes out to be one of the most fantastic turning points with in it.

Only through the rough spots in my life have i learned how strong I really am, who I really am, and what I am truely capable of.

My mother always tells me that God only gives us that in which we can handle. I think for the most part she's right.

I stated in another thread that helplessness is not an option in my life. As far as i'm concerned there is a solution for everything, sometimes it just takes time and alot hard work to achieve. The funny thing is.... alot of the time, the solution is nothing like you would have assumed in the begining.

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RE: Speaking on behalf of live slaves - 9/8/2007 9:52:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: akisha

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

So... what have difficult walks done for you?


They have taught me to take the lesson out of the experience, learn from it, grow from it and move on.

To realize nothing ever goes completely as planned.

That sometimes what we preceive to be one of the worst times in our lives turnes out to be one of the most fantastic turning points with in it.

Only through the rough spots in my life have i learned how strong I really am, who I really am, and what I am truely capable of.

My mother always tells me that God only gives us that in which we can handle. I think for the most part she's right.

I stated in another thread that helplessness is not an option in my life. As far as i'm concerned there is a solution for everything, sometimes it just takes time and alot hard work to achieve. The funny thing is.... alot of the time, the solution is nothing like you would have assumed in the begining.


  this is so very true.....a "suprise" ending of sorts

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