OrionTheWolf
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You let him bang it until it hurts, just like I did with my son. You show consistant discipline, while still showing love, you actually work harder. You definately don't use the TV as a babysitter, you take more of an active role. Maybe being a single parent, and having made it through many tough times, I have littlke sympathy for people who are not good parents, and in the end their kids are the one's that suffer. I have taken supposedly uncontrollable kids and worked with them, my sister's kids were that way. My nephew supposedly had seizures, but it was uncontrollable rage because he didn't feel love from his father, and didn't feel secure because no one set boundries for him. What this center is doing, is something that should be done by the parents, over the entire life of the child, but many of these kids also need psychological monitoring and possibly therapy. Drugs are short term solutions to acute issues. Orion quote:
ORIGINAL: velvetears If anyone has ever had to deal with absolutely uncontrollable children, the extremes that were sent to this school they would understand why it would be a very appealing last resort. What do you do with a kid who is banging his head all the time and all efforts to stop him are futile? Is medicating kids to the point of obesity a viable alternative, all they want to do is sleep, so essentially they are just avoiding the whole problem by knocking the kids out for as long as they can using "medication". my heart goes out to those parents, and even the teachers who had to work under those conditions. It just stinks all around.
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