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RE: Discipline training - 7/15/2007 5:08:30 PM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		i think i wouldnt enjoy that type thing, but hopefully, there would be plenty i would enjoy to make up for it.....

and now i know to add one more thing to my list.....sanitize doorknobs before having me lick them......do ya know how nasty them things are?

as for the girl thinks thingy.......today i begin my new path...if i cant find something nice to say, ill not say anything at all

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RE: Discipline training - 7/15/2007 5:56:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SeeksOnlyOne

i think i wouldnt enjoy that type thing, but hopefully, there would be plenty i would enjoy to make up for it.....

and now i know to add one more thing to my list.....sanitize doorknobs before having me lick them......do ya know how nasty them things are?

as for the girl thinks thingy.......today i begin my new path...if i cant find something nice to say, ill not say anything at all


That has got to be the stupidest fucking thing I have ever heard in my life....lol.

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RE: Discipline training - 7/15/2007 6:00:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SeeksOnlyOne

i think i wouldnt enjoy that type thing, but hopefully, there would be plenty i would enjoy to make up for it.....

and now i know to add one more thing to my list.....sanitize doorknobs before having me lick them......do ya know how nasty them things are?

as for the girl thinks thingy.......today i begin my new path...if i cant find something nice to say, ill not say anything at all


That has got to be the stupidest fucking thing I have ever heard in my life....lol.




some part of it? or the entire thing? cuz damn i thought about that reply before i posted it....even previewed and everything...sighs...

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RE: Discipline training - 7/15/2007 8:15:28 PM   
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I was blindflolded, but M was in bodily contact with me frequently throughout the training and I could hear him moving about the room throughout. I can't say he watched the entire thing, but he did stay in the room and keep encouraging me.

Would whether it was followed by sex make a difference to how you felt about doing something like this?


Yes, for me it would. 

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 4:59:42 AM   
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Overall sense of discipline and overall sense of power exchange were two of the reasons given to me for doing the training. Regular practice of our power exchange keeps it fresh and a priority instead of letting it go by the wayside and only be engaged for play parties or scening.


Yes, that makes perfect sense to me. Personaly, i would consider that to be a "scene", albeit a brief one... You've got physical and mental control, expressed in action... i don't think a scene requires pain and/or direct sex. The term seems to be open to a lot of interpretation, though.

i thought it was pretty hot, actually... the bondage (LOVE armbinders), the subservient posture, the humiliation (it would have a humiliating effect for me, anyway), the control, doing it for no gratification other than (possibly) praise... The idea that "You will be restrained and perform this absurd action until you're good enough to service someone"... yum.

i happen to love bondage, though, so a "training regimen" with the goal of enduring longer and longer periods of helplessness would be like a dream come true. *le sigh*

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 6:54:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		It is some kind of training.   Personally, I have never asked a sub/slave to lick a door knob before.  That is a red flag that they are "messing with you".  Is this on cam?  If it is on cam, then it is a good chance that "M" is getting his kicks.
Training is usually accompanied by learning definitions, learning how to kneel, self spanking exercises and how to address a Dom/me in a conversation plus protocol.
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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 8:44:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		It seems like a perfectly legitimate exercise in dominance and submission to me.  Having a sub do something for no other reason than I tell her to strikes me as being part and parcel of the D/s dynamic.  Whether one calls this a 'scene' or 'training' or a 'training scene' seems immaterial.  The point is an excercise in power and obedience.  The particulars hardly matter.

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 8:47:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		methinks, you must know what alot of stuff smells like all bent over in the general area, you could be greeted by human or animal, vegtable or mineral at that level.


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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 8:53:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah, I guess and I don't want to knock anyone else's dynamics...really.  But, lick a doorknob?  I'm good with the armbinder, but a doorknob?   Sure, you CAN tell someone to do something just because you CAN, but why would you?

Sex afterward?  Well, OK, that doorknob is looking better and better now.

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 9:18:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeh me too Bandit, armbinders fine but doorknob, no.  If you are both happy with that sort of thing then more power to you, but personally I would see it as a bit of a pisstake


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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 9:28:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL, I think you are gonna find alot of doorknobs out there amongst the populus.

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 9:44:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah....You beeyatches are gonna have to lick a lot of doorknobs to open the right doors......."Heavy sir....Yes, but it had to be said."

subsusie: Domiguy why am I licking this doorknob?

Domiguy: (Distracted while changing the remote back and forth from SportsCenter to "Sophies Choice")....Doorknob?...Ahhh...Hmmmm...Oh yeah!!...It's training baby...It's training!!!...It's gonna pay dividends in the long run!!!.....Why did she have to give up one of her children?...Why?....Poor Sophie!!! (Domiguy dabs his eyes and blows his nose into hanky...Switches channel back to SportsCenter) Oooooh!...Derrek Lee went 4-5 today with two doubles...Sweet!!!(Domiguy is happy once again....Another Cub's victory has made his day and wiped away all memories of that awful bitch Sophie and her trials and tribulations).....Keep licking baby!....Keep on licking!!!

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 9:56:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Agreed .. nice post CitizenCane ...

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 10:04:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think training is definatly different than scening. There are things Master would love to do to me but from lack of experience I have an extreamly hard time doing them, I welcome any training to make it esier for me to do these things I cant do already. It's working up to be able to do something one has a hard time with, cant do, or even to make scening safer so one doesnt get hurt because there not use to something.

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 10:06:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would see an excersise like that as more of a humiliation type thing....and as long as someone cleaned the doorknob first, Id do it..may not like it, but Id do it. Things like that..that are in no way sexual but still assert his Dominance over me, sometimes make be feel even more submissive than they usual sexualdominant type stuff.

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 10:17:07 AM   
Cyntilating


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Status: offline 		OOooooo  Sophies choice is on??  perk!...
would much rather lick the tv so i can watch that at the same time!!   chuckling...
 
...well i suppose my response to this scenario is that it's not me that i'm pleasin'..it's him...if a doorknob getting my tongue action gets him excited..(ie pleased, pleasure) then doorknob lickin it is : )
 
...in years back relationship i was in, there was no sex, no penetration, no romantic intimacies.  So, i personally do not find a scene that doesnt end in sex, or intimacy of any kind, that unusual.. Would I prefer that it did? well, honestly sure..  But its not about my preference and if it were up to my preference then whos will am i submitting to?
I guess what i am saying is that i have learned not to anticipate or go into something Master plans with expectations.  I just live the experience as it comes to me.. If  i have trusted him completely with my submission and i then begin questioning his actions and decisions, am i not taking back that submission in a way?
 
but i understand your reason for the question and its a good topic : )
 
 
 
 

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 11:10:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		When it is just the two of you home alone do you still refer to your actions as scening? 

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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 11:45:09 AM   
CitizenCane


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ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

I would see an excersise like that as more of a humiliation type thing....and as long as someone cleaned the doorknob first, Id do it..may not like it, but Id do it. Things like that..that are in no way sexual but still assert his Dominance over me, sometimes make be feel even more submissive than they usual sexualdominant type stuff.

ghita~


I suppose a lot depends on how you define 'humiliation'. If to humiliate is to force humility on someone, to humble them, to 'bring them low', that seems appropriate. It also seems like an appropriate way to describe much of the D/s dynamic.  As for cleaning the doorknob- they are dirty things, much of the time, but no more so than, say, a human mouth.  Keeping the doorknobs clean, just in case, might be a good plan for a sub who's squeamish about such things.



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RE: Discipline training - 7/16/2007 11:49:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm assuming the purpose was to get you used to the armbinder and the doorknob licking was to take your mind off the uncomfortableness of the armbinder. I can see this because if all you did was focus on how much your arms hurt you might not have made the ten minutes.

For me, if he didn't explain why I was to lick a doorknob I might get pissy about it and that attitude wouldn't be conducive to putting up with a lot of pain from something extremely uncomfortable. But I need that in order to be able to focus, you obviously don't.

But he doesn't normally do stuff like that to me, mainly because we're not into s & m so he would want me to yell out when it got too bad. He also doesn't decide ahead of time how long I have to take something, he tries it and sees my reaction several times. Mostly I will slowly be able to take a tough position a little longer each time, the things I can't are as important for him to know about as the things I can - possibly more so.

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RE: Discipline training - 7/17/2007 9:46:39 AM   
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...as a bondage loving sub, i have enjoyed and endured similar discipline and training sessions for much longer time periods= really hilites the power exchange and obedience aspects and such good fun (so long as the knob was clean! beforehand).

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