quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy
I think you need to be much more specific to elicit any type of an intelligent answer.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elorin

How do you feel about an activity just for the purpose of enduring longer periods of time in bondage or other restraints? Do you like training activities that aren't along the lines of "I like X done Y way" and practicing, but have slightly different goals?

Would you feel this was a scene, or do you view "training" activities as a separate category from scening?

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I think it was training for a scene.  Which can be very useful for people who do a lot of scenes.  As well, discipline in one area tends to blend into an overall sense of discipline.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elorin

M told me to strip. He put on a leather armbinder around my arms (behind my back) in a rather strict position.

He told me to stick my tongue out and lick a doorknob for 10 minutes.

Then we were done. That was all there was to it. It wasn't S&M, there was no sex, there was no orgasm. It was 10 minutes of training in a particular discpline. Learning to wear the armbinder for 10 minutes at a time (which will be increased as time goes on) and learning to do something he wants me to become better at. I.E. sticking out my tongue for lengths of time. I'm learning endurance for oral pleasure, apparently, although I didn't realize I needed "training" at it.

For me, a scene is normally associated with a much more active role on the part of the dom, rather than just putting me into bondage and leaving me there. I found this to be exactly what M called it - training and discipline - rather than a scene.

Was wondering if anyone else engages in similar forms of training, or if they would feel it was a scene if they shared this.

quote:

ORIGINAL: octavia
Elorin,
thanks for sharing your experience.   Personally I'm not sure I would find this appealing, but having the limited experience I have.. take that for what it's worth.  Did he stay and watch?  LOL I guess if I were putting on a show, I might find it more interesting.  From my limited experience (pulling mostly from memory) something like that would always be followed by an active scene.  I didn't use those words to describe it though... just good ol' "hot sex" back then.  
Just my humble opinion,
oct

quote:

ORIGINAL: swift

greetings Masters
greetings Mistresses
greetings subs and slaves

girl thinks the difference between training and scening was highlighted in previous post and does not wish to bore T/those by repeating.

girl also thinks that girl is a little confused, perhaps because like most things in life, there needs to be a context in which questions are discussed, as this helps to focus and target the answer given, as in most situations success is greater with clear concise communication......prevents assumptions being made....this os probably why T/those answering tend to put answers in the context of how it was intended to be answered....so not to seem as to make assumptions

well wishes and thank Y/you for letting girl post

girl swift

quote:

ORIGINAL: Elorin

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy
I think you need to be much more specific to elicit any type of an intelligent answer.

M told me to strip. He put on a leather armbinder around my arms (behind my back) in a rather strict position.

He told me to stick my tongue out and lick a doorknob for 10 minutes.

Then we were done. That was all there was to it. It wasn't S&M, there was no sex, there was no orgasm. It was 10 minutes of training in a particular discpline. Learning to wear the armbinder for 10 minutes at a time (which will be increased as time goes on) and learning to do something he wants me to become better at. I.E. sticking out my tongue for lengths of time. I'm learning endurance for oral pleasure, apparently, although I didn't realize I needed "training" at it.

For me, a scene is normally associated with a much more active role on the part of the dom, rather than just putting me into bondage and leaving me there. I found this to be exactly what M called it - training and discipline - rather than a scene.

Was wondering if anyone else engages in similar forms of training, or if they would feel it was a scene if they shared this.

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy
I have asked subs to do various things even though not in my presence.....Maybe the guy just wanted 10 minutes of peace and quiet...Maybe he's going to introduce you to a woman with a humongous clit....I have left women tied up while I took care of other things....It would seem that if you have trouble licking for ten minutes....Then maybe this would help...I dunno.

Most things that are taught...Is where there is an exact correlation between the action being taught to the sub and a desired affect that will be reached from those lessons.

I think he was looking for a 10 minute break.

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Well, yeah, of course, but don't you think her greeting is cute?