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submissive traing "academy" - 5/18/2007 5:02:36 PM   
daveho


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I was wondering if any one can tell me if they know of such a place in Vancouver BC.
I saw their web site and saved it as a fasvorite but have since lost it and don't remember thier actual name.
It's something like submissive or slave training academy.

Thanks
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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/18/2007 5:56:05 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		well, what you looking to be trained in?  it can't be the onliest one.

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/18/2007 5:59:18 PM   
Griswold


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ORIGINAL: daveho

Hello,
I was wondering if any one can tell me if they know of such a place in Vancouver BC.
I saw their web site and saved it as a fasvorite but have since lost it and don't remember thier actual name.
It's something like submissive or slave training academy.

Thanks


Oh...yes...of course...it's www.ohfuckIthinkIforgotooooohI'mthinkingsubDomme.com

(Does that help?)

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/18/2007 8:58:08 PM   
minnetar


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Status: offline 		dave,
i have found every Dom to be different.  Have the person who you want to serve and be owned by train you.  you can read all kinds of threads on here to learn things in general.  If you have questions, then start a thread or research to find other threads.

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/18/2007 11:33:06 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		ever think of googling "slave academy" and "British Columbia"?

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 7:34:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		after training are they certified as "twue" submissives/slaves?



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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 8:01:35 AM   
Copulo


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after training are they certified as "twue" submissives/slaves?




exactly!!!

No two Mistress/Masters want the same thing so how on earth can someone who is not going to be your Mistress/Master, train you? What they are doing is training you the way they think a slave/sub should be and probably earning a lot of money into the bargain.

If I had a sub come to me holding a certificate to say they were a qualified submissive I would throw it on the fire.
Believe me, its not going to be worth anything and that piece of paper will have no meaning other than to you and the person that hands it to you

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 12:00:25 PM   
daveho


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Status: offline 		I have acculy seen their web site a while back and they do offer a wide variety of traing, and if I remember correclty they either take you on as a slave or "sell" you to someone else. I tried googling it but have come up empty so they may no longer exist. or i am not tryuing the correct key words.
Thanks

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 12:44:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: minnetar

dave,
i have found every Dom to be different. Have the person who you want to serve and be owned by train you. you can read all kinds of threads on here to learn things in general. If you have questions, then start a thread or research to find other threads.

minnetar



I agree with this 100%. Just because you've got a driving licence doesn't mean to say you're a good driver. What makes you a good driver is the amount of experience you've got behind the wheel, actually driving.

Same too with BDSM, even more so in fact. I've served several Dommes over a number of years and the only thing they had in common was that they were all women. Each one was different. Each one expected different things, each one had a different definition of what submission was.

I'm submissive, I have a Domme, but I serve her as the person she is, the individual she is, not because she's a Domme.

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 12:57:51 PM   
cinnfulhussy


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Status: offline 		http://www.slave-academy.com/about.html

Would that be the place?
I personally don't find the website very useful on outlining exactly what areas they train.  I'd be interested in butler/majordomo/running a household kinda things and I know there are schools/academies for that.  I see things like that rather transferable,  useful in many different areas of your life and with different people.

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 1:01:23 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I agree with most of these posters that training is specific to your mate.  However, there are places for generic training.  I have seen an ad for one of them in some European country.  And one other, which I can't recall.  Most seem to be geared toward male subs.  Regarding the one in Canada, I have never heard of it.  But, you can find places that do weekends of this all over if you look hard.
Check out kinkfest.org.

Or this one that was this weekend:


boys Training Camp (bTC) Is BackAfter a two year hiatus, boys Training Camp is back and scheduled for May 18- 20, 2007 in Phoenix Arizona.  The camp is designed for those who identify in a submissive role regardless of age, gender or sexual orientation.  The group of participants encompasses both those who are currently collared and in service and those who are not currently serving a particular Dominant.The original boys Training Camp concept was conceived by Master Jim Glass, Master Doug Harris and the late Master Dean Walradt.  The majority of the camps were under the direction of Master Dean and sponsored by Leathernetwork.  With the passing of Master Dean in 2004, the Headmaster responsibilities and ownership of boys Training Camp were passed on to Master Z of Dallas under the sponsorship of the Texas Leather Tribe (TLT).During boys Training Camp the participants interact with experienced faculty as well as the other attendees who are of like mind and heart and have varying degrees of experience.  Previous camps have been made up of slaves, boys, bois, girls, puppies, all learning from each other and enjoying the energy generated by the participants.The Camp begins on Friday evening with Registration and a series of discussions that set the tone for the weekend.  There is also a reception with a Keynote Speaker.Saturday continues with facilitated discussions in both large and small groupings as well as hands-on skill workshops.   The finale and highlight of Saturday evening is the opportunity for the attendees to participate in and/or observe some dungeon play during “Stations of the Cross”.  This activity allows all the participants the opportunity to experience different BDSm play to whatever level of involvement they feel comfortable with, in a safe and secure environment.The final day on Sunday begins with a brunch and more facilitated discussion in both large and small groups.  The last activity and a very popular part of the weekend is a “boy/boi rap session” that concludes with a Q&A with the boys/bois/girls/slaves/puppies/etc. who serve as faculty.  Closing ceremonies that evening include awards and recognition.The number of attendees at a boys Training Camp are limited so be sure to register early.  Additional information can be found on the Texas Leather Tribe website at:http://web.mac.com/leathertribeThen click on the bTC tab. 


Just because the public belittles your desire, doesn't mean there are no real avenues for you to explore.
Good luck on that Canada thing,
Kyst





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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 1:06:17 PM   
Masque66


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Status: offline 		From what I hear from slaves who go from one master to another, 'retraining' is the word I hear most often.  This really doesn't sound like it would appeal to a master who has a slave.  But someone interested in becoming a slave might take an interest in doing it for a while.  to see if they like it if nothing else.

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 3:41:04 PM   
moki1984


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Status: offline 		never heard of but every master/mistress will want different things....and many are willing to train "newbs"

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/19/2007 11:19:21 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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your looking for AcademyForSlaves.



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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/21/2007 12:21:11 PM   
lytehaze


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Status: offline 		A number of people seem pretty down on the idea of a training camp, and I don't understand why. Yes every Dom/Master is different but there are basics of submission required by all. "Academies" teach in general terms.Why is it silly to want to learn such things in a structured environment? Learning how to control your tongue, how to give a good massage, history/proper technique for some fetishes, how to enhance the talents your already have, etc is not a bad thing. At worst you learn a few things your Dom doesn't require of you or will correct. "Academies" are especially helpful while searching for the right Dom. Why sit around doing nothing while you wait. Working on improving your submission alone, or trying to prepare yourself whether a Dom is present or not is admirable. That way you don't stagnate. I think the place you're looking for is called "The Slave Academy" www.slave-academy.com

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/21/2007 11:57:52 PM   
DominaSmartass


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ORIGINAL: cinnfulhussy

http://www.slave-academy.com/about.html

Would that be the place?
I personally don't find the website very useful on outlining exactly what areas they train.  I'd be interested in butler/majordomo/running a household kinda things and I know there are schools/academies for that.  I see things like that rather transferable,  useful in many different areas of your life and with different people.



I looked at the site, it's rather "Exit to Eden"-esq. One thing caught my eye though. The website is copyright 2004 Mistress Fire. Is that our one and the same Master Fire? I guess only Fire can say.

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/22/2007 12:00:51 AM   
DominaSmartass


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ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves

Hi.

your looking for AcademyForSlaves.



Hmmm...no, somehow I don't think that's what he was looking for. But nice job with your self-promotion.

grumble grumble html tags arg

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/23/2007 12:51:09 AM   
LadyPaige


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Status: offline 		You might find your local group's demos more educational and less expensive.  Ask your leadership if they can scedule a demo on table service or boot blacking.  They had a slave's dinner in Atlanta not too long ago that would have been interesting to attend and we recently had a rope demo that included care and cleaning of different types of rope.  Opportunities abound if you keep your eyes open.

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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 5/23/2007 6:52:44 AM   
CitizenCane


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ORIGINAL: stella40

quote:

ORIGINAL: minnetar

dave,
i have found every Dom to be different. Have the person who you want to serve and be owned by train you. you can read all kinds of threads on here to learn things in general. If you have questions, then start a thread or research to find other threads.

minnetar



I agree with this 100%. Just because you've got a driving licence doesn't mean to say you're a good driver. What makes you a good driver is the amount of experience you've got behind the wheel, actually driving.

Same too with BDSM, even more so in fact. I've served several Dommes over a number of years and the only thing they had in common was that they were all women. Each one was different. Each one expected different things, each one had a different definition of what submission was.

I'm submissive, I have a Domme, but I serve her as the person she is, the individual she is, not because she's a Domme.



I'm puzzled as to why so many object to the idea of training as a thing in itself.  You make a comparison to getting a driver's license- indeed getting a license doesn't make you a good driver. It's an indication, however, that you have some basic skills in driving. If you extend your comparison in reverse, you seem to suggest that going to Driver's Ed and getting a license is a waste of time.
It seems to me that a large part of the problem is the variety of interpretations of the term 'training' that people have.  If you see 'training' as meaning learning a very specific set of behaviors, then indeed, these may well fail to fit a future Dom or Domme. By this standard, though, military boot camp is largely a waste of time. Most of the specific skills a soldier needs for their actual military function are learned later, in specific schools for specific jobs. However, boot camp does serve to instill some basic habits and attitudes in recruits that are useful (at least the military believes they are) in all their possible future roles.  Training a submissive can be such an undertaking- helping to build and reinforce attitudes and perceptions that will be generally useful, helping the sub to get a hands-on experience of submission, get over the jitters, and build some self-confidence without the added complexities of a brand new affective relationship to confuse things.  Not everybody's cup of tea, but hardly something to be disparaged across the board.




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RE: submissive traing "academy" - 6/27/2007 6:14:02 AM   
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ct. "Academies" are especially helpful while searching for the right Dom. Why sit around doing nothing while you wait. Working on improving your submission alone, or trying to prepare yourself whether a Dom is present or not is admirable. That way you don't stagnate. I think the place you're looking for is called "The Slave Academy" www.slave-academy.com
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re yourself whether a Dom is present or not is admirable. That way you don't stagnate. I think the place you're looking for is called "The Slave Academy" www.slave-academy.com


and when you go to the website they promote....spring 205 classes..............so they are GONE with the wind

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