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RE: Resistance play for the willing - 4/24/2007 2:52:36 PM

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If all else fails, I find the "psychological" rape can be just as much of a rush. Camp counsellor, bad babysitter, school nurse, evil schoolmistress, perverted aunty... all kinds of inappropraite scenarios where authority can be deliciously abused, where you sweet talk him malevolently in his ear, convincing him that what you are doing is only for his own good and will feel sooooooo wonderful to his virginal young body...

Mmmmmm. I'm a bad girl sometimes.

Ohhhh, thanks for those ideas. My mind was going that direction anyway since between us I am the Daddy and he is my little girl. Yes, we know the gender is reversed, see previous threads. I want him to resist and fight, really, but I also have all these ideas of molesting my innocent girl who is easily overpowered by me anyway. Damn, still 3 nights till he arrives. Must think pure thoughts.

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RE: Resistance play for the willing - 4/24/2007 3:02:08 PM

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Ah yes, the joy of roleplay! Have fun with your little girl... sounds like Daddy has a lot in store for her when she arrives. If you've both been kept waiting, I'm sure you will not need much incentive to tear him apart when he gets there, but he'll probably be so worked up he won't resist in any way, shape or form at first... I guess you'll have to get that out of your systems before any "rapes" can happen ;)

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RE: Resistance play for the willing - 4/24/2007 3:24:03 PM

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If they are instant melt it just means you have to be more creative in how you toy with them and how you "fight".
Love nothing more than doing the They come after you and you move out of the way until they wear themselves out routine.

Provoke them and let them come at you till they give up trying to "get you" then provoke them again, repeat until satisfied then pin them, and let them melt.

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RE: Resistance play for the willing - 4/24/2007 4:49:35 PM

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If they are instant melt it just means you have to be more creative in how you toy with them and how you "fight".
Love nothing more than doing the They come after you and you move out of the way until they wear themselves out routine.

Provoke them and let them come at you till they give up trying to "get you" then provoke them again, repeat until satisfied then pin them, and let them melt.

ACME Instant-Melt as used by Wile Coyote? His stuff always backfired though..

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RE: Resistance play for the willing - 4/24/2007 5:22:41 PM

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planning a surprise attack is about the only way to go about it; though it could get you hurt too if you're not careful!

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RE: Resistance play for the willing - 4/24/2007 5:25:26 PM

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I find the idea of doing something completely because I want to against his will very hot but the thing is that it would basically be impossible for me to do something he doesn't want cause he wants everything, lol.

Seems like there must be something out there he doesn't like, even if it's not strictly D/s related- maybe some kind of chore that he finds distasteful and not sexy, that he would have to perform if he "loses"? That may get some competitive spirit going to overcome the squishies. What about humiliation and taunting- are there buttons you could push there? Are there things that you could do that would be inconvenient or embarassing over the short-to-moderate term that he might resist- things like shaving his arms or eyebrows, drawing on him with a Sharpie marker in visible places, or giving him rug burn?

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RE: Resistance play for the willing - 4/24/2007 5:48:56 PM

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I have a hard time not just melting for Sir, too. For others I can resist and we have a blast. One play partner needed a way to p*ss me off so he spat at me, whereupon I attacked him in a fury. A very VERY hott scene.

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RE: Resistance play for the willing - 4/24/2007 6:03:52 PM

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As you've discovered, resistance play doesn't work without resistance.

Perhaps you could threaten something your partner genuinely doesn't want, but something you can reasonably believe he has consented to.

If you hurt him emotionally, would he respond with violence? This is an option to try with warning, but it might work well.

You might couch resistance in a grander roleplay--a carjacking, a break-in, a general revenge scenario--that seems appealing and that you can both do convincingly enough to have fun.

If you want to induce him to stop giving in so soon, when he gives in, you could stop doing fun stuff with him. In other words, if he's getting all hot and bothered from the resistance play and he gives in to encourage you, you stop. This will discourage giving in. You may need to use words to tell him that if he wants more fun, he needs to struggle better, because it's not fun for you to manhandle someone who isn't resisting.

If you are smaller than your partner, you might find it difficult to exert enough physical force--and more to the point, here, he might feel the need to not fight much to make it easier for you to effect a takedown. It's my experience that men underestimate the physical strength of their female sex partners. [But I realized that you and your partner take transgendered roles in your relationship, so perhaps this isn't as significant for you and your partner as it is for me.] Anyhow, demonstrating to him that you can fight effectively is helpful. If you can't fight effectively, you can improve. Whether this takes the form of learning sport fighting skills, increasing your strength, or learning to fight unconventionally (read: dirtily) is up to you.

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