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julietsierra -> RE: part time Masters (4/22/2007 6:37:34 PM)
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ORIGINAL: rubyleu
What i mean by part time Master, is One who cannot be with his slave more than once or twice a month. Its physically part time, mailny because of long distance.
Thank you all for your answers.
In answer to you, I'd ask a further question.
At what point do you see a dominant being part time? Is it in the situation of a dominant and submissive living together, where the dominant gets shipped overseas due to a military committment for a year? Does that 24/7 dominant suddenly take on part time status due to his committment to his country? Or is he still the all the time dominant that he was before he'd been deployed?
What about the dominant who is around most weeks but during certain times of the year he's gone on business for a month or more? Does him being around most of the time before earn for him more than a part time status?
There's the situation where illness and other things stop the dominant and submissive from being together more than they'd prefer. If a dominant is ill, is he a part time dominant or a full time dominant who just happens to be suffering from something right now?
What about the case of the submissive who has children and is being mother to them during the week, the dominant has children and is being father to them; the kids have their sports and their activities and it just so happens that they submissive and dominant can't get together as often as they'd like. Does that make either of them part-timers? Or does that just make them responsible parents who understand what must come first?
My Master and I do not live together. Last year, due to some family stuff, he and I rarely saw each other from about November to April. It in no way made him a part time anything. It made him a man who had responsibilities and kept them in the proper order. If that meant he didn't see me due to those responsibilities, I sure wasn't going to bitch about how I needed to be beaten/fucked when the other things SO outweighed what I lusted for. I cared. I supported him as he best wanted that done, and if that support meant we weren't talking, then we weren't talking. If that support meant I met him for dinner at the end of a night because he needed down time, I met him. And if he wanted to beat my ass AND had time, I was up for that too...his needs, his responsibilities, his schedule.
This time of the year is a busy time for my Master - both at work and in terms of leisure as well. I saw him once in Feb, once in March, twice so far in April. I am his submissive full time even when we don't see each other. He is my dominant in the same way. Each and every single thing I do, I do with a mind toward whether he'd want me to do that or not. I tell him everywhere I go, what I do and when I do it. I ask permission for what I'm supposed to ask for.
And like always... I submit
I submitted.
I didn't submit on a part time basis. He didn't dominate on a part time basis. He trusted me to be patient and I was. I waited for him to get through what he had to do, and he did...
What more is there to ask for - by either of us?
He is a dominant. I am a submissive. We do what we do because it's who we are and we do it best with each other. If that means we do it together 3 times a day like bunnies, great. If that means we do it once a month whether we need it or not, great too. And if that means he's in another city, another state, another country or another planet. He is still the dominant in charge of me and I'm still the submissive submitting to his will...
And there's nothing part time about that in the very least.
So, in answer to your question, I suppose the answer, to me, is obvious. If I don't see him but once a month...this is what I do.
I wait.
juliet
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