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RE: masters posting - 4/14/2007 7:15:14 PM   
His1kitten


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ORIGINAL: myobedience

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Yes, I'm with Tammyjo on this one.  I think the boards are a great way to see personalities come out.  Something that is a very nice advantage to them.  It's a good way to get to "cyber know" people on the site.


cyber "friendships" are NOT the same as knowing someone in person.
Yes some personality comes out, what we want to see of that other person, but who is to say that what we think we see is really the reality of that person we think we know from the forums????
 
Someone here thinks she has me all figured out, but she hasnt a clue.



i met my One online, we chatted, emailed, talked on the phone for over a year, every day before meeting face to face.  We learned much about one another in that time, we had to communicate.  He spoke to a few of my friends and family and i spoke to His.  Trust me, you can "know" a person, you just have to be careful.  It is the same when you meet someone anywhere and there are precautions you should take.  i say the longer you talk with someone the better. 

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RE: masters posting - 4/14/2007 7:21:15 PM   
twistedkytten


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Status: offline 		this girl does not think her Master any less Masterful because He does not post..also, she finds having the Ones that do frequent the forums useful, and a good resource for appropriate questions.

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RE: masters posting - 4/14/2007 7:23:29 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		Mt Master doesn't post on here because he has no interest in it. He reads what I post. He is most certainly real.  Some like to chat and some don't on the forums. Just a personal preference. Nothing to do with being domly.

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RE: masters posting - 4/14/2007 8:25:16 PM   
TigerNINTails


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Status: offline 		I've been too busy to post on here, but joined almost 2 years ago.

I've been posting on here more frequently, mainly because the window has been opened and exists as a tab in my browser, as I just restore my previous sessions. I've found some good threads to post in and speak my mind a bit.

I also enjoy writing, and would be the reason I post in the first place. It also gives me a chance to express some of the knowledge I've collected over the years.

Normally though, there is so much diversity to the point of adversity in peoples opinions of what's what and why and was there a chicken involved that I tend to not waste my time.

I got called in here by a friend, and due to the intellect of the people I've encountered thus far, and even despite the lack thereof in some cases, I've elected to stay on a bit.

Warning: This Top May Erase Himself From Interaction At Any Moment.

The plain and simple of it, is that I'm feverishly at work on building the financial core of my lifestyle finally. This way I can responsibly care for and train and develop slaves as a 24-7 situation.

Therefore, I really don't have time. I suspect it's much the same for other people. They simply have "more important" tasks at hand, than chewin the fat on some forum somewhere.

For me, I'm lucky, as it's also part of my business... Not this forum, but some others. So it fits my skill sets in sociable conversation and for education, etc. and helps towards the goals that I've set to achieve the financial success I need.

It all ties together. Eventually.

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RE: masters posting - 4/14/2007 9:40:30 PM   
WiseCracknSadist


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Status: offline 		We just like to hear ourselves talk. Er... read ourselves type? Some of us try to give honest advice in hopes of helping. To me it's interesting to see how people interact. I think also it's an effort to reach out to those similar to ourselves so we don't feel so isolated. Being of this particuar inclination can make you an outcast. So it's nice to meet people who share your beliefs.

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RE: masters posting - 4/15/2007 12:41:24 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

I have also noticed that more women than men post on the boards, women tend
to be more chatty, but we do have a few chatty men around here, also.


There is something so unDomly about the word "chatty"

Sinergy

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RE: masters posting - 4/15/2007 3:59:42 PM   
MadRabbit


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ORIGINAL: mstrjx

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I prefer Collarme.com forums over other cyber discussion groups because of the diverse crowd and because I dont have to worry about being censored by some fluffy telly tubby moderator.



At the end of the year, I was invited to join a discussion group that looked like it would be similar to this one, but it was theoretically for newbies and every few days there would be messages sent around advising against 1/10th of what goes on around here.

Personally, I think we have the capacity to learn more when there is some sort of friction, rather than someone making a post and 12 people come on just to say 'Good post.  Attaboy.'  When our emotions are aroused more, we have the capacity to bring in so much more.

It's not that I live for my 'snark' comments from time to time, but I feel good that I can give them and still have something positive come from it.

Jeff


I agree.

I dont have people following me around in day to day life, listening to everything I say and correcting me if I say it the wrong way.

I'm sure at some times I come as a sarcastic prick but there is usually a point buried beneath my snark comments.

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RE: masters posting - 4/15/2007 4:47:20 PM   
Rafters


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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: mstrjx

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I prefer Collarme.com forums over other cyber discussion groups because of the diverse crowd and because I dont have to worry about being censored by some fluffy telly tubby moderator.



At the end of the year, I was invited to join a discussion group that looked like it would be similar to this one, but it was theoretically for newbies and every few days there would be messages sent around advising against 1/10th of what goes on around here.

Personally, I think we have the capacity to learn more when there is some sort of friction, rather than someone making a post and 12 people come on just to say 'Good post.  Attaboy.'  When our emotions are aroused more, we have the capacity to bring in so much more.

It's not that I live for my 'snark' comments from time to time, but I feel good that I can give them and still have something positive come from it.

Jeff


I agree.

I dont have people following me around in day to day life, listening to everything I say and correcting me if I say it the wrong way.

I'm sure at some times I come as a sarcastic prick but there is usually a point buried beneath my snark comments.


Hey keep it up.
The more chlorine added to the pool of knowledge, the less likely some shitty advice will make someone sick.



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RE: masters posting - 4/15/2007 4:59:35 PM   
MadRabbit


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RE: masters posting - 4/17/2007 6:10:05 AM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: goodlittlegirl28

it's all based on perception.


This is an important truth for me.  We can only gain opinion of another based on our own personal perception of the person.  If their is no information to base this perception on we can't have any opinion.  I can ask you about Joe Black... but if you never heard nothing of him or met him.. then obviously your not going to be able to give me anything.  It also should be noted that our perceptions and our beliefs/standards that we will make our judgements are very individualistic.  What one person calls Master or Slave.. another may just say Idiot.  Lastly, Dominance/Submission must be exericised for others to gain a perception of you.  You may establish a perception of you as a person, but this doesn't necessarily gives an indication of your Dominance/Submission.  If I am in a situation that is inappropriate to exercise my dominant nature... and this is the only opportunity to base a perception of me.  Can you make an fair judgement of my Dominant nature?  I would say not.  and this would be no different for any other person, Dominant/Submissive or otherwise.

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RE: masters posting - 4/17/2007 6:58:20 AM   
jauntyone


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Greetings
 
I wanted to jump on something that KnightofMists said here.
 
“If I am in a situation that is inappropriate to exercise my dominant nature; and this is the only opportunity to base a perception of me; can you make a fair judgment of my dominant nature?”
 
I picked this because at first, I wanted to jump right in and say yes, I could. 
But, then I thought about it and realized that he has a very good point.
 
Most who meet me would not use the definition of slave or submissive with me. They would see a very polite, well behaved, quiet and unassuming person who let’s others take the lead J I believe some refer to it as docile or wallflower.
 
However, for one who actually KNEW me well enough; they would understand that my behavior is submissive.
 
The same could be said for those who have very strong, dominant personalities. Unless we know someone well enough to recognize it; how can we make a judgment as to how or what that person is?
 
Interesting perspective KnightofMists; one that made me stop and rethink a bit.
 
I wish you well
 
                                                             melissa

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RE: masters posting - 4/17/2007 7:30:53 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: jauntyone
The same could be said for those who have very strong, dominant personalities. Unless we know someone well enough to recognize it; how can we make a judgment as to how or what that person is?
The hysterical part is that most people IN THE SCENE, who know full well that personality does not equal orientation, that someone who appears very docile can be a dominant, that someone who appears very aggressive can be a slave- still fall into that assumption.  All the "can a dom be a nice guy" and "can a slave be a strong person" threads are just the surface of it.


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RE: masters posting - 4/17/2007 8:10:12 AM   
MadRabbit


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
The hysterical part is that most people IN THE SCENE, who know full well that personality does not equal orientation, that someone who appears very docile can be a dominant, that someone who appears very aggressive can be a slave- still fall into that assumption.  All the "can a dom be a nice guy" and "can a slave be a strong person" threads are just the surface of it.
 


I've actually been having a discussion via email about this with a submissive. I actually have a pamphlet on my desk that was given to me at a Vendor's Faire regarding "Protocols and Behaviors at Play Parties". "Dominants should be controlled, quiet and reserved". "Slaves should be seen and not heard."

It seems everyone wants everyone to conform to a certain ideal of what the this lifestyle should be like.

I think its a lot like religion. If the Bible says it is this way, then it must be this way! A false fealing of security that one has a black and white grasp of how the world works.

What? Your slave is loud, aggressive, and outgoing! Well, she cant be a slave! She doesnt conform to the idea of how people should be in this culture.

< Message edited by MadRabbit -- 4/17/2007 8:11:55 AM >

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RE: masters posting - 4/18/2007 4:38:22 AM   
jauntyone


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It seems everyone wants everyone to conform to a certain ideal of what the this lifestyle should be like.

Greetings MadRabbit
 
It's odd to think about this lol. It kind of goes around in a full circle.
 
I don't think that everyone wants to conform to a certain ideal; I think that everyone wants to conform to their OWN ideal; YET, they see EVERYONE else through the same eyes ( their own perception ). It's kind of like a circle
 
I wish you well
 
melissa

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RE: masters posting - 4/18/2007 4:47:46 AM   
starshineowned


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Status: offline 		Greetings..~smiles~

Master has a profile here. He use to post a bit in a few sections but hasn't for a long time now. He prefers a different site when he has time to post at all.

Well Wishes
starshine
Happy slave of Master Delvin

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RE: masters posting - 4/18/2007 9:30:03 AM   
ExSteelAgain


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Status: offline 		Many don’t like novels, many don’t like certain kinds of movies, many don’t like theatre and many don’t like message boards. The nonposters’ inclinations and abilities are elsewhere and that leads them away from message boards. I don’t like rap or country music so I don’t watch those music channels on TV or listen to those radio stations. I do think many who post here are learned readers and writers with a few pseudo ones like me thrown in.

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RE: masters posting - 4/18/2007 9:38:31 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		WHY shouldn't"t a MASTER post?Some don't because they aren't at home in this type of discussion,while most like me are a forum junkie..Should one think one is less dominant because he posts and posts  often737 posts later , hogwash is my answer...I enjoyed the boards and was here at collar me for quiet a while before I gave them a shot.Since we are currently not seeking this is a fun place to be..Just the views of this ol" MASTER

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RE: masters posting - 4/18/2007 9:48:23 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		OK lets do away with the unDomly "chatty" and say "talkative" instead. I post on here for 3 reasons. One the opinions on here are so diverse that I do learn a lot. Two I have time gaps while here at work to fill in. Third the chat room is really beginning to suck. Whats the difference between cyber friends and old fashion pen pals? As long as you are comunicating and are having a good time with it why knock it.

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RE: masters posting - 4/18/2007 9:58:39 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		I see no "UN "domly chatting here...BH

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