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Pride - 3/27/2007 8:01:52 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		My sister thinks i'm nuts = )  Came to my attention a few weeks ago that my Master doesnt specifically find pregnant chicks attractive.  Its nothing he said, i'm just observant and of course i presented the facts and well i was right.  No big deal, honesty is the best policy.  Except......... i sooooooo do not want to engage in ANY sexual activities.  To me, thats equivilant to pity sex.  Sympathy sex... and just plain some one engaging in sexual activity not because they want to. 

Screw that!  I take no pity........ bah.  Jump off a cliff!  My sister on the other hand thinks i'm nuts for not wanting to engage in sexual activity for months.  I prefer to suffer.  I'm chalking it up to pride.  While i know my pride is misplaced - i cant help it.  Screw that!  i take no pity sex....  HA!  I, of course, am better then that. 

Of course i havent seen Master in about 2 weeks, so i dont know how well this feeling will go over.  I'm hoping that since he feels the way he feels.......  i will, in a round about way, get my way.  Wala!  Of course, if needed i can avoid it like the plague.... there are always ways.  Which i suppose is sort of like manipulating, but i'm not manipulating anyone.  i'm manipulating situations...... imo totally different!  As obviously, if it comes down to it, there isnt a damn thing i can do about it.  "i have a headache" doesnt work.  So avoidance is the best policy!

Pride, pride, pride.  Bad pride!  (or not.. ?)  Unfortunetly, my pride is so thick that even knowing its setting me out to have bad behavior (and thinking it) i dont...... really..... care...  i refuse pity sex! 

Now what i'm looking for from you lovely posters, is to agree with me.  Yup thats right.  AGREE with me.  Tell me you completely understand and you wouldnt want pity sex either.  AND you would also go to any length possible to avoid it.

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 8:06:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd say show this post to the dude when he arrives and have a good laugh at yourselves over it.

There are different levels of pleasure- when you obey your master even though it sucks, do you think he feels you're just obeying him out of pity?  You want to please him.

Sometimes, he wants to please you.  As said, there's different levels of pleasure involved here.

Your mindset is still so set on protecting yourself and coming out ahead and getting it done the way you want- until you let that go and let HIM be the ultimate decision maker, you'll continue to have these problems.



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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 8:07:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		i feel where you're coming from all too well...i wanted nothing to do with anything sexual through most of my pregnancy

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 8:11:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Greetings..folks

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 8:18:28 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope you are enjoying it.
That said, focus on the relationship, your future, your baby, your hopefully--love.
Men can be silly creatures, don't let it get to you.
Take the support he offers you, ignore the rest, celebrate the new life you have created.
If you want to have sex, go ahead, those hormones must be kicking.
Don't think of it as sympathy sex, think of it as...............well aren't you horny?
LOL
Good luck to you and your little one

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 8:34:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with you. You are completely right at all times. 


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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 8:48:29 PM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		I always figured sex was good for developing the muscles needed for childbirth.

Just my thoughts....

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 8:54:07 PM   
classykindasassy


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Status: offline 		Pregnant chicks "in general" are not THE woman HE loves. It puts a different face on things in my opinion.

Sex with someone you love is not all about how a body looks. It's about the person, and that body you have now it attached to a soul worthy of love, even sexual love. If he wants to give it and take pleasure in you, you would refuse that?

Okay - have it your way.

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 9:26:40 PM   
Sirandlittle1


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Status: offline 		Your attitude is not beneficial to you or your partner. You've backed yourself into a lose lose situation honey, your nuts!

Have you considered that he may not desire other people 'property' as pregnant women can appear.
My brother in law once said to my husband, "how can you fuck that? She's so obviously been had!" I was 36 wks at the time. Bastard.

He may well find your body, full with 'his' child a real turn on, or a thing of beauty.

And come back and tell me your NEVER going to have sex pregnant, when your 3 weeks overdue, and the prostaglandins in semen can start labour! Believe me, it works, and at that stage, id of put myself up for a gang bangs worth of cream pie to get the fucker outta me!

For me, a not able to take the pill person, pregnancy was a freeing time of the concerns of pregnancy. The added level of progesterone in mid trimester did wonders for my libido too. The only thing stopping me was the 'position' at times lol

goodluck on resolution of this misunderstanding.
And wishing you a wonderful bouncing babe who sleep through the night early, so you can catch up on all the sex you missed out on.
little1

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 9:35:15 PM   
viperess


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Status: offline 		Greetings,
Personally i would so not be able to avoid it nor would i have wanted to as with all three of my pregnancies i was more of a slut than normal...27/7 i was ready, willing, and wanted it even more.

i believe you need to talk to Him as you are trying to manipulate things to your own liking and not to His. Just because He does not find pregnant women beautiful does not mean He will not find you to be. As the baby grows within you, you may be surprised that His feeling for you both grow. Talk to Him about your feelings.


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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:24:47 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		Oh hell, i'm horny all right.  If i didnt keep myself sane.. and well if my pride allowed it - i'd be screwing everyone in sight.  Hell yes, i'd be ordering orgies left and right.  Pizza man at the door?  Milk man?  gah... male bodies.. male parts.. oooooooo sex. 

But - i cant.  i dont believe in cheating, he wont allow it, and i dun want to do it with him.  i'd rather suffer.

Oh and he doesssssss say i'm beautiful and its a beautiful thing and all that............ but thats different.

Thank you Wild - ) i feel so much better.  Always good to have what i know re affirmed! 

::smiles:: and if yall think i'm showing this post to him..... HA... He'd have one solution.  Plus, i was abit to forthcoming a time or two ago with him.  i told him sex was evil, i was becoming a nun, and i was never ever doing it again.  ::sigh::  He took me to bed. 

i think i'm going to listen to Wild.......... she seems very very wise. 




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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:26:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		DLS I bet you are cute pregnant. Got pics?

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:28:32 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		Put a flag over her head and do it for the country!

well in my case it would be "put a flag over her body........"

hehehehehe. 


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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:29:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

[It] came to my attention a few weeks ago that my Master doesnt specifically find pregnant chicks attractive.


There are few things in life as beautiful as beautiful pregnant women. How can we not kiss their bellies when we have the chance?




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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:35:01 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		HA and NO.  No no no no no no no no and NO pics..... especially current ones

Well actually, the ones on my profile i was pregnant in em.. like 3 months pregnant.. but pregnant none the less.

PLUS - i got on web cam for my sister.. and she was like OMG your HUGE

And then the lady at Chevy's was like "you're only 6 months??!!"

And then my neighbor was like "you're about to pop!"  (which i reminded her i was not even 7 months yet. How dare.... )


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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:38:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why do people say things like: "OMG, you're Huge?" It's like the first snowfall every Winter here in Nebraska, in a way. People who have lived here all of their lives act as if they've never seen snow, much less driven a car in it before.

Surely she knows what pregnant women look like, by now?

I think saying nothing, and letting the silence of your non-response completely deaden the surrounding air, (if you're offended) is sometimes appropriate in such situations.

Some people, though, IMO just are the type that are used to saying whatever pops into their heads and probably mean no harm. But still - can't they just say something like: "Oh, are you excited for the big day?" or something else, that is more positive, or at least more nuetral, instead?  

- Susan

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:43:48 PM   
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quote:

There are few things in life as beautiful as beautiful pregnant women. How can we not kiss their bellies when we have the chance?


Thank you Amayos. 

The belly is fascinating and i often amuse myself by pushing my belly button back in, poking at the little guy, and placing odd objects on the belly to watch them shake.  He loves the belly.  He's good to it.  i am slightly projecting how i feel unto him, but i sum it up as i more or less agree with him.  

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:53:16 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		LOL Susan.... because they are twits!  Atleast my momma says nice things.  She keeps telling me "its the clothes you're wearing" OR "its because you're already small and petite" 

I'm not offended.. i'm.... eh - embarressed?  i laugh it off.... and then i call up my mom and ask her if i'm huge.  LOL 

Or i could just lie and agree with everyone that i'm due any day now. 

Hey um, Susan?  ::smiles::  you do agree with the OP right?  i am correct.  So far i've only one wise woman telling me how right i am...... 


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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 10:55:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

HA and NO.  No no no no no no no no and NO pics..... especially current ones

Well actually, the ones on my profile i was pregnant in em.. like 3 months pregnant.. but pregnant none the less.

PLUS - i got on web cam for my sister.. and she was like OMG your HUGE

And then the lady at Chevy's was like "you're only 6 months??!!"

And then my neighbor was like "you're about to pop!"  (which i reminded her i was not even 7 months yet. How dare.... )



Hmmmm.... I got body paints. Can I paint you like a pumpkin patch and take pics?

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RE: Pride - 3/27/2007 11:07:50 PM   
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Hmmmm.... I got body paints. Can I paint you like a pumpkin patch and take pics?



LOL  - only if you let me kick you in the shins a few good times and promise not to get upset when i find ways to make fun of you - ) AND - if i amuse myself so much that i end up falling over laughing.. you cant get upset either.  One other condition.............. you have to let me dress you up like a mermaid in high heels too... (so i can take pics).

If you can let me have a laugh at your expense, vent my frustrations and go first.....  i will contemplate allowing you to have a laugh at my expense.  ::smiles::


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