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for the dom males on this site - 3/21/2007 11:08:06 PM

MasterHXB

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do you control your slaves online activity?

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/21/2007 11:13:17 PM

hisannabelle

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He does not control my online activity.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/21/2007 11:21:50 PM

ownedgirlie

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If he felt it necessary, he would tell me his rules of my online activity and I would abide by them. He limited my activity in the past from time to time, but has not done that in ages. If at any time he felt my online activity was interfering with my obligations to him, he would probably limit it again. But that hasn't happened in about 2 1/2 years.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/21/2007 11:23:23 PM

LadyAnnabelleLee

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHXB

do you control your slaves online activity?

Mayhap this question would be better in "Ask A Master"?

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/21/2007 11:29:00 PM

Caitriona

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He does not limit mine either, although it is common that I share my posts with him if I am curious about his thoughts on a subject.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/21/2007 11:37:25 PM

WilliamWizer

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Directly no. but if it intereferes with her obligations then of course it will be limited.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 12:01:18 AM

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Only the amount of time i spend online. i am free to speak as i wish, and with whom i wish.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 12:03:08 AM

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In a word, No. I trust her...is that not what the dynamic is about? Be Well, Be Careful

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 4:34:16 AM

jaunty1

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ORIGINAL: MasterHXB

do you control your slaves online activity?

No, there is no need to. She's a big girl and does not need a babysitter.

Live well,

Alex

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 4:38:12 AM

Rafters

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Reduce it? No
Grab a share of it? Yes

Sometime I ask them to research things for me, sometimes send me an email if they're unleashed (in space or time) or share anything they come across that'll amuse or intrigue me.

It all comes back to; you have to give a sub their freedom and space to grow, so you have something worth enslaving.

Free range anything, generally tastes nicer than battery farmed.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 4:48:01 AM

onestandingstill

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My first Master only wanted to be cc'd if I was writing to my sub sister.
Other than that it would have been more a chore for him to read all I wrote.
I honestly don't think he read half of the ones my sub sister and I wrote back and forth as sometimes to coordinate dinner etc.. we'd send a few a day.
He did have my user id's and passwords for all my accounts and could have read anything any time he'd choose to.
Toward the end of our relationship he fully cut my computer communication & BDSM related reading for around a month.
I think many of the girls here can not openly speak as to their communications as indeed they are monitored.
I think most Dom's are not going to admit it indeed is a powerful tool they utilize but it does happen.

I often hear many a Dom reads their sub's letters and will be offended if the sub is asking advice or trying to figure out how to cope with an issue between themselves and their Dom.
Those sorts of things are usually fully monitored by many a Dom as he does not want his sub to discuss his weaknesses with any one, not even private sub friends.

Basically freedom of speech comes at a price for many a sub.
Many choose not to communicate their true thoughts and opinions for the repercussions it can have at home.
suzanne

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 5:34:27 AM

mixielicous

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my internet use is not limited, but to be polite i stay off the computer when He is home or awake.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 5:37:04 AM

DiurnalVampire

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I have access to al his passwords, and I can check and read what I wish when I wish. I dont feel it necessary to control Angel's online activity. However, when I had a girl w ahile back, I did have to watch her, since she didnt know how to appropriately respond to someone asking her things. Her ideas of the boundaries of proper communication were a wee bit fuzzy and so I had to edit.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 5:39:00 AM

AquaticSub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHXB

do you control your slaves online activity?

I'd point this thread out to him but he's at work.

No, he does not control my online activity.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 5:41:36 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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no Daddy doesn't control my online activity and/or how i respond to forum posts here. i'm allowed to speak freely.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 5:43:45 AM

AquaticSub

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quote:

ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

My first Master only wanted to be cc'd if I was writing to my sub sister.
Other than that it would have been more a chore for him to read all I wrote.
I honestly don't think he read half of the ones my sub sister and I wrote back and forth as sometimes to coordinate dinner etc.. we'd send a few a day.
He did have my user id's and passwords for all my accounts and could have read anything any time he'd choose to.
Toward the end of our relationship he fully cut my computer communication & BDSM related reading for around a month.
I think many of the girls here can not openly speak as to their communications as indeed they are monitored.
I think most Dom's are not going to admit it indeed is a powerful tool they utilize but it does happen.

I often hear many a Dom reads their sub's letters and will be offended if the sub is asking advice or trying to figure out how to cope with an issue between themselves and their Dom.
Those sorts of things are usually fully monitored by many a Dom as he does not want his sub to discuss his weaknesses with any one, not even private sub friends.

Basically freedom of speech comes at a price for many a sub.
Many choose not to communicate their true thoughts and opinions for the repercussions it can have at home.
suzanne

It has always struck me as odd that some dominants insist on having all your online IDs and passwords. Valyraen knows a few of my passwords, but only from when I've asked him to log in for me. He doesn't need the information. It's not like there is anything in my livejournal that he couldn't find out from asking me or anyone I talk to online that he doesn't know about. Of course our computers are right next to each other so we can see what each other is up to. I don't think I'd be happy in a relationship where I wasn't trusted to that extent.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 5:46:18 AM

jauntyone

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Greetings

Master does not actively control my time on the computer; he does however, expect me to be pleasant to everyone when responding to threads. Any straying from this rule, and he would not hesitate to take away this privilege.

He does read my emails though, and that is only because I don't read them myself. I just leave them there and when it gets bogged down, he comes in reads them and deletes them as he wishes.

I wish you well,

melissa

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 5:55:53 AM

Evanesce

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The Kaptin has never restricted my communications and/or activities with anyone, whether online or in real life. I do forward to Him items I feel may be of interest to Him, and I have always let Him know where I'm going to be and with whom (and what we're planning on doing). I suppose if it started interfering with His plans for me, He'd ask me to reduce my socializing time.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 6:09:44 AM

FangsNfeet

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No. Not completly and I don't restrict which sites the visits. Normally, I only tell her when to log off because I have other things for us to do. At times, I'll also tell pet to visit certain sites that I find interesting.

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RE: for the dom males on this site - 3/22/2007 6:21:56 AM

Rafters

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Somethings that won't work and why

Net Nanny style monitoring software.
Download, build and burn a free UBCD4WIN iso onto a bootable CD and you can bypass windows and it's software and connect directly to the net via broadband and dialup. Remove the cd and reboot and the PC's back to normal with no trace it was used.

Passwords to all their accounts.
Delete certain emails from your inbox, sent items and delted folders to remove any trace.
Open another secret account and use that.

Proper proxy software on the internet gateway, that's in a locked room so it can't be disabled
Use a work computer, internet cafe, friends
My cell phone speaks Web/Gmail/MSN messenger/SMS and soemthign called voice.

Total control of the entire internet
OMFG She meets some one in RL and has a traditional conversation using spoken words.

Like most people problems, technology isnt a cure. Unlesss she's snuggled on your lap while she uses it, and you can use the penis polygraph, you're going to have to *shock, horror* communicate. And if she wants to not be open and trustworthy then maybe a RL BDSM relationship isn't the ideal choice

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