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lighthearted -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 4:21:46 PM)
hmmm....you sound like Oz the gweat and tewwible when you say quote: uber powerful and seriously amazing uber dominates like myself maybe you should send her off to retrieve the Wicked Witch's bwoom...[:D]...and then beat her with it!

Sinergy -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 5:00:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll I understand the procrastination demon all too well. I used to be the poster child for procrastination. One day I realized how much I hated trying to take care of things I put off until the last minute. So I stopped. My grade point average went from a B average to making the Dean's List. My professional life went from a B average to being a system expert flown around the country to teach other people. All because I detest being in a hurry. Sinergy

dawntreader -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 5:11:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: azzmaster chaining her to the computer might be less satisfying but more effective LMAO!!!!! Actually this whole thread has kept me near the edge of hysterical!! i can so relate to procrastination and needing more self discipline and i am very happy NOT to be alone in this!

junecleaver -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 5:33:04 PM)
I was spending some time with a couple who are into D/s. The dominant had recently decided he was going to stop biting his finger nails. So the dominant and submissive had gone to a nail salon and had acrylic put over his fingernails. She was ordered to stop him or nag him any time he started to mess with his nails. The interaction between the two was so adorable. I like the idea of serving in that way.

domiguy -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 5:44:45 PM)
When I looked quickly at mewmew's (4 posts above?) photo it appeared she might be eating some ass............... Anywhoo it is important for sub susie to keep Domiguy focused on work instead of this preoccupation with the net....If all goes well she is rewarded with her daily alotment of Domidong.

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 5:47:58 PM)
Okay, for punishment I think you should force her to go out with you to a nice dinner, complete with decadent 2000 calorie dessert. Wha? I think that sounds like a reasonable punishment to fit the "crime". [sm=mrpuffy.gif] Well he DID ask for opinions.... [8\|]

Sinergy -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 6:06:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel Okay, for punishment Order her to make you give her dozens of orgasms while you are not allowed to have any for 3 weeks. Have her explain to you when you object that it was your idea in the first place, and a Twue Dominate does not go back on their word. Sinergy

WhiplashSmile -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 6:11:17 PM)
Hell, have your mother come move in with you!

WhiplashSmile -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 6:18:12 PM)
I'm thinking about a few new invention! How about a keyboard which will zap your ass after 30 minutes of use! How about a chair with a hole in it, with a big dildo and springs attached! After a certain about of time you literally get a big dick up your ass to go do something else...

SimplyMichael -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 6:26:40 PM)
Thanks for all the wonderful posts! I just thought a dose of reality was needed recently. Whiplash, I DO live with my mother...you can read all about in an old crappydom posting about "spilling my guts", how is THAT for ugly reality!

Masstohr -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 6:26:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thetammyjo If it does not bother you too much, SimplyMichael, I'm going to ignore the how to punish your sub part of your post and comment on the other stuff. There is a fantasy that the dom is always in control, always perfect, and always the one who needs to say 'yes' or 'no'. Nice fantasy but I have yet to know one single Ds or Ms couple/family in real life that fits this. In my household the role of the slave is to first make my life easier. Sometimes this means helping me help myself by asking me questions or pointing out that I may be about to make a decision that goes counter to what I have stated is a goal for myself. Like my dissertation. The goal is to spend between 2-4 every morning, Monday through Friday, doing something on it -- be that reading, writing, library research, revisions. So my slave will ask me when he gets home "How did your diss go today, Mistress?" If he's in the house he will even pop up to check on me, raising an eyebrow and clearing his throat if I'm doing something else. Some folks (including him sometimes) think this makes him the dominant but in reality he's merely helping me do what I want -- stay focused. Usually with my writing, teaching or research I'm pretty good at this. Chocolate and exercising on other issues. So in those cases he tries to ask me if I exercised today or if I want to go for a walk. In a store he might ask me "Mistress, if you buy that will you really feel good about yourself later?". I think it is a subtle line that a slave must walk to give us support and help us help ourselves. I cannot imagine it is easy at all and he earns my respect for doing his duty in these ways just as much as if he were rubbing my feet or obeying my whim at any time. Very well said Tammyjo

WhiplashSmile -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 6:37:01 PM)
The internet is like a drug and drugs never discriminate.

Sinergy -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 6:54:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile The internet is like a drug and drugs never discriminate. It is not "like" a drug. It is a drug. The human brain seeks a certain brain chemistry. Sitting at a computer causes a certain brain chemistry. Taking drugs causes a certain brain chemistry. Fighting all the time causes a certain brain chemistry. Watching TV, working, working out, playing BDSM, etc. One has to come to the conclusion that they want to change the chemistry they are used to before they can lay their addictions in the past. Sinergy

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 7:09:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael I have been spending WAY too much time on the internet recently and if I don't get my head out of my ass I am not going to get the straight A grades I have been maintaining all quarter. SO, I ordered someone to get their ass over to my house and "dom sit" me and make sure I am not posting and wasting time on the internet. It worked, I did an oral presentation on the virtues of colonialism today that so stunned the class nobody could even think of anything to ask. Considering how controversial it was, the lack of questions was a good sign as were the comments afterwards. SO, even uber powerful and seriously amazing uber dominates like myself sometimes have to order our underlings to do things that would otherwise seem to reverse rolls and for me it worked and is a perfect stop gap as I do need to frigging stop wasting huge amounts of time here. SO, my other point is since my little supervisor isn't here keeping me off the damn net, I wonder how people think I should punish her? I mean it can't be my fault I am here so I figure I will cut off a leg or something? What say you all? Ahhh...now to me this is a case of be very careful of what you ask, for you may get it!..if such was requested of me...wether there or not ,my Dominant would not be able to get on his computer..now if computer was needed for homework.. there are still many ways to make sure his access would be denied..even though I am submissive, I have an evil mind and I do know how to use it!...congratulations on your paper!...and take the sub out for a sub!...[;)]...Tempting

dawntreader -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 7:18:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Thanks for all the wonderful posts! I just thought a dose of reality was needed recently. Whiplash, I DO live with my mother...you can read all about in an old crappydom posting about "spilling my guts", how is THAT for ugly reality! LMAO!!!! not at you ofcourse....but this is hysterical!

Vendaval -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/8/2007 8:35:13 PM)
Well Michael, you could always maintain control over her uhm... responses with one of these.... http://www.sub-shop.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=3603 It has a 15 foot range, so you can relax and just work the controls.

myobedience -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/11/2007 12:59:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile I think I need to buy a talking Dominate Memo Mate or Parrot to remind me of the crap I have to do. I could use a good Domme from time to time, just to Dom sit my ass. This internet thing is fucking black hole for ADD to happen in. Every time, I come on here. It's supposed to be only for a few minutes. hahaha yeah right! I feel like aliens must have abducted me, and returned me hours later. No sense of time. A hour seems like it a 5 minutes. I'm glad you made this post. I can relate to it well. I wonder if I can find any profession Domsitters in the phone book. I actually think these creatures carry the title of "personal assistent". All the rich and famous powerful people have one, some professional "Domsitter" to remind them of appointments, meetings and bring to attention everything that needs to be done. Personally, I'd order her to smack you in the face if you refuse to listen to yourself! In short, you told her to do a job for your own sake. If you don't comply with your own orders, give her orders to smack you in the face or upside the head. This might be somewhat traumatic for both you and her alike. but it might work, to get your attention back to reality. I just do not understand this.... why the hell get a domme to do a subs job?? It goes something like this... ~~ girl, remind to get my clothes from the cleaners on the way home from work ~~ girl, respectfully tell me to pry myself loose from the puter chair in 45 minutes, if I ignore you, bite my hear, you have my persmission ~~ girl, limit my smokes to 12 today and if you dont, I will use the brush on your ass ~~ girl, if I have not paid the bills by the 5th, tell me you are going to Victoria's Secrets to spend over $300.00, if it doesnt sink in, tell me, but you told me I could spend $300.00 blah blah blah.....

TexasMaam -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/11/2007 1:32:15 PM)
lolololol Simply Michael, I always knew you were a good sub at heart..... lolololololol Shame we shall never meet, you and I...here's a better idea, you punish her any way you like, and... I Shall Punish Thee.... TexasMaam ; )

gentlethistle -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/11/2007 1:48:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael I wonder how people think I should punish her? What say you all? I say say make her sit through a reprise of the presentation. That should be punishment enough. Laura

SDFemDom4cuck -> RE: domly vs. sub orders and punishment (3/11/2007 2:15:34 PM)
Oh did this post hit home! Spending waaay too much time on the boards when I should be studying and trying to figure out step up transformers and half wave rectification. Between classes, homework and working weird shifts that have me getting home from work anywhere from 1am to 5am things are screwy. After running my ass off waiting tables to pay for school my brain is too hyped up to sleep while my body is exhausted. So I turn on the puter to wind the brain down. I tell myself I'm only going to check mail for a minute (yeah right!)and the next thing I know it's 2 hours or more later. Or if I'm trying to write a paper it's far too easy to open another window and have the forums up in the background. Problem is...the forums tend to distract me way too much. So far I'm still keeping the GPA up at 4.0 but it does affect my very tight schedule and my sleep schedule is so out of whack it isn't even funny anymore. Fortunately I work best under pressure. Oookay now that I've vented.... A Domsitter...absolutely brilliant. Oh wait...that would mean actually having a sub to do the domsitting right? I'm screwed. Hmmm how about all the Doms that need to have someone regulate on themselves could set up a network of Domming one another. Send little emails to one another. Find a buddy that we email and say okay I'm only going to be on an hour and after that hour (or whatever timelimit is set) the other person emails them nasty little reminders..."Michael, get your ass off the Forums and get to work on that paper on colonials" or "Jo, what the hell are you doing? You know you have that test on ionizing radiation and electromagnetic energy conducting on Monday, get your shit together and start studying" Sort of a "nag a Dom" network for us to get our asses to work and quit procrastinating. As far as punishing your sub for failing to keep you away from the boards (After all, we as Dominants would never be to blame for doing something wrong! Gasp!) I say wire her into the pc so that everytime you hit the "T" key or the "Enter" key it zaps her a good one. How dare she not keep you from posting uncontrollably!

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