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Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 9:41:45 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Ok this is from another post as usual. I will get original one of these times. One Dom mentioned that it takes a magnetic personality to attract a sub. I dont want a woman with a metal plate in her head to be drawn to me. What kind of personality drew your Sub or Dom/Domme to you?
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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 9:49:04 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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General traits of people I am involved with include: overly smart and educated, high drive to succeed, musical talents, science/computer geek, spirituality and energy interests.



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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 9:54:57 AM   
nissa


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Ok this is from another post as usual. I will get original one of these times. One Dom mentioned that it takes a magnetic personality to attract a sub. I dont want a woman with a metal plate in her head to be drawn to me. What kind of personality drew your Sub or Dom/Domme to you?

LOL One was his overall 'presence'. He would just walk in a room and your eyes were drawn to him. Of course, the fact that he was 6'7 might have had something to do with it also  Outside of height, the one thing that draws my attention to a man is how he interacts with others. Is he polite, considerate, well spoken; does he speak softly but with conviction; does he smile alot when talking?, does he make you feel comfortable...things like that are what will attract my attention and keep it.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 10:06:45 AM   
jauntyone


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Status: offline 		It was not so much her personality that first drew me but her smile. Melissa has a smile that radiates.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 10:57:57 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Outgoing, intelligent, rebellious (but not to me), independent, communicative and witty. Then, it's time spent in his/her energy and the spiritual connection I feel.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 11:19:27 AM   
mixielicous


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

From my profile:
General traits of people I am involved with include: overly smart and educated, high drive to succeed, musical talents, science/computer geek, spirituality and energy interests.



these are all traits i find in Mine, in addition to strong willed, opinionated, very religious [even though i am not], He is a loud personality, most people will right away, loathe or love Him; always honest and i love punctuality.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 11:32:20 AM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		Intelligence, freaking good looks, Sadist, aggressive, a 'natural' dominant (egads i hope i spelled that correctly for the English/spelling Nazis).  He was not a big man, 5'9-5'10, but he could walk into a room and completely fill it.  It was quite heady.   Too bad he was also a sociopath, narissist (sp?), a liar and a cheat.

(Did i mention i have....apparently...incurable bad boyism). 

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 6:39:11 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		His intensity and the way in which he spoke to me.  Nobody had ever had such an affect on me before.  He challenged my view of myself from the very first conversation and didn't seem to care if I agreed with him or not. 

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 6:50:41 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		The obvious intelligence, sense of humor, undeniable charm and of course always being  "moderated"...It projects that "bad boy" image that subs just lap up.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 6:51:55 PM   
Inhibitor


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar
What kind of personality drew your Sub or Dom/Domme to you?


Wouldn't YOU like to know.




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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 6:57:27 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		My Daddy's intellect drew me at first, and then it was his hypnotic eyes....

I think he would say my intellect drew him too, and my pic of me in my bra and panties



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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 7:04:13 PM   
goodpet


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Status: offline 		i had written out a "List of 10" that were the traits i seek and standards to live by and i desired to find a partner that would not only match my list of 10 in His life but also help me to continually rise and live up and beyond my standards.  Captain met all on my list and more.   * What's on Your list ? *

But before we were in a M/s I was drawn to my Master first due to the many common interests we share. We dated vanilla 10 years ago, drifted apart a year later due to distance. We stayed friends but mostly just an e-mail or two.  Later we  kept running into each other at different events. Since we both like sailing, SCA, sports, flying, camping outdoors stuff, SCUBA, and our personalities fit with each other, the attraction grew the more we spent time together. Add to that the sexual attraction, and then add the kink and desire for M/s. it just all fit.  We are friends in addition to the Master/slave relationship.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 7:06:54 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		what attracted me to Daddy was His eclectic collection of music. He loves the old faves like Dinah Shore, Ella Fitzgerald and Frank Sinatra to world (mostly Brazillian - hence the name "samba") and jazz. plus He knew more about me than i did myself ...i felt comfortable instantly from the way He talked and treated me as a person and not as a submissive during our first online chat. it didn't take us long to click.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 7:16:35 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Ok this is from another post as usual. I will get original one of these times. One Dom mentioned that it takes a magnetic personality to attract a sub. I dont want a woman with a metal plate in her head to be drawn to me. What kind of personality drew your Sub or Dom/Domme to you?


What drew me to Valyraen - Dominant Geek for the win.
What drew Valyraen to me - Submissive gamer chick for the win.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 9:47:23 PM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		Either one or both of these will make a huge difference to me:

1)Intensity (a "deep thinker" type)  and sincerity (some vulnerablity (if a submissive, but sometimes for a Dom, too - and honesty (for either), and-or

2) A great sense of humor. Both of these qualities, when combined, are just incredible to me, of course - but alone they are really great as well. 

They always have to be fairly (or very) intelligent, otherwise, I end up feeling like I am just making someone my "toy" (not always a bad thing, but still...you probably know what I mean...). They also have to be a good communicator (in writing and-or speaking.)

- Susan

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 9:53:29 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		What, no "I'm horny, you're horny, let's give it a go."
Dare to trust and take a risk?

My confidence and her leap of faith are what pulled us together.

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 9:55:51 PM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		Well, I am talking about for a potential LTR. For just a scene at a party or something, sure (maybe, never been to a play party - but will have by the end of next week, so I maybe will be able to answer you, Fangs!)

- Susan

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 9:58:33 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

What, no "I'm horny, you're horny, let's give it a go."
Dare to trust and take a risk?

My confidence and her leap of faith are what pulled us together.


*grins* That actually sounds a lot like our first night. We'd been friends for awhile and then one night I ended up on his lap and things went from there!

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 10:02:01 PM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		Well if I am friends with someone, it is usually already a given I'd be with them in that way, if we both wanted to (or if one f us suggested it) not always, but usually that's the way I feel, so yeah, that could happen. Sometimes that can just seem so right, too, I agree.

- Susan

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RE: Magnetic personality - 3/6/2007 10:12:35 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		His confidence, His intensity, how He conducted Himself, the long list of ways we were on the same page in our ideas and ideals. It was apparent from the beginning that He was a natural Dominant, and it brought out all the best parts of me. i really do love who i am with this man. Master's dorei

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