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LotusSong -> Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 3:30:31 PM)
With all the threads in bisexuality play.. it stems from one Het to his /her submissive. It got me wondering if the Gay population play with forced bi-sexuality. I'd like to hear their take on it all. Is it a rush for a Gay Dom to have his male submissive serve a female sexually? If not, why not?

VeryMercurial -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 3:36:35 PM)
That is an interesting twist on forced bisexuality. I have never heard of such a thing. I would enjoy hearing the story, I don't think that is an activity that a gay person would even enjoy seeing. I think mainly straight people enjoy these activities.

Aine -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 3:41:27 PM)
The way I see it is that the Dom/me is bisexual and would get some kind of charge from it because of their own attractions to both sexes, forcing bisexuality from their gay sub/slave.

LotusSong -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 4:16:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aine The way I see it is that the Dom/me is bisexual and would get some kind of charge from it because of their own attractions to both sexes, forcing bisexuality from their gay sub/slave. This is understood.. however, I've directed my question specifically toward Gay male Doms and their male submissives. This is a dynamic I have yet to see discussed on here. But thank you for your thoughts. edited by me because I didn't' run my spell check.

Aine -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 4:27:01 PM)
Eh, I made it a more encompassing response...I need more coffee. But I kind of agree with VM....it seems rather unlikely for a strictly Gay Male Dominant to force bisexualism on their gay male sub. But who knows. I understand why a Straight Male Dominant would request or force his female sub into a bisexual encounter considering it's another female, the side of the sex that the Dominant is already attracted to. I would understand a Bisexual Female Dominant requesting or forcing a bisexual encounter for her lesbian sub. etc etc I'm having a hard time wrapping my brain around why a strictly gay Dominant would want that. Even as a bisexual, I can't really put two and two together on this one.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 4:41:46 PM)
Our problem with this question might be that we don't have a very large gay male participation rate on the boards...the one I do know isn't a Dom. I wish more would come; I'd like the varied viewpoint. Master Fire

Aine -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 4:46:41 PM)
Amen...I'd love for a Gay Male Dominant to pop into this one to help me wrap my head around it! [:D]

juliaoceania -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 4:47:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong With all the threads in bisexuality play.. it stems from one Het to his /her submissive. It got me wondering if the Gay population play with forced bi-sexuality. I'd like to hear their take on it all. Is it a rush for a Gay Dom to have his male submissive serve a female sexually? If not, why not? Gay people have had hetro role play forced on them in the form of marriage for a long long time.

MstrTiger -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 5:11:18 PM)
Personally I have never known of anyone who has tried it, though it is an interesting idea. I think it is not practiced because a gay dom would not get much out of seeing his slave service a female where as a straight male dom might get a lot out of seeing his female slave with another woman.

LotusSong -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 5:56:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam Our problem with this question might be that we don't have a very large gay male participation rate on the boards...the one I do know isn't a Dom. I wish more would come; I'd like the varied viewpoint. Master Fire I do also.. I appreciate their viewpoints editd to add: Thank you MstrTiger :)

FukinTroll -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 6:02:37 PM)
Where the hell are we going to find some gay crumudgeon that is going to start screaming that if you ever had a hetero experiance you are not gay?

Aine -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 6:06:43 PM)
laughs herself silly over that mental image

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 6:07:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MstrTiger Personally I have never known of anyone who has tried it, though it is an interesting idea. I think it is not practiced because a gay dom would not get much out of seeing his slave service a female where as a straight male dom might get a lot out of seeing his female slave with another woman. I think the only thing a gay male Dominant might get out of such a coupling would be the humiliation factor.....Tempting

Devilslilsister -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 6:13:28 PM)
i know a completely lesbian Dominant who is going to have her virginal lesbian slave - be devirginized by a man. Not sure why. Mebbe something about being property, and the whole losing ones virginity and some wierd thrill. i suppose i should ask her ::shrugs:: i just accepted it. i've also heard about lining up men for her slave......... dont know if anything has gone through or not, been awhile since i spoke to her. Maybe its humiliation?

LotusSong -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 6:21:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister i know a completely lesbian Dominant who is going to have her virginal lesbian slave - be devirginized by a man. Not sure why. Mebbe something about being property, and the whole losing ones virginity and some wierd thrill. i suppose i should ask her ::shrugs:: i just accepted it. i've also heard about lining up men for her slave......... dont know if anything has gone through or not, been awhile since i spoke to her. Maybe its humiliation? Thanks.. but again. I've focused this one for the Male Gay community.. a whole different dynamic.

LotusSong -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 6:23:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll Where the hell are we going to find some gay crumudgeon that is going to start screaming that if you ever had a hetero experiance you are not gay? Gay males have class..that's why :)

FukinTroll -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 6:25:41 PM)
You do make a very strong point.

bearincuffs -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 6:32:06 PM)
I can't speak for many of the gay population, specifically gay Doms and subs but with myself as one example, forced bi-sexual play will not take place. My Master has assured me that He will never order me to serve a female sexually. O/our sexual play will only be with gay men. So I can't see my Master getting a rush by having me serve a woman sexually. But that doesn't mean there aren't some gay Doms who do order their subs into bisexual play either.

DominaSmartass -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 8:15:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong Is it a rush for a Gay Dom to have his male submissive serve a female sexually? If not, why not? I know of at least one case that makes me say yes. It may be more rare than in the het community but one of my close middle-aged leathermen friends who began as a boy at age 20 (back in the 70s) tells the story of how his Daddy told him to have sex with a woman on several occassions and enjoyed knowing that his truly gay boy was doing something against his nature for the pleasure of his Sir. So there you go, forced bi.

LotusSong -> RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side (2/20/2007 8:26:28 PM)
I was watching a program today in which one segment was about the Christian church factions that offer a program to turn homosexuals straight. This is what made me think of this question in the first place. If is is a heinous practice to try to change a gay male's orientation..why do we expect women to be able to embrace lesbianism if they are heterosexual to begin with? Is this basically a lack of respect and consideration? I would think this practice would eventually be devastating to the female.

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