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findmedaddy -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 5:03:58 AM)

Thank you, everyone. I've learned something. The next question is, where can I get me one of those service tops? lol.

fmd



mp072004 -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 6:29:42 AM)

Sure, the adult partner in an ageplay relationship doesn't have to be dominant. There are dominant littles--people who dominate while in a young-person's role. Some ABies certainly appear to be running their playtimes. Catering to and caring for someone may be read as service, and generally doing what another wants involves submitting and obeying. This puts your submissive male daddy type in a service top sort of role. But I can also see how he could take a traditional submissive bottom role in response to his partner's youthful-but-commanding-and-sadistic persona. It seems like it could work.

Also, if you're asking a more general question--whether submissive men can share the nurturing attributes popularly associated with ageplay daddies, I'd give you a resounding yes.

Monica



asubmissiveheart -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 7:27:09 AM)

I have never heard of submissive daddies, I guess it takes all kinds.



findmedaddy -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 7:34:21 AM)

Thanks, Monica.



silverwings0002 -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 7:48:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mp072004

There are dominant littles--people who dominate while in a young-person's role.
Monica


When I read this, what came to mind is the little rich, spoiled [brat] girl that has Daddy wrapped around her little finger and demands to get little whim immediately fulfilled. lol.
I had a slave that was very submissive whenever I wanted it, but he had Dommed in past, and did actually treat me a bit fatherly. I think I kind of liked it at times, but I am a newbie with a very lost expression. lol. He *was* much older than Me also. I thought of him when I read this post. He fits rather nicely.
Lastly, that 'Service Top' label is very interesting. Never heard of that. I like to watch sexual reactions, it is what I feed on [well bondage too]. I don't necessarily want to give them 'everything', but I do love to please My partner; I do love pleasing Me just a bit more though. lol. I love watching a man come, it helps tremendously with My own, but I know I'm gonna love denial! Teasing is the art of life. heehee
T



asubmissiveheart -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 7:49:50 AM)

At lot of this sounds like switch activity to me.
Daddy one day, submissive the next day.



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 8:15:23 AM)

I've known a submissive like this as well (submissive/daddy type).   M



Aine -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 8:23:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: asubmissiveheart

At lot of this sounds like switch activity to me.
Daddy one day, submissive the next day.



It's not necessarily a "one day to the next" type thing.  It's not always that black and white and at least for us happens pretty much moment to moment, all mixed together.



sugarcoatedscamp -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 10:21:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mp072004

Sure, the adult partner in an ageplay relationship doesn't have to be dominant. There are dominant littles--people who dominate while in a young-person's role...

...I can also see how he could take a traditional submissive bottom role in response to his partner's youthful-but-commanding-and-sadistic persona. It seems like it could work.


Many of my ageplay fantasies revolve around me being the little one and my submissive partner being the grown-up who does what I want or gets a tantrum/shin-kicking/etc.  For any of you who are familiar with the cartoon "Rugrats", Angelica Pickles rocks.



ArgoGeorgia -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 10:43:24 AM)

Wow, this is an interesting post.  I've always considered myself a switch, and find that I am very comfortable at either role.  However, the 'Service Top' bit really got me to thinking.  I'm really not a sadist - I don't really get off by inflicting pain.  Don't get me wrong, I can do it, and pretty well I think, as well as doing the emotional or mental punishments that some subs like.  But I think that last point is key - I like to do what brings the sub pleasure.  Maybe I am one of those rare Service Tops.  Or, maybe I just haven't figured out what I want to be when I grow up. Guess that's why I typically don't define myself as one way or the other.



MzMia -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 11:10:21 AM)

This is interesting, I call male submissives many things, but I tell you what, I will NEVER call
them daddy.
But again, like my signature says "To each his/her own".[:D]



saphira2 -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 11:58:40 AM)

sub and daddies do not go together some people seem to think just because daddies desire to buy there lill girls or boys presents and spoil them this looks like an act of submissiveness it isnt it is a thankyou and a reward for your services!



findmedaddy -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 12:00:13 PM)

I'm sorry, I didn't understand your post.



saphira2 -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 12:04:56 PM)

ok i think that subs and daddies do not go in the same sentence i dont think you can be a sub and take on a daddy role it just does not make sence if ur a daddy nine times out of ten u are a dom and if u are a sub u are a sub i hope that is clear enough for you xxxxxxxxx



stockingluvr54 -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 12:10:46 PM)

Twice....you're too kind..thanks!

FMD.... Im gonna shoot you a note on the other side...take it or leave it but please read it OK? Give me some time...I have a hard time getting my thoughts thru a keyboard at times...lol



findmedaddy -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 5:41:18 PM)

Yes, thank you. I understood this time.



twicehappy -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 5:46:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54

Twice....you're too kind..thanks!

FMD.... Im gonna shoot you a note on the other side...take it or leave it but please read it OK? Give me some time...I have a hard time getting my thoughts thru a keyboard at times...lol


No problemo, i read all your mail. I get the feeling i may have lost a couple when my puter was sick. Big loves, 2X. 



silverwings0002 -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/15/2007 6:58:34 PM)


For any of you who are familiar with the cartoon "Rugrats", Angelica Pickles rocks.
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Ever seen 'Rugrats Go Wild'? The 'Wild Thornberries' has a teenage version of Angelica, and they hook up in the movie. Angelica learns how to dominate another to get her way even better!

As to the posting of subs not being able to be 'daddies' too, I understand what your saying, and you do have a point. Let me give further info. My slave -and I never submitted to him in any way- was twice my age, he did buy me things out of the blue [very considerate things] and at times our relationship side interactions were slanted daddy/lil girl way. It was just fun and smartassy to do. There were times I put him down in a similar parental manner too, esp. when he got too uppity. lol.



Roksana -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/17/2007 9:39:06 AM)

well, my stepdad allowed me to treat his son like my dog!!! and stepdad used to spoil me like lit my cig, serve me wine etc even when I was very young 17yrs old.



Skier -> RE: Submissive Male Daddies? (2/17/2007 1:38:08 PM)

Think about being a real parent.  Ostensibly you're in control...you're certainly responsible for that person. However, your whole life revolves around them and their needs. They...well.....dominate .....your life.  Their needs come before yours even though you're in charge.  Are you  dominant? Sort of.  Are you submissive? Sort of.



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