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RE: mature slaves - 1/30/2007 11:24:20 AM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear BRNaughtyAngel, Ladies and Gentlemen;

I see my famous quotes on enjoying older slaves have been used.  (Thank you twicehappy)

In addition to older slaves not moving so fast, I don't have to get out of my stilettos into track shoes and chase them down.

The ones with walkers, are those who create and carry their own portable bondage frames (walkers), to which they're not far away from--so they're always 'bound.'
Of course those handle bars in the handicapped bathrooms make great connecting points to do bondage with also.  {Note: Walkers make great portable frames to hang floggers from, hold canes with on the railings, hold trays for clamps and little bits and bobbles, using two as book ends you can extend between them a pole to hang a bigger amount of toys/tools.  Put on it's sides with legs facing the air, you can wrap your rope like yarn between two hands, tidy it up and tie off and it will be neat.
Put one's creative mind to it; one can use the walker to hold some weights away from the CBT connection so each step rubs and moves as they walk with the walker.  It can also be used as a frame for CBT, if the person is on the vertical, hanging weights off the side, attached to the nipples or lower genitals, it will pull upwards using the top of the walker for the highest point (and or a chair and or sawhorse), use a bottle or sand bucket for kids, add weight slowly for the right/correct tension)

The ones who are connected to oxygen, well -- that is 'breath play' of sorts.

Older slaves remember manners and etiquette from my generation --being that I'm old myself.  (I'm so old I'm not over the hill ---I'm under the hill; you can peek at me in a tunnel once in a while).

Older slaves who are bed bound, well -- I consider them slaves on a port-a-rack.
Reminds me of a badddddddddddd joke; What do you call a submissive tied to a food cart?   A. Sub-ala-carte`

Older slaves don't need extra frills.  Simplicity has its own measures of wealth.

Those slaves who wear hearing aids, well --It is a great way to use silent signals.  One can hold a conversation without spilling things from their mouth, to which I remember my Mummy reminding us kids--don't talk with a mouth full of food.  Such a polite way of conversation using sign language.  Plus, doesn't cause problems in the dungeon.  They cann't hear "Look out Lady Hugs is coming with her torture tools!" ....{{Mwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwahahahhaha -hand fasting self with a very nice sadistic grin}}

Respectfully submitted with a bit of humor,
Lady Hugs

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RE: mature slaves - 1/30/2007 2:42:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I had the same difficulty in my 20's.  Luckily later on, my preference for women over 30 is not as hard to gratify...

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RE: mature slaves - 1/30/2007 10:26:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		myself I have found younger women to be too caught up in the gossip and games that are remenicant of high school. Not saying there are thoser out there of a young age who are mature...just that those I know and have been around are like that.  I find anolder woman desirable for the fact that they are experienced in life and generally know what it is they want or like. But this is not true for all, it never is.

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RE: mature slaves - 1/30/2007 11:11:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't think I've ever dated ANYONE who is my same age, or generally that close. It's not because I seek difference but just because I'm not all that particular about only dating or serving anyone that is ONLY a particular age.

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RE: mature slaves - 1/31/2007 2:10:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		Interesting..... I cant say personally that I prefer older.  In my Nilla life I have alot of friends much younger then I am due to common interests.  But what I've found on the other side is my age (48) only draws interest from the older group where those common interests fall short.  Worse yet is something that happened just this past week when I was contacted by a guy 8 years my junior who actually came right out and said ... "well, I figured since you were older you'd be easy"  (can we all say Wanker)  sigh........... 

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RE: mature slaves - 1/31/2007 3:08:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		At the risk of sounding like i have gone up and down the age number line...i have had experiences with guys as young as 22 and as old as 56. While my life experiences help me identify with my age and older, my youthful and active nature and interests identify with a younger generation...i don't really seem to fit into just one group - this has been difficult for me.

Levels of experience based on age have been debated here before - i won't rehash, but i have felt just as dominated by a 23 year old and his confidence as i have with the 56 year old and all his experience.

But if you are talking a long term relationship, which i think most of us do seem to desire, its harder to find a compatible person at the same stage in their life journey as yourself even when taking age OUT of the equation. A dom in their 20/30's is usually looking to start a family and a dom in their 50's usually has grandchildren, and many Doms my age too busy putting money away for retirement to enjoy anything of life now. i know there are exceptions to all of what i have said but for a single submissive woman whose chronological age means nothing to her, these are things i have run into.

To the OP, i would offer this advice: for your profile picture...have some one take one for you that portrays a little more confidence and maturity. The unfolded laundry in the background was the first thing that caught my eye and sends a negative message that you can not control your environment. Here are a few examples of Profiles and pictures i have found quite pleasing:  obey1, Tobes, aslansdad05, otterj128.  These are your competition.
 
 



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RE: mature slaves - 2/3/2007 11:44:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		A note DawnTreader, to any and A/all, the photo was taken at anothers home, as they had a digital camera, which I did not. Both he and his other half are not the most organized of people, and I have received this comment before. When and if I decide to take another it will certainly be much more . . . appealing. TY for your posting.

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RE: mature slaves - 2/4/2007 2:12:11 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		To be honest i don't like my age to be the focus.  To assume that i am one way or another based solely on my age is somewhat insulting.  i would rather be attractive for my kindness, intelligence, sense of humor, willingness and ability to serve.

i agree with bandit25, i prefer to be with someone who has common life experience and common life goals.  i've found that i get along best with men slightly younger than myself but that tends to be due to taste in music, political views, etc.  What i really detest is 20-somethings contacting me because they assume i am so starved for sex that all i need is a damn good fucking.  Not that i don't need a damn good fucking but since i don't smoke indoors a little conversation after sex would be nice *laughs*


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RE: mature slaves - 2/4/2007 6:28:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've had older Dom/mes, I've had younger Dom/mes. The younger believe they are doing you a huge favor & you are great to practice on until the get their "real" sub. The older are jaded & compare you to the great subs they had "back in the day". No wonder I'm retired from subbing.

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RE: mature slaves - 2/4/2007 7:19:18 AM   
dawntreader


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterfulHand

A note DawnTreader, to any and A/all, the photo was taken at anothers home, as they had a digital camera, which I did not. Both he and his other half are not the most organized of people, and I have received this comment before. When and if I decide to take another it will certainly be much more . . . appealing. TY for your posting.


This made me smile...particularly the "if" part...

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RE: mature slaves - 2/4/2007 8:16:42 AM   
LotusSong


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quote:

ORIGINAL: peterK50

I've had older Dom/mes, I've had younger Dom/mes. The younger believe they are doing you a huge favor & you are great to practice on until the get their "real" sub. The older are jaded & compare you to the great subs they had "back in the day". No wonder I'm retired from subbing.


This is usually when some go "Dom/me". 
 
(I'm wondering if we eventually "outgrow" submission.  I'm going to start that thought as a thread as to not cause a hijack on this one.)

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RE: mature slaves - 2/4/2007 8:36:39 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: peterK50

The older are jaded & compare you to the great subs they had "back in the day".


I'd not compare one sub to another unless they asked and if I did, I'd keep it in a positive vein comparing positive trait to positive trait.  If there were none, I'd not be interested in the first place :).

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RE: mature slaves - 2/4/2007 10:38:56 PM   
MasterfulHand


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RE: mature slaves - 2/4/2007 11:42:30 PM   
Noah


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ORIGINAL: MasterfulHand
... and not alot of the games most play


Games like carelessly generalizing about people you know nothing about?



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RE: mature slaves - 2/5/2007 9:37:18 AM   
OedipusRexIt


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Status: offline 		Zing!  Right on target, Noah!


Generalizing sucks, in general, and as a general rule people should avoid doing it....


Having said that, put me down as preferring my women (or your women, too) all grown up.  Easier to talk to, much, much easier to listen to, and mature beauty is a precious gem.

... in my generalized opinion.

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RE: mature slaves - 2/5/2007 7:27:58 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		Ok I may be flamed for this , but IMO....for women we are not as comfortable being with one who is so much younger than us for variable reason, ie:experience,maturity etc.but then again a lot of us more mature subs are not too thrilled either being with someone a great deal older either for variable reasons,ie: health issues,more sedentary etc.whereas males have no problem with having a sub many years younger for reasons such as ie:makes them feel younger,they care not if able to relate to their experiences in life etc.and with males who prefer to be with older submissives ie: they weary of the immaturity displayed in the younger subs, or they think the more mature sub will be grateful for the attention paid to them....hence in my opinion..(tongue in cheek) we women are totally screwed!..........Tempting

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RE: mature slaves - 2/5/2007 9:29:04 PM   
TypeAsub1


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Status: offline 		Age counts... it's more than just a number.  Ask any insurance company!

Your life insurance rates, car insurance rates, home insurance rates... they are all going to change dependant upon age.  How you act, what you know, maturity level, amount of experience, generational heritage, social influences, political influences.... so very much of it is INFLUENCED by age.

Is age a 100% sure-fire way to make determinations about someone?  No.  However, it is a highly reliable means of assessing various things about a person... not the least of which is how long they're likely to live. 

It would take quite awhile for someone who was signficantly younger than me to prove to me that he was more competant, more intelligent, wiser, more experienced in most areas of life, more informed, etc. etc.  If I'm going to give someone control over me and my entire life... they need to be all of those things and more.    So yeah.. when a 27 year old emails me... i tell him to go play with someone his own age. 

It is entirely possible that I am dismissing someone who could be a great person and a fantastic Dom - but I'm comfortable with playing the insurance odds.  YMMV..  

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