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MasterfulHand -> mature slaves (1/30/2007 4:16:27 AM)
I prefer mature slaves/subs...ie those 10 years or older than myself. I find them very attractive and full of worth. I have been told to seek those of my own age....

onestandingstill -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 4:23:24 AM)
And you're listening to someone else's opinion more than your own or something? If that's what you like go for it. Age is just a number any way. suzanne quote: ORIGINAL: MasterfulHand I prefer mature slaves/subs...ie those 10 years or older than myself. I find them very attractive and full of worth. I have been told to seek those of my own age....

twicehappy -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 4:24:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterfulHand I have been told to seek those of my own age.... Seek what you desire. To quote Lady Hugs" the older ones have a harder time getting away", lol.

MasterfulHand -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 4:28:47 AM)
I agree to you both, just thought it was interesting that they say such. Not harder for them to get away, more that they prefer to stay with someone who is there for them and not alot of the games most play

bandit25 -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 4:34:46 AM)
Well, I think for us, ahem, more mature subs/slaves...at least for this one...I prefere someone nearer to my own age because I find I have more in common with him. Most of the men I know who are close to my age have had similar life experiences than someone 10 or more years younger than me. And, after all the "fun" is over, I like to hold a conversation with the one on the other end of the flogger.

Smythe -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 4:44:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterfulHand I prefer mature slaves/subs...ie those 10 years or older than myself. I find them very attractive and full of worth. I have been told to seek those of my own age.... I don't think there should be any rules about age, and of course you should feel free to seek whomever you like. However, the issue is whether or not you have the life experience and knowledge to elicit respect from a submissive who is older than you. If the two of you have a dynamic that works, who cares how old you are? Smythe

Smythe -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 4:49:53 AM)
Damn you CollarMe!!! I posted twice. Smythe

MasterfulHand -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 4:55:12 AM)
experience is the keyword, in life, relations, etc

innatedesire -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 5:10:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterfulHand I agree to you both, just thought it was interesting that they say such. Not harder for them to get away, more that they prefer to stay with someone who is there for them and not alot of the games most play Age is just a number but for me it is also a level of comfort; I had my unmentionables at a young age and as such I am only 16 years older than my oldest. Therefore it would be akward for me to be with someone who was 30 as they would only be 5 years older than my oldest munchkin. I know several women my age (41) and older that have no issues at all being with someone younger than themselves and in fact prefer someone younger. Patience and persistance, you will eventually find someone perfect for you.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 6:30:10 AM)
Do whatever works for you. Master is 20+ years older than me. It isn't the age but the person to me.

juliaoceania -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 6:30:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bandit25 Well, I think for us, ahem, more mature subs/slaves...at least for this one...I prefere someone nearer to my own age because I find I have more in common with him. Most of the men I know who are close to my age have had similar life experiences than someone 10 or more years younger than me. And, after all the "fun" is over, I like to hold a conversation with the one on the other end of the flogger. This is my sentiments exactly. I like men my age or a few years older, and for the same reason.

KatyLied -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 6:38:01 AM)
I prefer older guys too.

Celeste43 -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 6:53:01 AM)
Since I was seeking a life partner, I wouldn't look at men younger than me. I need a commonality in life experiences. Someone who wasn't born when Kennedy died or was too young to remember that wouldn't match me. Someone younger might have wanted more children or have very young children. I needed someone who understood where I was and what was going on in my life. An old friend dated a very sweet young man for a while, but he was 15 years younger than her and 15 years older than her daughter. Her daughter was uncomfortable with him and it meant he felt uncomfortable at her house, joining them for Thanksgiving etc. He wasn't ready to settle down, he wanted eventually to have children of his own and all three were relieved when he got a job offer that required him to move. Their lives simply didn't mesh.

readyrider53 -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 6:56:06 AM)
I like mature slaves more because they are ready for what they get. Menaing they have been through much and know what they can handle and are ready to explore more. I have always tried to go just a little bit further each time I'll reach my limit and then go further, Gee it's no fun stopping now !!

MasterFireMaam -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 7:07:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterfulHand I prefer mature slaves/subs...ie those 10 years or older than myself. I find them very attractive and full of worth. I have been told to seek those of my own age.... So? Follow YOUR bliss, not theirs. Master Fire (ok, I really hate it that I can type and reply faster than collarme thinks I should. LOL

domiguy -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 8:15:06 AM)
I like an older slave because it is harder for them to get away.(Those rascals just don't go very fast) out. D.G. p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers.

LotusSong -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 8:52:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterfulHand I prefer mature slaves/subs...ie those 10 years or older than myself. I find them very attractive and full of worth. I have been told to seek those of my own age.... When I am approached by a younger person offerng their submission.. because thier only drive is that they "like older dommes".. I have to ask.."so what else do you have to offer" (and I don't mean tribute) For me, there is always a suspision on my part. That sorry reflection guys came up with "Get an older woman because she'll not tell, not swell and be grateful as hell" just blares in my mind! Or then I'm expected to "teach" them things.

hisannabelle -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 9:14:45 AM)
and i prefer mature dominants. we all have preferences. why is someone else's opinion so important to you on this? as long as it's legal, i don't think age should matter all that much.

boy43 -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 9:29:47 AM)
It depends so much about the kind of person. I have meet girls of 25 that are much more mature and reliable that grown females of 45... and at the contrary, one usually expect from joung people be open minded, try new things,etc...but sudenly you met someone of 50+ that is wonderfully beautiful, inteligent and brave... Anyway, too far from one age (15+) or too jounger (-15) are dificult to raport with them. :)

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: mature slaves (1/30/2007 11:00:53 AM)
I have dated a couple of guys who were each 19 years younger than me. They were kinky as hell, but would I want to be in a M/s relationship with them? Nope. I prefer someone closer to my own age for a LTR. A few years difference either way is fine with me. quote: ORIGINAL: twicehappy To quote Lady Hugs" the older ones have a harder time getting away", lol. Yes, although there is the danger of our walkers getting tangled up with each other when He's chasing me around the room! [sm=lol.gif]

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