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hello all - 1/23/2007 1:55:57 PM   
micheledoes


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hello -- i've posted a profile describing as well as i can (which is not very well) myself. i write that a little reluctantly, because i keep surprising and mystifying myself as i continue down this bdsm path.

left to my own devices, i seem pretty naturally drawn towards domming and to sub women. but whenever i encounter an appealing switch, my sub/bottom side seems to just blossom, and i can think of nothing else (i become preoccupied with submission). so i've come to the conclusion that "who i am" is not a very easy question to answer.

i can say this about the switch/sub side of me: it's very powerful and nourishing and occupies much more space (when it's there) than the dom side does (when it's there); it's wild and crazy -- my sub activity spectrum is a lot broader than my dom-activity spectrum.

and, most importantly, this "side of me" feels much warmer, softer, calmer and centered. emotionally, it makes me a better person -- more patient and more giving and less rigid. i love those feelings.

sorting through all this is half puzzle/half adventure, but i do want to sort it through. i believe in leading an integrated life.

one last thing -- my handle. "michele" (pronounced "meeKAYlay") is the italian version of michael. i'm not italian (irish/scottish/english), but speak it a little and love the country/people, and the woman who just recently handed back to me my submissive/bottom nature is italian. as to "does" (in micheledoes) -- ask me. ;)

humbly,

michele
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RE: hello all - 1/23/2007 2:10:33 PM   
NControlofU


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Hello michele,

Your introduction and your profile are both very well written and very interesting.  It sounds like you are having quite an adventure in your your journey of self-discovery, at least in this aspect of your life.  Personal growth in BDSM or anything else in life is usually a puzzle and an adventure, which is what makes it exciting and fulfilling, in the end. Good luck and best wishes in your journey.

David

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ORIGINAL: micheledoes

sorting through all this is half puzzle/half adventure, but i do want to sort it through. i believe in leading an integrated life.
humbly,

michele

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RE: hello all - 1/23/2007 2:59:49 PM   
micheledoes


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thank you David. i ask patience as my self-understanding turns and twists.

m

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