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littlesarbonn -> RE: ProDommes (1/23/2007 11:37:31 AM)
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Is it just me, or are we seeing more and more of these kinds of posts these days on the boards here? I, too, in the past have been duped out of money from a professional dominant (although the word "professional" is in question now that I think about it), but I don't hold it against the rest of the dominants who do professional work. I recently got kind of screwed over by a professional dominant I had seen years ago and had a great rapport with, and was shocked that she actually did what she did. But I don't transfer her dishonesty and bad conduct to the rest of the dominants who work.
What I will say, however, is that it has jaded me a bit from seeking out and doing further sessions. If I didn't know a lot of women on a personal basis who were doing professional sessions as a part of their livelihood on a regular basis, I can see how someone might become even further jaded. I know we don't want to "go there", but is it at all possible that a new generation of professional dominants are being infiltrated by some very dishonest people who are sullying the names of those who take the business seriously and with a sense of honor? I'm not usually one to complain myself, and I've mainly distanced myself from a lot of these complaint threads, but since coming back to the lifestyle a few years back, I've done four professional sessions. Three of them displayed very questionable behavior (one of which did about a fifteen minute "scene" in a paid for two hour session); the fourth was a positive experience, but a 25 percent success rate does raise a bit of concern in me, even though we are talking about a very low N of cases.
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