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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 5:08:50 PM

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If your Dominant presses charges...

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 5:24:29 PM

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How to break up with someone:

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=7131&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6&GT1=8953

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 5:50:40 PM

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Seems to me that if you have good communication, Y/you would both know what the O/other is into way before the point of having to "guess".
That seems to be a common theme on this board that just floors me. Soo many P/people come here and ask for advice on why T/their Dom/me /sub does something and how to get T/them to do something else. I would never dream of asking S/someone else why Master does what He does, I would ask Him. A/anyone else would be guessing and chances are T/they would guess wrong.
Cordially,
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I concur Minxy. But how many times do you see a newbie who has the belief that Master/Mistress is not to be questioned? One needs to not confuse avoidance with "mastery".

Yea, I just question EVERYthing by nature "but why do You want me to do it that way Master?". Guess that is why I get in trouble all the time

But then again, Master says He likes a little "attitude"

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 6:28:05 PM

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the msn break up articles (both for the male and the female) are heavily weighted in the female's favour. That would not be so bad if the male one (which appears to have been written for the female mindset) provided a counterbalance, but instead appears to just be a male writing to please the female audience.

sad.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 6:54:31 PM

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if they say to go home and get dressed up for a night out and never calls....and you are next contacted by their wife.....

if there is always some excuse on the board of why they havent made contact in awhile....

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 7:05:55 PM

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If your sub/slave is wearing a Chastity belt you don't have the key for She/he just might not be into you.

ROFLMAO
That is just too funny...

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 7:08:44 PM

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If your Dom/me tells you to wake him/her up when you are done cumming.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 7:13:12 PM

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If your dom reactivates a profile, and makes vague posts about being unsatisfied

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 7:54:23 PM

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If your sub has left bills she needs paid around after you have not "had fun" for a while

If your dom suddenly has a myspace page or youtube video you never heard about RE their being "born again" and having found "God" and how he granted him a pristine new vanilla spouse

If your sub meets you the next time wearing birkenstocks, baggy jeans, a wifebeater, a mullet with a rat tail, a copy of Ayn Rand La La Land in one hand, a copy of Dworkin "cut off all cocks" material oin her other hand, and a one way ticket to Santa Cruz or Berkeley sticking out of her hip pocket

If your dom would rather play Silent Hill then notice when you are wearing a pair of PVC underwear that HE bought for you and previously demanded that you wear for him. And still ignores you even though his score is low (yes, I loathe vid games and no I don't play them)

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 8:49:06 PM

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If she changes the locks, hires a security guard to keep you from coming physically onto the property and puts bullhorns on the top of her car and drives past your house every night for 3 weeks screaming obscenities at the top of her vocal range for all your neighbors to hear...

She's probably not that into you.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/22/2007 11:09:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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If you have begged to be a toilet slave and Mistress suddenly becomes constantly constipated and says she never pees- She Just Might Not Be That Into You.

Take some Exlax and drink lots of water... and she will be all over him again...

God it feel good to save a relationship from certain doom

Then comes the mysterious "allergies" to laxatives and diuretics. And the distrust of medical implements. (oh, we are a wiley bunch!) LOL

Then it's the old fashion way... a hose up the rear... and pump in some warm water.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/22/2007 11:44:08 PM

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If, at your first meeting with a Dominant in a public place, they excuse themselves to go to the restroom and never come back, they just might not be that into you.

Lady Topaz

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/23/2007 3:19:48 AM

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If, at your first meeting with a Dominant in a public place, they excuse themselves to go to the restroom and never come back, they just might not be that into you.

Lady Topaz

OMG! I did that once eons ago in a vanilla date!!!

And have you ever gone into the lady's restroom at a bar and just listened to the conversations the women are having on their cell phones? I can't count the number of times I've heard them making elaborate plans and excuses to do something else after they get rid of the jerk waiting patiently at the table.

"hahahahaha!! I'm going to tell him my kid is sick...hahahahaha... And I don't even have kids!!"

Yep...women can be cruel.

Course, I also know a dominant who met someone for the first time and sat and listened to her outline all that she needed - including the expensive gifts he should buy for her and the places she thought he should take her etc...all the while ordering the most expensive meal from the menu. He excused himself to go to the bathroom and never came back

juliet

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/23/2007 3:30:06 AM

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...she presses charges...

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/23/2007 6:36:42 AM

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...she presses charges...

If she's nice, it will only be a restraining order

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/23/2007 7:13:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

In the spirit of the book "He's Just Not That Into You", let's shed some light on how a submissive might know that a Dom/Domme is just not that into them or a certain fetish. (Sumissives are welcome to start a thread for the same purpose)

This is a serious thread actually, even if I start it out a bit light hearted. Here is my first 'sign' :

If you have begged to be a toilet slave and Mistress suddenly becomes constantly constipated and says she never pees- She Just Might Not Be That Into You.

If, on your first weekend together, she asks you to help move furniture into her "new" apartment and set up the bed and then... after a nice meal that you've cooked.... you begin to play and you have such a great time and she cums and cums and screams and begs for more spanking/flogging/tighter clamps/etc. but then the next morning wakes you up with the drop of your toy bag and clothes near your head and tells you that you have 15 minutes to get dressed and get out or she's calling the cops and showing them the bruises you forced her to endure...she might not be that into you.

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