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He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 8:28:56 AM

LotusSong

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In the spirit of the book "He's Just Not That Into You", let's shed some light on how a submissive might know that a Dom/Domme is just not that into them or a certain fetish. (Sumissives are welcome to start a thread for the same purpose)

This is a serious thread actually, even if I start it out a bit light hearted. Here is my first 'sign' :

If you have begged to be a toilet slave and Mistress suddenly becomes constantly constipated and says she never pees- She Just Might Not Be That Into You.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 8:33:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong
If you have begged to be a toilet slave and Mistress suddenly becomes constantly constipated and says she never pees- She Just Might Not Be That Into You.

Take some Exlax and drink lots of water... and she will be all over him again...

God it feel good to save a relationship from certain doom

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 8:38:26 AM

MysticFireTopaz

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If your Mistress knows you enjoy foot worship, yet every time you are around, She puts a smelly, greasy concotion on Her feet, then covers them up with wool socks, and when you question Her about it, She says Her feet have been rather dry lately---She just might not be that into you.

Lady Topaz

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 8:48:00 AM

MasterGremlin

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Seems to me that if you have good communication, Y/you would both know what the O/other is into way before the point of having to "guess".
That seems to be a common theme on this board that just floors me. Soo many P/people come here and ask for advice on why T/their Dom/me /sub does something and how to get T/them to do something else. I would never dream of asking S/someone else why Master does what He does, I would ask Him. A/anyone else would be guessing and chances are T/they would guess wrong.
Cordially,
minxy

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 8:57:59 AM

LotusSong

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterGremlin

Seems to me that if you have good communication, Y/you would both know what the O/other is into way before the point of having to "guess".
That seems to be a common theme on this board that just floors me. Soo many P/people come here and ask for advice on why T/their Dom/me /sub does something and how to get T/them to do something else. I would never dream of asking S/someone else why Master does what He does, I would ask Him. A/anyone else would be guessing and chances are T/they would guess wrong.
Cordially,
minxy

I concur Minxy. But how many times do you see a newbie who has the belief that Master/Mistress is not to be questioned? One needs to not confuse avoidance with "mastery".

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 9:03:23 AM

LotusSong

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong
If you have begged to be a toilet slave and Mistress suddenly becomes constantly constipated and says she never pees- She Just Might Not Be That Into You.

Take some Exlax and drink lots of water... and she will be all over him again...

God it feel good to save a relationship from certain doom

Then comes the mysterious "allergies" to laxatives and diuretics. And the distrust of medical implements. (oh, we are a wiley bunch!) LOL

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 10:19:43 AM

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I would say that when I try to email a woman and find out that she has **BLOCKED MY PROFILE** --- she's not that into me.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 11:19:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy

I would say that when I try to email a woman and find out that she has **BLOCKED MY PROFILE** --- she's not that into me.

You never know though...perhaps it was a slip of the finger...Perhaps you could post on a public forum and ask everyone else's opinions as to the possibility of the error and just maybe someone will contact her for you and politely inquire. At least everyone would be able to give you advice on how to just let time help out in your loss, and how you should take stock and all that other stuff...

Cause I know that those blocked e-mails are so difficult to decipher the true meaning of.

in deepest sympathy,

juliet

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 11:49:08 AM

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When he says he will call back with his schedule for the weekend so you can make plans to see each other, and doesn't ~ He Just Might Not Be That Into You...

JulietSierra~ I'm rolling on the floor with you! :D

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 12:16:42 PM

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When He promises to play with you at a local dungeon, so in the first 30 minutes of the night He puts you in a chair and blindfolds you, tells you stay there, and He leaves to play with 4 other subs/bottoms all night, and then takes the blindfold off you the last 10 minutes and says,"Nice scene, thanks", He might not be into you.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 12:21:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: goodpet

When He promises to play with you at a local dungeon, so in the first 30 minutes of the night He puts you in a chair and blindfolds you, tells you stay there, and He leaves to play with 4 other subs/bottoms all night, and then takes the blindfold off you the last 10 minutes and says,"Nice scene, thanks", He might not be into you.

OUCH.

Ok.. if they say they really wanna be here and contact you one a month... they may not really be into you.

Jewel

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 12:30:15 PM

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When he decides he wants to sew your labia shut.. . hands you the needle and thread and leaves the room with the order "Give me a shout when you are done".. He Just Might Not Be That Into You.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 12:45:23 PM

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When he promises to be your all, your everything, your utterly devoted sub boy.. then doesn't show up for two days because he had to do his own laundry, hook up a new DSL modem, play a few new video games and give a ride to the supermarket to his roommate.. he's just not that into you

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 12:49:31 PM

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You tell Master that you really want to try pony play. If he throws a bale of hay in the garage and locks you in there for the night, "He's Just Not That Into You". (Or, more likely, not into Pony Play).

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 1:00:07 PM

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All the men that read my profile and continue to email me, even
when they never get a response.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 3:16:05 PM

Mastermind70

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If your sub/slave is wearing a Chastity belt you don't have the key for She/he just might not be into you.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 3:30:30 PM

PsyVamp

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDoMe

All the men that read my profile and continue to email me, even
when they never get a response.

ROFLMFAO...I LOVE that profile!!!!!!!!!! (They actually think you're serious?..LOL)

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 4:45:53 PM

MysticFireTopaz

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If your Dominant has call waiting, and puts you on hold to take another call, then completely forgets about you, He or She just might not be that into you.

Lady Topaz

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 4:50:01 PM

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If your Dominant watches reruns of Monk while you are scantily clad in fishnet thigh highs, heels & a necklace....

He/she just might not be that into you.

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RE: He/She is just not that into you- signs - 1/21/2007 4:50:50 PM

MysticFireTopaz

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If you are cruising E-Bay auctions, and find that your Dominant has put up for auction some heartfelt tokens of love you gave to Him or Her, He or She just might not be that into you.

Lady Topaz

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