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IF... - 1/15/2007 11:23:08 AM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		IF you only knew then what you know now.. what advice would you have given yourself (re:D/s)

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:23:58 AM   
littlesarbonn


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

IF you only knew then what you know now.. what advice would you have given yourself (re:D/s)


Cut the "blue" wire!


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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:24:08 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		don't get married...LOL

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Are we having fun, yet?

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:26:14 AM   
afeathr


Posts: 248
Joined: 6/1/2006
From: Southern California
Status: offline 		I would have "found myself" sooner.  Saving me years of heartache and emotional pain.

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:26:17 AM   
asassylilslave


Posts: 93
Status: offline 		to skip all the play aspects and go right for the dynamic itself

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:30:16 AM   
toservez


Posts: 1733
Joined: 9/7/2006
From: All over now in Minnesota
Status: offline 		Learned to believe that the stuff I thought was important but society was telling me was not suppose to be was in fact important and OK for it to be important. To trust my instincts way more.

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:30:25 AM   
mstrjx


Posts: 2045
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Status: offline 		I started at 30, which from what I hear is probably the best time, maturity-wise, for a male.  So to say 'start earlier' might not be the best thing (although the desires were there).

I had a series of 'stepping-stone' relationships, totalling a lot of years.  I think that is what I would have skipped.  I wanted then what I want now, so that hasn't changed, but I think compromising for the betterment of those around me is what I feel uneasy about.

Jeff

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:35:56 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		I used to think i would have loads of advice for myself if i could go back knowing what i do now, but when i have sat and really thought about it no i wouldnt!!!  While some of what has happened in my life has been absolutely shit , its made me just who i am now and im quite happy with everything.
I stand by all my desicions they were right at the time.

It would be nice t be able to go back though and tell my self that i will be happy in a few years though i could of done with knowing that several times!!!

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:44:55 AM   
Kondolinni


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ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

I used to think i would have loads of advice for myself if i could go back knowing what i do now, but when i have sat and really thought about it no i wouldnt!!!  While some of what has happened in my life has been absolutely shit , its made me just who i am now and im quite happy with everything.
I stand by all my desicions they were right at the time.

It would be nice t be able to go back though and tell my self that i will be happy in a few years though i could of done with knowing that several times!!!


Here, here!!!

My advice to myself if I could go back to "then"?

Don't regret taking the red pill.

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:53:51 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		You really can have whatever you want.

Glad it didn't take me too long to figure it out.

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 11:54:36 AM   
mymasterssub69


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

IF you only knew then what you know now.. what advice would you have given yourself (re:D/s)


stay away from that guy named Jose ...you'll end up being heartbroken 14yrs and 2 UMs later


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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 12:11:53 PM   
darchChylde


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Joined: 9/28/2006
From: Warm Springs, GA but i live in San Francisco.
Status: offline 		don't let them go to chicago for christmas

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I'm the man your mother warned you about...
if only to keep me to herself.

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Where the fuck do I post?

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 12:37:58 PM   
SlaveAkasha


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Joined: 9/30/2006
From: Indiana
Status: offline 		Keep your legs shut, because it was all down hill from there.
 
Kasha

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 12:46:55 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Joined: 8/21/2006
From: Reed City, Michigan
Status: offline 		don't rush growing up

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 12:52:42 PM   
LotusSong


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

IF you only knew then what you know now.. what advice would you have given yourself (re:D/s)


I was referring to D/s..not life in general.
 
What I would have told me:
 
Yes, the best tools ARE your hands.
 
Do NOT go buying $1000 worth of whips (a total of 5) no matter HOW good they are.  You'll never sell them for what you paid for them.
 
Yes, there ARE some things you DON'T want to know.
 
 
 

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 2:34:50 PM   
CalliopePurple


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From: SeaTac area
Status: offline 		In regards to life - Don't be so curious about what's between everyone's legs that you hurt people figuring things out.

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Kimi ni aitakute dare yori mo aitakute
hajimete kimi ni atta hoshizora no shita de.
Kimi ni tsutaetai todokanai omoi demo
boku no kokoro wa mada kimi o sagashiteiru.

Gackt - Kimi ni Aitakute

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RE: IF... - 1/15/2007 9:39:46 PM   
RedSavageSlave


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Joined: 9/12/2006
Status: offline 		You dont REALLY have to be bisexual or have no limits to be a submissive / slave.

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My give a damn's busted.

So many thoughts, so few of them rational

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RE: IF... - 1/16/2007 7:04:34 AM   
sub4hire


Posts: 6775
Joined: 1/1/2004
Status: offline 		Same advice I gave myself,  Never stop valuing yourself.  Never lose sight of who you are today.

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RE: IF... - 1/16/2007 10:22:30 AM   
QuietlySeeking


Posts: 297
Joined: 5/5/2005
Status: offline 		Being Dominant does *not* mean, don't show emotion....

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RE: IF... - 1/16/2007 11:04:58 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


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Status: offline 		I'd have avoided at least a couple of unfortunate relationships/marriage.    M

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