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RE: Need help with some self-inflicted stuff - 1/8/2007 4:26:18 PM

purpleraven

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i was going to suggest kneeling on rice, but Holly beat me to it :) i noticed the OP said she wants to inflict "self punishment" which i *assume* is for sexual gratification, or the endorphin high? i think pretty much anything clampy will do it, such as nipples clover-clamped and pulled by a chain between the teeth while masturbating. i speak from experience! hurts like hell, no permanent damage, LOTS of endorphins.

as for SI. many, many years experience with self-injury, and helping others who SI, has taught me that it's all about intent. for example, a sub who's cruising for a bruising and intentionally pushes her Dom to hurt her and then doesn't red when she's getting damaged, is injuring herself, right? and a person who wants to hurt themselves with the intention of cruising an endorphin high while wanking is just having fun. IMO it's all about intent.

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RE: Need help with some self-inflicted stuff - 1/8/2007 5:33:34 PM

SweetPosession

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Inspired by religious self-flagilation, you might try traditional floggers, especially those made of firm, sharply-cut, or knotted leather. Floggers are easy to control and direct in one's own direction, and run the gammut from so gentle it doesn't hurt to ripping out flesh.

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RE: Need help with some self-inflicted stuff - 1/9/2007 7:32:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: Noah

Holly, I'm nominating you for hall monitor, with those extra short hall monitor skirts, of course.

*laughs* I'd be happy to step in, but a title without potency to back up much needed discipline invites mockery.

What CM needs is power behind the hall-moniter throne. Volunteering?

~Holly, who's little plaid skirt fit much better 20 years ago

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RE: Need help with some self-inflicted stuff - 1/9/2007 7:59:59 PM

LTRsubNW

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Renorei

This isn't necessarily BDSM related, but I need a great way to hurt myself really good, but without causing any permanent damage.

Marry my ex wife.

You won't get that immediate rush, it won't cause any red marks...but it lasts all day long.

< Message edited by LTRsubNW -- 1/9/2007 8:05:30 PM >

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