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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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This type of arrangement would be very confusing for me, but that is because my "make up" is to submit to the person I am giving myself to.  If someone just used me as a bottom to them for periodic enjoyment, but did not direct me in other aspects of my life, I would not do well, nor would I even know why I wasn't doing well.  It would create internal conflict and chaos for me, and I would shut down, therefore never being in the "mood," either.  It would end up being a painful situation for me with little emotional gratification.  I realize this is not a universal view, but it is mine, and perhaps the person in question's, too.