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Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 1:26:32 PM   
slavejcw1


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Status: offline 		Being a slave from a country were the BDSM community is minimal and also underground is so unfair and also the worst because when you try looking for owners in other countries you get rejected because many think you are trying to get a visa or green card or a better way of life, when the only thing you want to do is serve under contract or as a life time servant. How can slaves like me find a oplace in a BDSM community, am I not worthy or is there a place for foreign slaves in other countries. Any one has experience with foreign slaves?
Happy New year
Carlos

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 1:45:31 PM   
MissyRane


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Status: offline 		I just bumped into some dominant from mexico the other day, and hello you live in south america it's a BIG continent..and north america is just up there..few hours north gimme a breaaaaaak wtf do u think of antarctica then? its me and the penguins who try various bdsm activities on eachotha sheeeeeez I haven't bumped into this......xxxxxxxxxxxxxx....... for a long time  
seriously it cant be hard for a mexican to get a greencard to north america

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 1:50:03 PM   
drawntothedark


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I just bumped into some dominant from mexico the other day, into


Yeah that is what I was just gonna say. I had a Dom from Mexico trying to lure me into a conversation the day before Christmas Eve. Soooooo there has to be SOME bdsm players in your country.

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 1:56:06 PM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		I've got quite a bit of experience with being served by immigrants in this country and by people while I was residing in their own countries and I haven't encountered any problems.  What flashes a big red light is when someone in another country claims to want to come to this country in order to serve me.  This has NEVER panned out, because, at the bottom, there seems to be a request for me to send money.

If you want to come to the US to play, get a tourist visa and come up.  You'll have to leave then that expires but you can get a taste.  You can also look around your own country.  I've gotten so much mail from south of the US border that I've suggested publishing Loving Dominant in Spanish.  There are a lot of people down there.

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 1:59:29 PM   
avessalom


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Status: offline 		Isn't California or Texas closer to Mexico than to Vermont or Minnesota? So what's your problem?


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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 2:13:59 PM   
avessalom


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You can also look around your own country.  I've gotten so much mail from south of the US border that I've suggested publishing Loving Dominant in Spanish.  There are a lot of people down there.


I live in a town of some 4.5 million people in Russia, and in about 10 years, i came across only 5 lifestyle dominant females here, none of whom was suitable for me, or vice versa. There is only two bdsm sites for the country of 140 plus million people, where only about 10 percent of the total population is using the internet. In the personals section of those websites, there is about 3-4 new adverts each month. The proportion of submissive men to dominant women must be about 20:1. That's the only reason i am on this site. If you Americans really think the whole world is dreaming about moving over the land of hamburgers and hot dogs, i suggest you travel once in a while beyond Cancun or Bahamas.

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 2:15:36 PM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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Status: offline 		If you're serious about finding a Domme to serve for life and relocating to the US...how about you reverse that order, move to the US, get settled here and then look for a Domme?  That would seem to me the logical thing to do.  That way you'll already have your Visa and will remove a potential barrier. 

Personally I would not even entertain the idea of taking on a sub from another country. 

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 2:19:11 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		If you Americans really think the whole world is dreaming about moving over the land of hamburgers and hot dogs, i suggest you travel once in a while beyond Cancun.

Quite uncalled for......  He said in every case to date where someone from overseas has asked to serve, they were looking for money from him.   I will back that viewpoint to the hilt.

Just the cost of doing business on the worldwide net.  No one is looking to feed hotdogs and hamburgers, nor looking to take alot of badmouthing.

Ron 

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 2:20:15 PM   
drawntothedark


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ORIGINAL: avessalom

quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

You can also look around your own country.  I've gotten so much mail from south of the US border that I've suggested publishing Loving Dominant in Spanish.  There are a lot of people down there.


I live in a town of some 4.5 million people in Russia, and in about 10 years, i came across only 5 lifestyle dominant females here, none of whom was suitable for me, or vice versa. There is only two bdsm sites for the country of 140 plus million people, where only about 10 percent of the total population is using the internet. In the personals section of those websites, there is about 3-4 new adverts each month. The proportion of submissive men to dominant women must be about 20:1. That's the only reason i am on this site. If you Americans really think the whole world is dreaming about moving over the land of hamburgers and hot dogs, i suggest you travel once in a while beyond Cancun or Bahamas.


Actually no one here was saying anything about anyone dreaming of ONLY moving here. The OP's profile does say he is willing and eager to move anywhere.

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 2:21:10 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: avessalom

quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

You can also look around your own country.  I've gotten so much mail from south of the US border that I've suggested publishing Loving Dominant in Spanish.  There are a lot of people down there.


I live in a town of some 4.5 million people in Russia, and in about 10 years, i came across only 5 lifestyle dominant females here, none of whom was suitable for me, or vice versa. There is only two bdsm sites for the country of 140 plus million people, where only about 10 percent of the total population is using the internet. In the personals section of those websites, there is about 3-4 new adverts each month. The proportion of submissive men to dominant women must be about 20:1. That's the only reason i am on this site. If you Americans really think the whole world is dreaming about moving over the land of hamburgers and hot dogs, i suggest you travel once in a while beyond Cancun or Bahamas.


I call unnecessary snarkiness!!

Well crapola, Ron did it first and better...........

WAIT a MINUTE!!! Isn't that OTK place somewhere in the Russian hood??


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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 2:32:47 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavejcw1

Being a slave from a country were the BDSM community is minimal and also underground is so unfair and also the worst because when you try looking for owners in other countries you get rejected because many think you are trying to get a visa or green card or a better way of life, when the only thing you want to do is serve under contract or as a life time servant. How can slaves like me find a oplace in a BDSM community, am I not worthy or is there a place for foreign slaves in other countries. Any one has experience with foreign slaves?
Happy New year
Carlos


Hi Carlos,

All I can say is I've done my fair share....everytime I've tried to talk to one of the "relocators" from other countries...they are the ones that bail on me...the disappear without explanation, and won't respond to emails, IM's or phone.

When it comes down to "ok I'm going to meet you on this date or that date" either something comes up and/or they disappear.  I even had one talk a good game, said he was coming here for about two years for work and if things worked out he would ask for a perm. transfer.  Well, he disappeared...for two whole years...then he pops up again..and guess what...he's back in his country, still talking the "big game"

my point is...maybe people get in the mindset of a greencard (which I have been offered marriage on the first or second email countless times so I know what they mean) or have just been played in general, and they just give up and start to draw the line at foreign communications.

Just my opinion...and the sucker that I am...I don't want to lump all people together because of a few, so I will continue to give them a chance...but I have to admit, I will have a harder eye on those that are not in this country....just nature.

good luck in your search for the new year...drop by and say hello anytime  :>

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 2:35:27 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Magik's slave

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 3:10:08 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

((doesnt think it is any easier finding someone in the united states))

Magik's slave


didn't say it was...but his subject was foreign slaves so that is the only subject that I was commenting on

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 3:29:50 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		Hell if you want to find slaves.. and even Owners.. i say go to Prague.. Russia.... Slovakia....  hell i'd even try the netherlands! 

ayep - i'd say go EAST.....  there seems to be plenty of slaves and slave owners.  If you cant find one i am absolutetly positive some one can find one for you.

ha!  <wg>




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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 3:30:35 PM   
JohnWarren


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quote:

ORIGINAL: avessalom

quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

You can also look around your own country.  I've gotten so much mail from south of the US border that I've suggested publishing Loving Dominant in Spanish.  There are a lot of people down there.


I live in a town of some 4.5 million people in Russia, and in about 10 years, i came across only 5 lifestyle dominant females here, none of whom was suitable for me, or vice versa. There is only two bdsm sites for the country of 140 plus million people, where only about 10 percent of the total population is using the internet. In the personals section of those websites, there is about 3-4 new adverts each month. The proportion of submissive men to dominant women must be about 20:1. That's the only reason i am on this site. If you Americans really think the whole world is dreaming about moving over the land of hamburgers and hot dogs, i suggest you travel once in a while beyond Cancun or Bahamas.


Some of us have traveled quite a lot and some of us were active in the scene before there was an internet.  Generally, it's been my observation that most "submissive" men can't find a dominant in a reasonable time because of a poor attitude or a chip on the shoulder.

I think you may have met the enemy as seen by Pogo.

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 3:35:42 PM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

WAIT a MINUTE!!! Isn't that OTK place somewhere in the Russian hood??



Czech Republic... they had the good sense to kick out the ёб твою́ мать Crew

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 3:36:02 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

Hell if you want to find slaves.. and even Owners.. i say go to Prague.. Russia.... Slovakia....  hell i'd even try the netherlands! 

ayep - i'd say go EAST.....  there seems to be plenty of slaves and slave owners.  If you cant find one i am absolutetly positive some one can find one for you.

ha!  <wg>



ah yes...have had tons approach from the east.....but that's a discussion for another thread.....LOL

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 3:39:07 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I have had the good fortune and delight to meet not one, but two lovely young female slaves from Russia. Fascinating life stories.

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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 3:57:25 PM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		aye and i know some one who seems to keep pulling them out of there.  Beautiful girls.

Personally.. i'm going to stay out of the east. 

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Czech Republic... they had the good sense to kick out the ёб твою́ мать Crew


god only knows what that Crew does/is/was - but i've a good feeling..... 

I swear, the East seems like a very dangerous place to be a female


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RE: Foreign Slaves - 1/2/2007 4:03:46 PM   
MagiksSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TxBlkMistress

quote:

ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave

((doesnt think it is any easier finding someone in the united states))

Magik's slave


didn't say it was...but his subject was foreign slaves so that is the only subject that I was commenting on


AWW I wasnt commenting on anything you said I was just makeing a gneral observation to the op.

there is so much more to finding someone then location.

Magik's slave

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