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Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 8:43:59 AM   
LotusSong


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Status: offline 		Have you ever obeyed or gave an order that you later regretted?

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 8:46:17 AM   
ownedgirlie


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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 8:49:31 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 8:49:47 AM   
mrocknj


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Status: offline 		I ordered her to bring home Thai food and later realized I really wanted sushi.....

< Message edited by mrocknj -- 12/31/2006 8:52:14 AM >

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 8:51:47 AM   
TPEOwner


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I ordered her to bring home Thai food and later realized I really wanted sushi.....

You are obviously not a real dom.

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 9:11:00 AM   
Celeste43


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More seriously, no because we have a tiered series of orders. I'm supposed to take good care of myself. If he tells me to do something that would be bad for me, then I tell him no and why. I'm supposed to do this and if I obeyed a bad order knowingly, then I would get in trouble.

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 9:15:51 AM   
WorldofSilence


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Status: offline 		I have never intentionally given a bad order, however if everything is new and fresh and W/we are learning as W/we go there has to be room for negoiations because thats the joy of getting to know someone, so I have been declined in the past from an order I've been given but thats only because it was something that would of been bad for her, I put it down to something learnt, because both Doms and subs have something to learn.

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 9:20:45 AM   
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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 10:10:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nosathro

Tal Lotusong
 
There is a Gorean saying..."Master may not aways be right..but He is never wrong."
 
I wish you well
 
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LOL:)   :  Mine is "I'm not always right.. I just usually am" :)



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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 10:27:02 AM   
greeneyes1962


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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 10:29:38 AM   
Kalira


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Have you ever obeyed or gave an order that you later regretted?

Nope

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 11:34:32 AM   
kisshou


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Status: offline 		I don't reget being obedient but I do regret the doing the thing I did to be obedient and wish I had never did it.

At the time it didn't bother me but turned out to haunt me that I engaged in that type of behavior.

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 12:11:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mrocknj

I ordered her to bring home Thai food and later realized I really wanted sushi.....


And it was her fault, too, right, Sir?    She should have known!

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 12:48:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kisshou

I don't reget being obedient but I do regret the doing the thing I did to be obedient and wish I had never did it.

At the time it didn't bother me but turned out to haunt me that I engaged in that type of behavior.


I'm confused as to why. Why did it haunt you? Did you tell your Master about this?

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 1:20:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Have you ever obeyed or gave an order that you later regretted?


I make decisions all the time that in hindsight I would of made a difference decision.  I don't regret these decision that I made because I made the best decision I could of on the information that I had avaliable and as I understood it.  However, I always reqret the negative consequences that my poor decisions resulted in.  But, instead of wallowing in the bad choice... I learn the error and move on.



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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 1:46:41 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: kisshou

I don't reget being obedient but I do regret the doing the thing I did to be obedient and wish I had never did it.

At the time it didn't bother me but turned out to haunt me that I engaged in that type of behavior.


This is exactly what I mean.. Thank you.

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 12/31/2006 2:28:23 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I used to have the slave do a full kowtow immediately when I walked into the room. I regretted it as soon as I tripped over him. It's SO un-Masterly to trip over your slave. LOL

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 1/2/2007 5:22:20 AM   
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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 1/2/2007 8:52:21 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Have you ever obeyed or gave an order that you later regretted?


No, not that I can remember. Which means either that it hasn't happened or, more likely, it was so minor that the regret was small and thus not worth remembering clearly.

I have, however, made a few choices in terms of chosing potential subs that turned out to be an unwise choice. Those were my choices though and had nothing to do with giving a command in the relationship itself.

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RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets - 1/2/2007 8:58:32 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		No I havent given an order that I later regretted. I tend to think things over carefully beforehand as to avert having regrets later.

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