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RE: I know I shouldn't let it affect me, but... - 12/5/2006 1:01:24 PM

fergus

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Whomever it is, easy enough to see that they want attention.

Do not give it any more thought tan you already have. YOu ave reported it, you have vented about it, now just forget about it.

MarieToo seemed to have the best advice, just don't feed into it.

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RE: I know I shouldn't let it affect me, but... - 12/5/2006 10:16:55 PM

CandleInTheWind

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ORIGINAL: Lorelei115

This is the SECOND time its happened on this site. Someone has posted a profile making derrogotory comments about me. Not sure who it is, but I'm pretty sure that (considering the complete lack of spelling and grammar) that its no one I know personally. I do find it amusing that they claim to have been with me for over four years, though... you'd think I'd remember that.

Anyway... if someone had posted a profile saying I was a fake, or a player or something like that, hell I would just laugh it off. But this one accuses me of spreading an STD. That's pretty serious, and could effect me in negative ways OUTSIDE the community.

Like I said, I should probably just chalk it up to internet morons and laugh it off, but it still hurts, and its causing me to consider whether I should just leave the site.

Thoughts?

Lorelie

Oh do I understand your feelings...I actually had exactly the same thing happen I actually created this prfile to get away from the wench...but welll she foundit and began posting again...so i just added the fact that this wasa eplacement profile and say WTF it doesnt matter what i did or what i didnt do she just wanted to TRY and annoy me...sad part is that I wasnt the one responsible for the things she was pitching about i was a submissiv eina relationship and she knew about me being in the picture..she wouldnt confess that seh couldnt deal with it!..and so...

My advice is this send anythign you know of to the moderators...they are able to do soem kind of search and can delete or whatever anyone coming from that location....and Im almost positive that somoen is sending you copies of these mean and nast profiles...I know that they can hurt ...but well after the first deep wound they really cant hurt much more...and you get past them then you go from hurt to angry ...after angry you go to the rent I so special that somene feels the need to try and annoy me...and then you come to the realization that YOU are the one with the power not the rotten insignificant bone head that is doingit...

Just my experience

little red

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RE: I know I shouldn't let it affect me, but... - 12/5/2006 11:38:36 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lorelei115

This is the SECOND time its happened on this site. Someone has posted a profile making derrogotory comments about me. Not sure who it is, but I'm pretty sure that (considering the complete lack of spelling and grammar) that its no one I know personally. I do find it amusing that they claim to have been with me for over four years, though... you'd think I'd remember that.

Anyway... if someone had posted a profile saying I was a fake, or a player or something like that, hell I would just laugh it off. But this one accuses me of spreading an STD. That's pretty serious, and could effect me in negative ways OUTSIDE the community.

Like I said, I should probably just chalk it up to internet morons and laugh it off, but it still hurts, and its causing me to consider whether I should just leave the site.

Thoughts?

Chances are you won't be able to modify thinking process in a way to develop the thicker skin Kenin is speaking to..... as it's excellent advice.

- R

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RE: I know I shouldn't let it affect me, but... - 12/6/2006 9:35:25 AM

Lorelei115

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quote:

ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger

Chances are you won't be able to modify thinking process in a way to develop the thicker skin Kenin is speaking to..... as it's excellent advice.

- R

..What?

Edited a third time 'cause I think I may have misinterperated.

< Message edited by Lorelei115 -- 12/6/2006 10:17:20 AM >

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RE: I know I shouldn't let it affect me, but... - 12/6/2006 10:16:11 AM

Lorelei115

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ORIGINAL: CandleInTheWind

Lorelie

Oh do I understand your feelings...I actually had exactly the same thing happen I actually created this prfile to get away from the wench...but welll she foundit and began posting again...so i just added the fact that this wasa eplacement profile and say WTF it doesnt matter what i did or what i didnt do she just wanted to TRY and annoy me...sad part is that I wasnt the one responsible for the things she was pitching about i was a submissiv eina relationship and she knew about me being in the picture..she wouldnt confess that seh couldnt deal with it!..and so...

My advice is this send anythign you know of to the moderators...they are able to do soem kind of search and can delete or whatever anyone coming from that location....and Im almost positive that somoen is sending you copies of these mean and nast profiles...I know that they can hurt ...but well after the first deep wound they really cant hurt much more...and you get past them then you go from hurt to angry ...after angry you go to the rent I so special that somene feels the need to try and annoy me...and then you come to the realization that YOU are the one with the power not the rotten insignificant bone head that is doingit...

Just my experience

little red

Thank you very much for the kind words. It is nice to know that I am not the only one who has gone through this sort of thing. :)

I had already made my decision to stay, but again thank you all for the support and helping to remind me that the kind sincere people really do far outnumber the jerks.

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