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Daddy - 12/2/2006 5:05:59 PM   
prettylittlkitty


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Status: offline 		much to my surprise, as i wasn't really looking for a partner, i found one.
we talked for a while online through email, then im, then we started talking on the phone.
he never pushed for a meeting, it was always whenever i was ready. (amazing, i know).

so we go on a couple of dates, then playtime............and for the first time in my life, while playing, i called him Daddy. it just fit, makes me feel good everytime we talk. i would have been the last one i would have thought to get into a Daddydom/littlegirl relationship.
i've always been very serious, so why can he make me feel like a little girl? i don't know, but it just feels right at this time.
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RE: Daddy - 12/2/2006 5:07:29 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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http://www.collarchat.com/m_668543/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#668698
Age play dynamics

http://www.collarchat.com/m_580865/mpage_1/key_age%252Cplay/tm.htm#580890
Ms and age play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972
Another daddy dom question

http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832
How does a dom decide to be a daddy ?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129
Daddy's Girl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992
What exactly is a daddy dom?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184
Are there any daddies here?

Daddy/Daughter Roleplay

Daddydoms and Babygirls

Daddy?

Daddy/little girl

Hiding Daddy's Belt

Daddy doms

Daddy's little girl

Daddy? (2)



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RE: Daddy - 12/2/2006 6:31:59 PM   
reofbl


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Status: offline 		Your story's sweet. It's always great to hear about something coming along so well.

quote:

ORIGINAL: prettylittlkitty
i've always been very serious, so why can he make me feel like a little girl? i don't know, but it just feels right at this time.


It seems like these sorts of things really can work out quite well. So far, it is, for me. It's shocked me how quickly my slave took to being my daughter.. she takes a great deal of comfort in it.

"Master"? What does this mean to so many? For me, I am protective and supportive while being dominant and controlling. I'm quite loving. In truth, I'm quite like a Father, only sexual with his daughters and in quite a romantic relationship with her.

Even typing this now, it can sound quite perverse; still, it's more honest than any other intimacy I've known. I've always been stronger and more powerful than those around me, and I've alawys been very loving and supportive. I've always been a father to my girlfriends, whether in name or not. It's.. just so true.

I would like to note I see Father/daughter as an aspect to a relationship. In mine, I try to keep a strong focus on it being a center role set, though I also empathize it's only one of sevearl. Father/daughter, Master/slave, boyfriend/girlfriend, best friends (Owner/pet?). I wouldn't have it any other way.

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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 12:42:29 AM   
Petruchio


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Status: offline 		It's nice seeing that dimension of you, Alby.

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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 12:59:53 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		You manage to find some of the best things when you arent looking.  Angel and I are the same way, we werent looking or even interested in one another when we met. Playtime came pretty quickly after we met, but the Mommy part didnt come until MUCH later.  Theres just a real feeling of comfort in being able to let go and be a little girl. Enjoy it, it'll become second nature eventually.

DV

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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 2:32:55 AM   
prettylittlkitty


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quote:

Theres just a real feeling of comfort in being able to let go and be a little girl. Enjoy it, it'll become second nature eventually.


it's already feeling like a very comfortable place to be, maybe something i've always wanted and never realized?

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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 2:37:05 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Could be, I've heard that before.  Angel said its something he has always needed and never felt like hes ever had before, in me as a Mommy. So, maybe this is the same as with you... something youve needed but never tried becasue the oppertunity never presented itself

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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 7:46:03 AM   
adaddysgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: prettylittlkitty

it's already feeling like a very comfortable place to be, maybe something i've always wanted and never realized?



i never realized it until i met my first Daddy dom....never even knew it existed.  And now, i would have it no other way.  Yes, enjoy! 
 
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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 11:48:28 AM   
MmakeMme


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Status: offline 		Daddy Doms are amongst the most delightful people on the planet. What a sweet relationship to be in. ~smiling~ Congratulations - I'm glad you found what fit. (It's kind of not knowing what to name your newborn ... until He is born and then you just ~know~.)

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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 4:58:41 PM   
greeneyes1962


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Status: offline 		i've known about my submissiveness for a long time, but like i said this Daddy/littlegirl stuff is new to me. i've heard of it,but i  never thought it was for me. 

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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 7:28:58 PM   
idiott


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quote:

ORIGINAL: prettylittlkitty

he never pushed for a meeting, it was always whenever i was ready. (amazing, i know).



You are so lucky, and i am so happy for you. My Daddy always told me "whenever i was ready". But after i left my fiance, it changed to i was 'leading him on' and now he doesn't even talk to me anymore.

I wish you all the happiness in the world. You are a lucky woman. *s*

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RE: Daddy - 12/3/2006 10:19:39 PM   
MasterNdorei


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Status: offline 		When something so wonderful flows naturally, life is good...

Congradulations~*
Master's dorei

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RE: Daddy - 12/13/2006 6:50:03 AM   
ladyhawk40


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Status: offline 		Daddy Doms are wonderful men who take very good care you. Congrats Prettylittlkitty.

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RE: Daddy - 12/13/2006 7:07:26 AM   
BDSM05478


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Status: offline 		alot of us find this lifestyle and it just cliques. For me, I was always bigger, tougher, stronger, more willfull, stubborn and just a plain shrew towards all my partners. When I finally met a Man that was able and willing to put me in my soft girlish place, Daddy is the only title I can call Him. I sometimes joke that it is because in my head and heart I am never to far removed from my 16yr old self, so that made me an easy target lol.

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RE: Daddy - 12/13/2006 7:28:24 AM   
Devilslilsister


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Status: offline 		yeah - i've a Daddy.  It sort of amazes me.  Never though i would want/need one.  I remember the first time he told me i would eventually call him Daddy and i looked at him like he was nuts.  You're right, its a beautiful place - enjoy.

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RE: Daddy - 12/13/2006 12:25:25 PM   
MistressYlwa


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Status: offline 		Congratulations! Know I love being Mommy to one of my boys.
 
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RE: Daddy - 12/13/2006 1:13:20 PM   
AriakeRattus


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Status: offline 		I had no idea the wonders of such a relationship until recently. I never once thought of myself being a submissive before, and in my mind there was no way of being submissive to a male. I was like that for quite some time. Very much a hyper, bouncy happy, somewhat arrogant, dominant female. Then I met back up with an old friend, and we hit off quite nicely. Without even realising it, our relationship evolved into a Daddy/little girl aspect. I've always been his "little girl" and it took no time at all for me to fall into that role with him as my Daddy. I have never been happier. There is a rather warm, safe feeling I get with him. He protects me and helps me, and makes me feel more loved than I ever have before. He accepts all sides of me, knows my all secrets and my flaws. I know when I come to him in confidence, I will be held safely in the arms of a man who knows all my weakness, and who helps me overcome it, who knows my strengths and helps me to use them. My Daddy helps me grow as his little girl, and as a person. I believe the sheer level of intimacy, knowing, comfort and caring are what makes Daddy/little relationships so amazing. And anyone with a Daddy can tell you, no one else in the world can make you blush and giggle as much as your Daddy can. ^_^

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RE: Daddy - 12/13/2006 1:54:27 PM   
Siona


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Status: offline 		Stories like these just warm my heart.
Congrats to all of you!

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RE: Daddy - 8/12/2007 1:10:52 AM   
nighthawk3569


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quote:

ORIGINAL: idiott

quote:

ORIGINAL: prettylittlkitty

he never pushed for a meeting, it was always whenever i was ready. (amazing, i know).



You are so lucky, and i am so happy for you. My Daddy always told me "whenever i was ready". But after i left my fiance, it changed to i was 'leading him on' and now he doesn't even talk to me anymore.

I wish you all the happiness in the world. You are a lucky woman. *s*







idiott

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

The cyber is another one, because they will almost never actually follow through on meeting you. A lot of people have wasted months cybering with one of these types before they finally get that a real meeting is never going to happen. It is a particularly thorny one as most subs do want to go slowly and build some trust, as rightly they should.




I have to agree that this one is 'thorny', lol. My first Master, who i will always love even though things didn't work out, was very patient with me and helped me to learn a lot about myself and the lifestyle. However, i was very nervous about moving cross country and leaving everything and everyone i have ever known, so even after leaving the man i was with, i still had trouble making the move. He said that He would wait for me to be comfortable with it and i took Him at His word ... now i regret that i let my caution win out for nine months. He decided that i was 'leading him on' and released me. As He said when He said good-bye ... when you want something, you have to reach out and grab it. Next time, i will probaby just take the chance and if i get hurt then its just part of life. One last lesson from my Daddy.  

    No, this is "one last lesson"! Don't tell it one way, one place...and a different way, another place!                           
    You were dealt with patiently and fairly...given every opportunity to make the move you said YOU wanted to make...and to make it in your own time. However, nine months is plenty of time to make a decision. Ask any human baby...after nine months, they decide to be born.

 
                                                                                  'hawk

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RE: Daddy - 8/12/2007 6:51:41 AM   
BDsbabygirl


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Status: offline 		Congratulations to the OP.
 
AriakeRattus, you described it soooo well. Like the OP, I was not hardly looking for another relationship, just coming out of a second bad marriage. Then I met my Dom. We started out as vanilla friends then it become romantic...then a while later, it became D/s. But it was when we were still 'just friends' that I suddenly started calling him 'Big Daddy' and shortly thereafter (but still before things became romantic), he started calling me babygirl.
 
Bar none, this is is by far the best relationship I have ever been in. Daddy loves me unconditionally and spoils me rotten while still disciplining me (theoretically, as I've never needed disciplined, I am such a good girl) and correct me (have needed correction). My happiness is his happiness and I live for him, doing any and everything I can to make him happy, comfortable, fulfilled, etc.

Daddy also says this' the best relationship he's ever been in, too, and he's had subs before me, tho I don't know if any were like this (won't ask, refuse to spoil it for myself), tho he has noted that previous subs wouldn't take to his romantic ideals as I have, so I'm thinking not.
 
For me, I do think my blood father's death in October plays a role in this. We never had the daddy's sweetheart-type relationship tho we loved each other madly, and this fulfills that part of me that never got realized. I do know I used to be jealous of little girls who had their fathers 'wrapped', tho I would not say that Daddy is wrapped, not by any stretch of the imagination. If anything, I am wrapped...and on occasion, tied. *LOL*

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