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ORIGINAL: nighthawk3569

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ORIGINAL: idiott

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ORIGINAL: prettylittlkitty

he never pushed for a meeting, it was always whenever i was ready. (amazing, i know).

You are so lucky, and i am so happy for you. My Daddy always told me "whenever i was ready". But after i left my fiance, it changed to i was 'leading him on' and now he doesn't even talk to me anymore.

I wish you all the happiness in the world. You are a lucky woman. *s*

idiott

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ORIGINAL: SirDominic

The cyber is another one, because they will almost never actually follow through on meeting you. A lot of people have wasted months cybering with one of these types before they finally get that a real meeting is never going to happen. It is a particularly thorny one as most subs do want to go slowly and build some trust, as rightly they should.

I have to agree that this one is 'thorny', lol. My first Master, who i will always love even though things didn't work out, was very patient with me and helped me to learn a lot about myself and the lifestyle. However, i was very nervous about moving cross country and leaving everything and everyone i have ever known, so even after leaving the man i was with, i still had trouble making the move. He said that He would wait for me to be comfortable with it and i took Him at His word ... now i regret that i let my caution win out for nine months. He decided that i was 'leading him on' and released me. As He said when He said good-bye ... when you want something, you have to reach out and grab it. Next time, i will probaby just take the chance and if i get hurt then its just part of life. One last lesson from my Daddy.  

    No, this is "one last lesson"! Don't tell it one way, one place...and a different way, another place!                           
    You were dealt with patiently and fairly...given every opportunity to make the move you said YOU wanted to make...and to make it in your own time. However, nine months is plenty of time to make a decision. Ask any human baby...after nine months, they decide to be born.

 
                                                                                  'hawk