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Greetings and salutations.... - 11/30/2006 8:20:59 AM

qilnos

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Greetings !!

Well I come to this board in hopes of finding some answers.... I have just started to realize I have a "taste" for the D/S.... I am in a very awkard point in my life, I have had some things happen in my life that forced me to take a look around and see if I am really living like I should......

I appolgize if this seems to vague of an intro, I am just very nervous and hope I have came to the right place.....

*Mods please feel free to message me and I will attmept to come up with a more suitable post...

Thanks ...

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RE: Greetings and salutations.... - 11/30/2006 8:28:09 AM

childoftheshadow

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Hello and welcome. I have faith that you will find the help you need here. There are some great people around.

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RE: Greetings and salutations.... - 11/30/2006 11:54:59 AM

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Your post is fine. Welcome.

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RE: Greetings and salutations.... - 11/30/2006 5:04:46 PM

qilnos

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On further preview of my initial post I realized I told you fine ladies and gentlemen nothing about myself....

So without further ado....

A short time ago, this year actually , my brother killed himself....

As you can imagine this pretty much fucked my world up....

Then succession, me and my wife started rolling downhill.....

This is where my life gets interesting........

A long time friend stayed up with me one night bullshiting on the phone...

We talked about everything imaginable.... We stumbled on to this subject... She is a sub, and apparently she has had an ilkling from day one that I am a dominant..

After reading lots of books and websites it seemed to click, like this is what I am missing in my life....

I know my wife will never understand, but I dont know if this is really something I crave, or something I am grabbing at to make my life spin back under my control....

My friend and I have, for lack of a better word, played at this lifestyle....

It seems to feel right, like putting on an old jacket....

I recently stopped our "relationship" because it isnt fair, on her, on me, or anyone else for that matter....

I hate to say it but, I feel kinda like a junkie, for lack of a better word, as of late... Like I am trying to go cold turkey on something I have been doing for years... When in reality its only been a short while....

So basicly thats why I am here.....

I am at this moment, rudderless, and I would appreciate a gust of wind in the proper direction.....

Thank you for your time....

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RE: Greetings and salutations.... - 11/30/2006 5:20:50 PM

DreamWizardNJoy

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Wow! That's some year you've had...

i understand your hesitance in thinking that your wife may not understand or be interested, but it is possible that she, too, has hidden desires you weren't aware of (just like your friend). Stranger things have been known to happen...

Good luck sorting it all it. Remember, all things need balance: So listen to your head, your heart and your spirit, to find what is truth for you.

Regards,
David Dream Wizard and his dreamgirl joy

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