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Suspicious Profile - 11/29/2006 11:33:15 PM   
QuietDom


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It's difficult to mention a potential a scammer on here without violating the ToS, but I'll do my best to do it without outright naming names.

Tonight, I received a message on the other side from a Female Slave, 29 in Miami Beach, asking me to write back to one of two free webmail addresses.  My suspicions were aroused because the email was completely generic -- did not refer to common interests, did not demonstrate that she had read my profile, did not address the question of why a woman in Miami Beach is contacting a guy all the way up in Canada, and, most oddly for someone who has taken the 'slave' descriptor, did not refer to BDSM practices in any way.

Her profile consisted solely of the words "I'm so lonely" and had been up for less than a day.  No BDSM practices on the Interest list.

The combination of these various incongruities (and a few others) suggested strongly to me that this person is spamming the site, and that those who respond to the email addresses she gives will quickly find their addresses being sold to spam lists for porn sites, dating services, and penis enlargement.

Maybe I'm paranoid, but my suspicion is that there's at least fifty other guys on here who have received the very same message from the same individual.  Am I right?  Anyone else?
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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/29/2006 11:40:08 PM   
DiamondOrchid


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You're not right about me, but I'M LONELY here in Miami beach... no one ever replies!
 
(I'm joking, just so you know. I've been up for 20 some-odd hours and need sleep.)
 
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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/29/2006 11:43:56 PM   
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I've been getting a lot of these similar types of messages lately. I've also been receiving continuous financial domination messages from women I've never heard of before. I only mention this because it's something that wasn't happening until just last week, and then it started happening a lot.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 12:03:13 AM   
sleazy


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Oddly enough I had something similar today.

A message just saying "Hi there", clicked the name and saw a new profile, based hundreds of miles away, little in it but a cell (or possibly personal) number and a please callwith a statement talking dirty was a likelihood. Being somewhat bored I replied saying something along the lines of "care to elaborate before your profile gets pullde", only to be told the poster would only talk on the phone and if pulled the would just set up another profile.

An oddity about dialling codes here in the UK is that a what appears to be a cell number can actually be set so that the subscriber recieves money for calls made to that number

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 12:41:46 AM   
SamKeithsslave


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I'd just report the suspicion I have to  moderator and allow them to sort it out.


quote:

ORIGINAL: QuietDom

It's difficult to mention a potential a scammer on here without violating the ToS, but I'll do my best to do it without outright naming names.

Tonight, I received a message on the other side from a Female Slave, 29 in Miami Beach, asking me to write back to one of two free webmail addresses.  My suspicions were aroused because the email was completely generic -- did not refer to common interests, did not demonstrate that she had read my profile, did not address the question of why a woman in Miami Beach is contacting a guy all the way up in Canada, and, most oddly for someone who has taken the 'slave' descriptor, did not refer to BDSM practices in any way.

Her profile consisted solely of the words "I'm so lonely" and had been up for less than a day.  No BDSM practices on the Interest list.

The combination of these various incongruities (and a few others) suggested strongly to me that this person is spamming the site, and that those who respond to the email addresses she gives will quickly find their addresses being sold to spam lists for porn sites, dating services, and penis enlargement.

Maybe I'm paranoid, but my suspicion is that there's at least fifty other guys on here who have received the very same message from the same individual.  Am I right?  Anyone else?


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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 12:44:16 AM   
SamKeithsslave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sleazy
An oddity about dialling codes here in the UK is that a what appears to be a cell number can actually be set so that the subscriber recieves money for calls made to that number


There was/is a similar scam happening in Australia. People recieve "missed call" notices on their mobiles, as soon as they try to return the call they are charged $40. I never return calls to numbers I do not recognise, I figure if its important enough they will recall me.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 12:53:49 AM   
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Interesting....the scamming thing happens a lot, and it will continue happening I am sure....recently I was stupid enough to reply to an ad for a female submissive who lived in another state, and to my great surprise, after three days, she wrote back with her phone number....that got me suspicious, and frankly have not called....it was another few days before her profile was taken down....also interesting she did list interests in the lifestyle, hence I was not originally suspicious.....strange isn't it? Does that happen to other people out there?

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 12:54:06 AM   
sleazy


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Luckily cell/personal numbers whilst expensive are not the worst here. There was a pretty good scam here where a "damsel in distress" would ask if they could make a call having lost their phone, and then call a premium rate number for a few minutes and often not disconnect, so folks would just slip their phone back in a pocket all the while it was calling at anything up to a couple of pounds a minute.

Edited to add, fortunately(?) Im way too much of a cynic and sceptic to be easily had. The biggest problem I have come across I mentioned in a thread elsewhere, and that is folks asking for help with rent/bills/clothes for children etc after what I would consider too short a time. Whilst Im normally a generous person I tend to restrict my generosity in greater things to either true friends that I know and respect, or where I can be certain I am doing good rather than just lining pockets or buying favours

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 1:07:35 AM   
heavenishere4u


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I have come accross the paypal scam. The person says they need help but they have money but need a paypal account to access it. Can they use your details. once they have these they can access the account and the card/s registered to it.I simply said no and moved on.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 1:13:12 AM   
MasterKalif


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sleazy

Luckily cell/personal numbers whilst expensive are not the worst here. There was a pretty good scam here where a "damsel in distress" would ask if they could make a call having lost their phone, and then call a premium rate number for a few minutes and often not disconnect, so folks would just slip their phone back in a pocket all the while it was calling at anything up to a couple of pounds a minute.

Edited to add, fortunately(?) Im way too much of a cynic and sceptic to be easily had. The biggest problem I have come across I mentioned in a thread elsewhere, and that is folks asking for help with rent/bills/clothes for children etc after what I would consider too short a time. Whilst Im normally a generous person I tend to restrict my generosity in greater things to either true friends that I know and respect, or where I can be certain I am doing good rather than just lining pockets or buying favours


sleazy that reminds me....I had a submissive once tell me she had two kids...and wished to move to me....while I was flattered, as soon as I read about the kids involved, I became highly suspicious of her motives, and probably wanted me to take care of all three financially....as soon as I told her I could not do that, she gracefully dissappeared, and while I mentioned that we should stay friends, she has never chatted with me since....I guess as my dear mother says "always think the worst and you will be right" lol....such negativity, but in the end, you can never be too careful.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 1:15:57 AM   
SamKeithsslave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sleazy

Luckily cell/personal numbers whilst expensive are not the worst here. There was a pretty good scam here where a "damsel in distress" would ask if they could make a call having lost their phone, and then call a premium rate number for a few minutes and often not disconnect, so folks would just slip their phone back in a pocket all the while it was calling at anything up to a couple of pounds a minute.

Edited to add, fortunately(?) Im way too much of a cynic and sceptic to be easily had. The biggest problem I have come across I mentioned in a thread elsewhere, and that is folks asking for help with rent/bills/clothes for children etc after what I would consider too short a time. Whilst Im normally a generous person I tend to restrict my generosity in greater things to either true friends that I know and respect, or where I can be certain I am doing good rather than just lining pockets or buying favours


Oh Lordy yes! Red Flag if they ask for money!!
BTW can you spare a dime?

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 1:37:24 AM   
sleazy


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For you SKS, sure anytime. My preffered currency of choice is jelly beans but I can't find the correct conversion rate in paypal

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 4:04:45 AM   
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quote:

Im way too much of a cynic and sceptic to be easily had. The biggest problem I have come across I mentioned in a thread elsewhere, and that is folks asking for help with rent/bills/clothes for children etc after what I would consider too short a time. Whilst Im normally a generous person I tend to restrict my generosity in greater things to either true friends that I know and respect, or where I can be certain I am doing good rather than just lining pockets or buying favours


Interestingly, "male subs" that are scamming do the opposite...they start offering money.  My assumption is that they're either trying to get my paypal information (I cancelled my account when they stopped servicing small BDSM business owners) or the like.  I don't know - I've never gone along with it so who knows what information they are hoping to get by appealing to some folks' greedy nature.   

I have suggested that if they are looking to give away their money, they could always make a donation to the Red Cross or to their local food bank, who will be much more appreciative than I would be, and frankly need it far more.   Oddly enough, that usually gets them to stop talking to me, never to be heard from again. 

Then again, I'm transferring to a far more expensive college this fall...maybe I ought to start a tuition fund ;-)

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 4:44:55 AM   
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My favorite is the ones who come to this contry to live with their submissives thinking that they can get instant citizenship. I can't believe how many women fall for that garbage.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 7:13:13 AM   
QuietDom


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sleazy

For you SKS, sure anytime. My preffered currency of choice is jelly beans but I can't find the correct conversion rate in paypal


Last I checked, the rate was something on the order of 1.5 jellybeans to the ju-jube.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 7:13:22 AM   
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You're online.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 7:18:22 AM   
findmedaddy


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I got a note yesterday, with phone number and photos, from a male dom. So it's happening on both sides of the coin and we should all be aware of it.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 10:08:41 AM   
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There's a great one up in North Carolina with all the classic Nigerian scammer hallmarks - she can't speak English very well and her name doesn't sound quite right, but she claims to be a "model from the US" who is in "West Africa states" for "official purpose".  She am a model and she like her modelling.  The photo is a sexy blonde chick in a bikini with trees in the background.  

Somebody oughtta have fun with this.  http://www.ebolamonkeyman.com

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 10:14:00 AM   
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Thanks for the info on the missed cell calls. I'll make sure to never call a number I dont know.

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RE: Suspicious Profile - 11/30/2006 11:19:04 AM   
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I used to do a lot of scam baiting....cruel yeah maybe a little...but my thoughts are if i am wasting thier time then that is time they are not using ripping folks off...
 
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