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losttreasure -> Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/29/2006 6:26:25 PM)

Seeing a few of the responses in marieToo's post, I'm now curious to see what the majority of opinions here are on the matter of breast augmentation.

Over the years I was always against any type of body modification for merely aesthetic reasons... liposuction, nose jobs and breast implants seemed more along the lines of self-mutilation rather than body enhancement. 

My opinions mellowed a bit in my "old age" and I began to consider that if making a change in one's body made them feel better about themselves, then perhaps it wasn't all bad.  I even reached a point where I thought that perhaps I might even consider breast augmentation for myself to restore a more youthful lift to breasts that had seen better days before nursing three babies.

However, in the past year or so I've noticed a great number of woman who have had breast implants... from the average grocery store clerk to high fashion models... and to be honest, I can't say that I like the looks of them.  I can see where they greatly enhance the appeal of the emaciated model, especially if she is modeling swimsuits or underwear.   Though I do think it's a bit deceptive... leading young men and women to believe that there's something wrong with a girl if she doesn't possess "Barbarella" boobs but have a rail thin body.

At any rate, I've come full circle... at least concerning breast implants... and have decided that I can live with a bit of a droop.  Being honest with myself, I have very nice breasts... they might be a little lower than they were when I was twenty, but damn... at least they aren't up around my neck and look like they will pop at any moment.

How do you feel about breast implants?




LTRsubNW -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/29/2006 6:32:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: losttreasure

Seeing a few of the responses in marieToo's post, I'm now curious to see what the majority of opinions here are on the matter of breast augmentation.

Over the years I was always against any type of body modification for merely aesthetic reasons... liposuction, nose jobs and breast implants seemed more along the lines of self-mutilation rather than body enhancement. 

My opinions mellowed a bit in my "old age" and I began to consider that if making a change in one's body made them feel better about themselves, then perhaps it wasn't all bad.  I even reached a point where I thought that perhaps I might even consider breast augmentation for myself to restore a more youthful lift to breasts that had seen better days before nursing three babies.

However, in the past year or so I've noticed a great number of woman who have had breast implants... from the average grocery store clerk to high fashion models... and to be honest, I can't say that I like the looks of them.  I can see where they greatly enhance the appeal of the emaciated model, especially if she is modeling swimsuits or underwear.   Though I do think it's a bit deceptive... leading young men and women to believe that there's something wrong with a girl if she doesn't possess "Barbarella" boobs but have a rail thin body.

At any rate, I've come full circle... at least concerning breast implants... and have decided that I can live with a bit of a droop.  Being honest with myself, I have very nice breasts... they might be a little lower than they were when I was twenty, but damn... at least they aren't up around my neck and look like they will pop at any moment.

How do you feel about breast implants?



Breast implants.

Are they titties?

Do they look like titties?

I'm in.




MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/29/2006 6:56:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: losttreasure
How do you feel about breast implants?


I have seen breast implants there were well-done and flattered the woman's form.  I know someone of moderate height and stature who had hers enhanced to a "C" cup and it has a visually pleasing effect.  Her breasts are not so large that they're the only thing you notice about her, but they do enhance her beauty.
 
On the other hand, I have seen some that all but screamed fake.  For example, I work with a rail-thin woman in her forties who has had two children.  It is highly unlikely that someone as thin as she is would have breasts the size of hers (they look like D's or DD's), and if they did, they would have a soft naturalness and give to them.  Hers are hard as a rock, sit unnaturally high on her body, don't move when she moves, and look totally unnatural. In her case, I really think the fake breasts detract from her beauty.  She has a very pretty face, but most people's eyes don't make it up that high.
 
So I guess it all depends.  If a woman selects an enhancement suitable for her height and frame, and the job is well-done, I think it can improve her appearance.  If she selects outrageously large breasts in proportion to her height and frame and/or the job is poorly done, it can detract from her appearance and give her an artificial look.
 
Lady Topaz





WyrdRich -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/29/2006 7:01:59 PM)

      I appreciate the look of a top quality boob job, but most just look 'wrong' somehow.  No matter how many thousands of dollars are into the reconstruction though, they just don't feel right. 




Morrigel -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/29/2006 7:03:06 PM)

Absolutely hate breast implants.  For a number of reasons.  Not least the fact that the surgery tends to take the population which is most at risk for breast cancer--women with small, dense-tissue breasts--and makes them much less likely to detect a lump early enough to prevent it from being fatal.

As a photographer I dislike the way they look.  As a feminist I automatically distrust any painful, invasive and grotesque medical procedure which women undergo in our society by the thousands and which men never even consider.

Let's be honest--if you told a man that he needed to flay open his ballsack and have a couple of baggies of silicone sewn up into it in order to make himself more attractive to women?  And that this would likely increase his risk of cancer, as well as the amount of money he'd make as a stripper?

He'd slowly back toward the nearest exit and then have you committed.  It mystifies me that women don't do the same.

--M




BitaTruble -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/29/2006 8:05:00 PM)

Not something I would consider unless it was medically necessary or Himself, for some odd reason, thought I should have it done and it wouldn't be for an implant but a reduction.

::skips off singing .. Do your boobs hang low .. do they wobble to and fro::

Celeste




petdave -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/29/2006 8:47:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Morrigel
Let's be honest--if you told a man that he needed to flay open his ballsack and have a couple of baggies of silicone sewn up into it in order to make himself more attractive to women?  And that this would likely increase his risk of cancer, as well as the amount of money he'd make as a stripper?

He'd slowly back toward the nearest exit and then have you committed.  It mystifies me that women don't do the same.


i wouldn't be so quick to assume that... thar be perverts here. Already had 12 genital piercings and a vasectomy, what's a bit more knifework? More attractive to women, AND more money stripping, then i'm in!

i see nothing wrong with aftermarket boobies, and prefer them to some kinds of natural breasts (i'll avoid specifics so that no one gets insulted). It's your body, if you want to change it, have fun.

...dave




UtopianRanger -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/29/2006 9:14:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: losttreasure

Seeing a few of the responses in marieToo's post, I'm now curious to see what the majority of opinions here are on the matter of breast augmentation.

Over the years I was always against any type of body modification for merely aesthetic reasons... liposuction, nose jobs and breast implants seemed more along the lines of self-mutilation rather than body enhancement. 

My opinions mellowed a bit in my "old age" and I began to consider that if making a change in one's body made them feel better about themselves, then perhaps it wasn't all bad.  I even reached a point where I thought that perhaps I might even consider breast augmentation for myself to restore a more youthful lift to breasts that had seen better days before nursing three babies.

However, in the past year or so I've noticed a great number of woman who have had breast implants... from the average grocery store clerk to high fashion models... and to be honest, I can't say that I like the looks of them.  I can see where they greatly enhance the appeal of the emaciated model, especially if she is modeling swimsuits or underwear.   Though I do think it's a bit deceptive... leading young men and women to believe that there's something wrong with a girl if she doesn't possess "Barbarella" boobs but have a rail thin body.

At any rate, I've come full circle... at least concerning breast implants... and have decided that I can live with a bit of a droop.  Being honest with myself, I have very nice breasts... they might be a little lower than they were when I was twenty, but damn... at least they aren't up around my neck and look like they will pop at any moment.

How do you feel about breast implants?



A nice set of tah tah's in a tight-ass tank top is definitely a virtue......but I'd never encourage my lady friend to gain them from plastic surgery.


- R




DomKen -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 12:02:36 AM)

I've seen some breat implants where the breast and nipple were still sensitive and the pround owner had to show me the incision scar under bright lights to convince me they were'nt real and I've seen, and slept with the owner of, a really bad set of huge fake boobs with pancake nipples and no feeling at all in the breast.

Unless you have the money and can get implants done by the very best surgeon stick to nature.

Further to losttreasure:
There is a surgery called a breast lift, mastopexy(?), that doesn't involve implants it is supposedly similiar in concept to a face lift.




SirKenin -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 1:13:21 AM)

Well, as the resident boobie expert (lol) I can say that I have not seen a boob job yet that looks appealing.  They are instantly recognizable, look gross, unnatural and they do not even have nice cleavage.  You see one boobie pointing out one way and six inches later the other one pointing out the other.  It is revolting.  Big boobs should have cleavage and just a little bit of "droop" to them.  I would rather see small, perky boobies than big fake ones.




MistressTexas -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 1:21:20 AM)

Considering I think mine are too ruddy large as is, I would personally not get them at this point in my life. Looking at my family history of breast cancer though, I've come to the conclusion that I would be okay with having reconstructive surgery. I'm built very solidly, and I feel that my breasts balance it out. on the other hand, if I were to lose a bunch of weight, for instance if I drop down to my fight weight of 105-112 (HAH!), and my breasts for some reason ( I blame my mother) remain a DD, I would be first in line for a reduction.
I'm a bit creeped out by the implants that will leave bruises if you try to hug the woman, or nipples that point at the chin. I think for implants to be pleasant in the least, they have to look and feel natural, with a semblance of natural movement.




meatcleaver -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 1:22:21 AM)

Boob jobs seem to lift and separate and tend to look like two jelly moulds on a gay man's chest. Nothing appealing about them at all. I find saggy breasts more appealing. Its the confidence of the woman slapping them in your face that makes their assets so sexy so appealing.




meatcleaver -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 1:26:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Morrigel

Let's be honest--if you told a man that he needed to flay open his ballsack and have a couple of baggies of silicone sewn up into it in order to make himself more attractive to women?  And that this would likely increase his risk of cancer, as well as the amount of money he'd make as a stripper?



Let's be honest, many women get them done because of their own insecurities not because a man has told her to do it. Now women may blame those insecurities on a male dominated society but I've yet to meet a man that prefers a boob job to natural so the pressure isn't coming from men. It seems to me the biggest drive behind the body modification industry are women themselves wanting to compete with other women.




SirKenin -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 1:30:43 AM)

Heh.  This whole thing has gotten Me to thinking of the ultimate example, Pamela Anderson.  Those are positively the most disgusting boobies I have ever seen.  Why she ever did that to herself I will never know, but I can not imagine Tommy Lee begging for more than a handful.




eyesopened -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 2:41:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Morrigel

Let's be honest--if you told a man that he needed to flay open his ballsack and have a couple of baggies of silicone sewn up into it in order to make himself more attractive to women?  And that this would likely increase his risk of cancer, as well as the amount of money he'd make as a stripper?

--M


Let's be honest, if there was a genuine, and proven out-patient procedure to make a man's penis larger, they would be lined up around the block whether women found it more attractive or not.   *laughs*

When i was 24 and weighed a mere 100lbs i tried on a gorgeous evening gown for a special event.  There was saggy flapping air-pockets in the dress where the breasts were supposed to go....it wasn't designed for fried-egg titties, just average titties.   i cried and cried in the dressing room.  i talked to a brillant surgeon who told me that he works within the frame and structure of the existing form, that the size he would make me would be larger than a B and slightly less than a C. He was also ahead of his time, using only saline implants, not silicone.  nearly 30 years later i've breast-fed two children, had clean mammograms, don't look like a freak and have never once regretted my decision to boost my own self-esteem.  i was might have been more attractive as a skinny flat-chested 24 year old but i feel more beautiful today.




sleazy -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 2:50:59 AM)

Well personally I have no experience of enlargement, and I suspect if they had a natural feel and look to them and they were reasonably in proportion I would not object to them.

I have on the other hand had a relationship with a lady who had undergone a reduction, for her own reasons she thought they were a problem for her and so had them reduced. The only downside to the operation was the transplant of the nipples left them insensitive.

Generally though I have yet to find a natural set that I objected to, if they were a little old and saggy, so what all that proves is that a woman is a woman and there is nothing nicer than a real woman.




FangsNfeet -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 3:10:41 AM)

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

The only critisisim that I have about breast implants / augmentation is that most women loose a great deal of sensitivity in that area. Her breast may be beautiful but if biteing, nipple clamps, and ice cubes can't be felt, then where's the fun?




LadyEllen -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 4:27:26 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

When i was 24 and weighed a mere 100lbs i tried on a gorgeous evening gown for a special event.  There was saggy flapping air-pockets in the dress where the breasts were supposed to go....it wasn't designed for fried-egg titties, just average titties.   i cried and cried in the dressing room.  i talked to a brillant surgeon who told me that he works within the frame and structure of the existing form, that the size he would make me would be larger than a B and slightly less than a C. He was also ahead of his time, using only saline implants, not silicone.  nearly 30 years later i've breast-fed two children, had clean mammograms, don't look like a freak and have never once regretted my decision to boost my own self-esteem.  i was might have been more attractive as a skinny flat-chested 24 year old but i feel more beautiful today.



I totally identify with that! Its not so much an issue with street clothes, but if you want to wear almost anything special, you have to have more than a handful, or it just doesnt work. I just bought this really nice strapless dress for parties and so on and its like the disappearing boobs spell by some random magician - the whole thing relies on a tight fit at the chest to stay on, and consequently squashes everything flatter, which aint good when there's not much there to start with!

So next year I'm flying to Prague to get something done about it with a very reputable Czech surgeon. (cheap because of the exchange rate etc, but no way nasty). She's done thousands in her time, and tells you what is possible and what will be best (had the consultation in August). I like her approach to the whole thing; much better than some back street idiot who will do whatever you ask for if you have the money. The key for me is balanced, aesthetically pleasing, proportionate - the likes of Pam Anderson (and a lot of pin ups too) dont seem to have the same goals, but if theyre happy like that, more power to them. I have enough problems with my back already, thank you!

I'm doing it for me, and to be honest anyone who judges me adversely 'cause I have implants is entitled to their opinion, and thats that. Just wait till they hear what else I'm gonna have done is all I can say......!

E




twicehappy -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 5:10:02 AM)

I want a boob job as soon as they figure out how to fill them with helium.
 
At 38DDD size is not my problem, carrying them around is my problem, helium would make them float, lmao. 




Chloelicious -> RE: Breasts... Natural or Not? (11/30/2006 6:25:17 AM)

I got nothing to complain about regarding  my tits (mostly when  i talk about them with other people, they say that i got a nice rack or at least  nothing to change ) but i m a bit "annoyed" because All the women in my family (mother and father's side) had/have big natural breasts and when i look at theirs then mine i feel "depressed"; even my little sister who is 18 have bigger breasts then me.[:(]

On the other hands my older sister who have probably a 44 DD (naturally) would be really really delighted with a reduction, she tells that this is really painfull for her back, that men dont look much at her eyes but only  the chest part and  in Belgium it is frustrating  to see how bra's are ugly when you are over a 44 C.So I think that i will "stick" to my 42C.

Maybe when i get older and/or loose a bit of weight would I think about a breast lift.[:D]

Ps: the most important thing is : As long as it holds in the hand of a fair man [;)]




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