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raiken -> RE: Flip side to limits (11/23/2006 6:03:34 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee
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ORIGINAL: raiken
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ORIGINAL: Tikkiee
I have never used safewords either. But then I NEVER play casually with anyone. My liking of pain is so intense that the person who I am with has to know me very well.
~same here....~as the chemistry intensifies between another and myself, so does the intensity level of what i desire and am able to receive .
Mine is a bit different. Up till recently, I used pain as a way of reaffirming to myself that I was still able to feel. The more pain inflicted, the more I felt alive. So, someone could whip me into a bloody pulp and I would still want more, for the simple reason that it brings those feelings about.
Anyone who I do play with, has to know me very, very well to be able to control that in me.
~understands, and is glad you know yourself so well. There are those that aren't as sure of themselves, and for those folks, i believe a safeword is most beneficial. i used to identify with pain in much the same way when i was much younger. As i began to reach more mature levels of emotional understanding within myself, i was able to experience my feelings through other areas along with the pain aspect. i didn't feel so numb anymore. It has taken me many years to come to this stage in my growth and understanding of who i am and what i truly desire. ~thanks for sharng.
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