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onlythewindknows -> RE: outing (11/18/2006 9:23:34 PM)
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i have been outed more than once. i had a few motivations for not letting the whole world know before, for, honestly i think everyone who knows me, now knows but it is a "don't ask don't tell" thing. The motivations were a combination of: annoyance in not wanting people to hit on me more for all the wrong reasons (ooh look what I was missing), concern in not wanting to scare my nervous nellie relatives, anger that i was not given the chance to tell on my own time, and uncertainty because i did not know early on where i exactly "fit in" in the scene because i knew people in the scene but our worlds didn't mesh, etc. The older i get the more i am content that i am really just an "old fashioned girl looking for an old fashioned guy with a penchant for ropes" and f**k the rest.
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