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RE: Master Frenzy? (long) - 11/15/2006 8:30:06 AM

RiotGirl

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I would of like, you also declined. There's nothing like traumatising another and who wants to go there? Before my Dom has ever intiated a 3some, he has always asked me what i thought - where i was. I would of told him, i didnt feel comfortable and i wasnt okay with it. I would of also suggested that the 3 of us have a converstation about it and prompted her to come clean. So we could all be on the same page. If she refused to come clean, i would explain my actions at a later time with him. Explaining to him what i know and letting him handle it from there.

edited to add - <grins> if he STILL felt the need to go through with it, i would calmly explain the negative consequences of doing so.

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RE: Master Frenzy? (long) - 11/15/2006 9:33:32 AM

slavemaia

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Relationships - real relationships take lots of time to develop. There are so many players. i'm not saying playing isn't fun, but i think ultimately one has to decide "what do i really want? what is meaningful to me?" Then go from there. Personally i will never understand polly - it's just not my thing, so to me it doesn't come across as a genuine connection - once again, that's me.

i dabbled around with Doms before i met my Master. i even got involved in a poly situation because i wasn't looking to be real serious with that particular Dom. But in the long run it did incur some pain - and not the kind i like. This lifestyle is no different than any in that we can play around with it, or we can get real. i chose to get real, but at my age i don't have alot of time to mess around - lol.

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RE: Master Frenzy? (long) - 11/15/2006 10:22:59 AM

LotusSong

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Great post Quivver. You showed very good judgment.

There was a situation where the Dom took on a sub who claimed to be bi-sexual (her only experience was one time in college) Anyhow, she had an acquaintance that WAS bisexual with experience. O'l master-boy got wind of this and decided he'd have himself a little show with his sub giving head to her acquaintance. It was disastrous. The sub had NO clue how to give head. Nor did the Dom know what to instruct her in. The acquittance just suffered through the encounter.

I think the idea the boys have of this lifestyle is the presumption all the women have to do what they are told without question, is the primary driving force.

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