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"To learn the art of submission a slave must first give up the desires that drew him to submission in the first place." Mistress Jasmyn Jan 2005.

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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Mmm erotic suffering ... a game anyone can play ;)  it is music to my ears to hear a pitiful moan, fraught with torment and acceptence when he is denied some relief ....knowing how desperately he wants to be allowed to orgasm... amping it up and down ... playing him and his predicament ...
 
"poor baby, do you really want to cum for me?"
"oh gawd yes ...pleeeaasse Mistress pleeeaassse may I cum for you?" 
"No" ...
 
One thing I like to do is him on his knees, hands tethered behind his back, in a chastity device, or cock and balls bound, legs spread ... grabbing a handful of hair and pulling his head back, looking in to his eyes and leaning over him telling him how much he wants to feel my cunt slide down of his cock ...slowly lowering myself down..getting him to tell me how much he wants to feel that ... how desperately he needs to feel that ... squatting now .. his cock millimetres from my cunt ... telling him how easy it would be for me to pull away my panties and slide the tip of his cock into my pussy ... asking him if he can feel the heat of my cunt ... the wetness ...  how on fire I am ... always, always ...in control .. gripping his hair, pulling his head to one side ... making him beg... pinching a nipple ... pushing him away ... only to pull him back and kiss him...passionately...roughly ...
 
Telling him how much the idea of his throbbing hard cock between my legs is turning me on ... and how easy it would be for me to forget myself right know and fuck him ... hard ... ride his cock ... pounding him ... feeling his cock sliding in and out my cunt ... and cumming ... cumming inside me ... watching his reactions ... only to push him away when he's begging to the point of frustration for just that ..depending what his kick is ...denying him because "he's not worthy" ...or "hasn't earned the right to take such liberties" ... or teasing him about his predicament ... lovingly, laughing, been a minx...telling him how easy it is to get him worked up ... no wonder he needs ME to control his orgasms...if I didn't I'm sure he'd be out humping legs of stray dogs...telling him he is a slut...a whore ... a toy for me to use and abuse (in the nicest possible way of course ;)  ...and for him to never forget I OWN his cock ...I own his pleasure ... and right now it doesn't please me to fuck him ...

Ringing him up, anytime of the day or night, and having him masturbate for me
 
Another one I like is again getting hot and horny with him, having an orgasm myself ...then peeling off my wettened panties and have him wear these while we go out visiting or for dinner ...
 
I like to remind him that I am in control ...not just of his orgasms but mine ... that I'll take them wherever and whenever I want ...
 
Tying a tag around his cock and balls which reads "property of Jasmyn" and making him wear it daily ...adding a crotch rope ... sending him to a meeting with his cock and balls tied ... someone awhile back on the boards suggested a roll of postage stamps be put around the penis at night ...if the stamps split in the morning ...teasing them about their nocturnal thoughts ...
 
Making parts of my body off limits for a week ..then spending the entire week creating opportunities where he breathlessly begs to touch what he's not allowed too ...
 
Oh and sending them off to do little tasks, horny sweet nothings I call them ... like buying some ky, or finding an erotic story, or shaving if they arent, or telling them to not shave but to let me know when the pubic hair is so many millimetres, or telling him to find some rope ...anything he can correllate to his predicament ...only to go thank you and put the item away ... a kind of anticipate everything, expect nothing ...
 
I have always wanted to find a travelling salesman I can tease and deny from afar ... in chastity, travelling from place to place ... not knowing whether the next hotel will be the one where I have sent his key ... or whether it will be more dastardly decadent denial for him and horny times for me ;)