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BitaTruble -> RE: Newbee Confusion (10/19/2006 4:06:46 PM)
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ORIGINAL: SeaPerversity
I saw something today which brought mirth
He giggled ..
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as well as disappointment,
He also cried.
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mirth because it was so ludicrous,
Ok, he didn't giggle, he just thought that what happened was utterly ridiculous that it made him shake his head in wonderment it could happen at all.
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and disappointment because this once neurological and physical Way of Life,
he was sad because the physical and mental aspects of BDSM
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dependant of two basic models, one alpha, the other beta.
which are dependant upon a dynamic of authority and the giving up of authority have been corrupted.
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So when I see a beta personality type, as in a lil' daddies girl, of teen age profess to be a domme, and then explain to me that there are Age-play Dominants who take the beta position, I was somewhat aghast at the prospect
He was not happy that a dominant would bottom to a submissive. (He is confusing S/M orientation with M/s orientation, but that's ok. He is, by his own confession, a newbie.)
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( On this site apparently twenty or so beta males
20 male subs
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profess to be alpha males
claim to be dominant
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as in submissive Dominants Authoritarians
as in Topping
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True there are switches who can accomodate both alpha and beta roles, but to be honest this was a new one for me to chew over.
I'm new and don't quite 'get' it.
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Then we take the lil daddies girl to be expecting generosity / gifts for her role as a beta-alpha personality, which leads to even further doubts as to its understanding.
I don't want to have to spend money on a bottom.
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I know there to be professional Alpha personalities that do charge for their time and efforts as is quite expected,
I have no problems with Pro doms
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but for a teen aged personality to be expecting generosity or gifts for her company then reduces them to a *nilla* personality playing the oldest known profession of expecting financial respompense in return for their use.
but pro subs are a limit and anyone who acts like a pro sub is a whore.
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All I can say to that beta -alpha sam personality is,
Wannabe
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have you ever researched this Way of Life with any modicum of comprehension or understanding, and the answer is, obviously not !
I have a One True Way - resistance is futile. If you don't do it my One True Way, you're a fake.
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You are either an authorative (alpha), a switch (alpha / beta or beta / alpha)or a submissive-slave-property (beta)
There are doms, switchs, subs and slaves.
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By it's own known label a lil daddies girl is exactly what it says it is, mind you at the age given as eighteen, it goes to show how little you really do acknowledge of this Way of Life, or Life itself.
Be your label, don't deviate.. it confuses me. If you deviate, you're a fake.
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One day your confusion may grow into understanding and experience, but I pity any you beta personalities who erringly give theirself into your confused world.
Since you don't do things the way I think you should do things, I'll put you in the kettle of fakes, posers and wannabes, because I'm real.. but, if you listen to what I have to say and do it the way I do it, then one day you may be real too.
Celeste - Collarme Translator
edited to fix quotes
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