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AquaticSub -> RE: Inscurity in a Dom/Domme (10/19/2006 9:26:50 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar
As usual picked this up from reading another post. What do you consider a sign of insecurity in a Dom/Domme. What are the red flags. How would you handle it.
A little insecurity isn't a bad thing. It's been said here a dozen times, but everyone gets a bit insecure. The things that set off my red flags are:
-Demanding I started refering to myself as "this girl". No offense to the girls who do, but that isn't my style. I'm Aqua and I'll be your dirty little whore, but I'm still Aqua.
-Demanding I change the way I type to reflect my owned status.
-Insisting that I no longer think for myself and must agree with him
-Trying to remove my right to consent or not consent to the things happening to me. (And before I get fussed at... I ain't a slave, I don't follow those rules)
After that it's the standard relationship red flags: Trying to keep me away from my friends and family, being overly possessive... all that great scary stuff.
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